I am very depressed now and I feel it's my dad's fault..Am i bad to think that?

hi...i'm sorry to hear about the drift between you and your dad. sometimes, they love us too much that we feel choked up. They are so protective that there are some things that we consider ok (and i suppose, it is) yet they are against it. the fact that you are hurting right now because of what happened between you and your dad, means that you love him so much. I think you need to talk to him. Primarily, communication is the key to a relationship (father-child). Tell him how you feel about being prohibited and also, listen to his side (as to why he does what he do.) And it would be best if you will arrive at a certain compromise. Your dad loves you so much, too. Hope you will mend your relationship soon. God bless. =)

I am sorry for your situation. I really do feel for you. I can not imagine living under those circumstances. Here's the thing, while you are living under their roof - you do have to obey by their rules of: maybe what time they want everyone in at night, maybe no strange company over, etc. Basically, rule that alot of people set up that is considered respect to the hosuehold and those who run it. Problem: you are 24 years old and they are telling you who you can and can not be friends with???????? There is a problem there which may be much deeper then what I would discuss on a board like this. You may have no choice to either deal with it and have no friends as it seems your father would want (he seems to like control) or you can move out which as an adult - you have every right to do. Then, you have to right to run your life any way you decide. You are 24 years old....Time to start acting like the adult you should be becoming. I'm not trying to insult you. But the issues you are explaining you are delaing with are something I would expect to hear from a 16 year old who still needs the guidence of their parents and basically have no choice. You are not 16 - you are 24 years old. You don't need that sort of guidence any more. You have a choice. I would move out if I were you....that is - if making your own decisions in life is important to you.