survey: who is more serious and emotional in a relationship, a guy or a girl?
By caite216
@caite216 (16)
Philippines
April 11, 2007 12:02am CST
I'm just curious on what's the majority stand in this subject. I hope you guys would answer it by the way you feel and not by the way you like and believe. and please justify your answers. for me, i can feel that my guy is more serious in terms of our relationship, i seem to be a little girl when he's serious and emotional.. hope to hear from you guys!thanks..
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8 responses
@akinad (446)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
well i think girls are pretty emotional than guys but on second thought..some guys would tend to become more emotionally attached with their partners such as in ur situation right now..guys when inlove are like that..they become really serious and somewhat possessive..but i think it's just fine if they still know what their limits in your relationship..
@delenep (212)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Girls' emotions progress faster in a relationship than a guy's. It's just the way we're constructed, but she has the choice of keeping her emotions in check until she feels secure enough in the relationship to let them go. Guys' progress faster physically, so girls need to be careful not to give in to him physically until he commits.
@flip_flop_lollipop (97)
• Singapore
11 Apr 07
I really think this isn't a guy or girl thing. It really depends on the relationship and individual. As politically correct as it may sound, I really think so.
Before I got into a relationship, everyone keeps telling me that guys are always the less serious ones in a relationship. But right now, I can safely say that my bf is the more serious of the two of us, wayyy more than me. He's always the one putting up with me and trying to make things work out. But i know couples who are otherwise. So i think there really isn't a hard and fast rule on this. And it definitely doesn't depend on gender.
Guys and gals can get equally serious about their partners.
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
11 Apr 07
I agree with you that guys are more serious in relationships and they deserve to be called more intesne partner for serious affairs. I was also one of the serious community. Now I'm married to her and think that I love her more than she loves me. Regarding emotions , she is more emotional than me as I'm more practical than her.
@balasundaram (297)
• India
11 Apr 07
When it comes to relationship i agree that guys are more emotional and serious.They are also more caring and give respect to their girls and they wont let their girls down!
@jenalyn (675)
• United States
11 Apr 07
I think in my relationship my husband is more serious, but I am more emotional. I get upset when he hurts my feelings, and I can't get over it until he apologizes. I think he is more serious than I am because he always wants to analyze everything and talk about the facts of our relationship when we talk. I want to have stimulating conversation when we talk and don't like to be serious about our conversations. He has always been more serious about me from the begining, I never trusted him enough to get as serious about him as he is me. I get emotionally attached and he it lasts. He gets emotionally attached and it lasts 3 days. I think all of that makes our relationship interesting.