Do you make friends or find them?

I let people find me, as I am not that a friendly-type of a person. I am always the ones who keeps my mouth shut, and let them do the talking. by that, I could learn from them, study their personality and observe their behaviors. If they are the one's who initiates the first signal, then that's the time that I will introduce myself to them. If we jell together, then it's nice. But if we don't have anything in common or any particular likes at each other, then I say thanks to them. I always try to keep myself laid back, as I do not want others to make easy judgements upon me.

I don't try to find them - I am anti-social LOL. :P I just *stumble* upon them. Any new person I meet, I will try to be friendly (unless I had a bad hair day) and if destiny wills, we will be friends. That's how simple my friend-courtship is. :P

In the real life, I do not have many friends, most of them approach me actively when they know me, may be I am a passive woman. I do not find friends by myself, the friends that i know now are mostly the friends of my friends which they bring them out together in a party. Of course, there is a difference between 'contacts' and friends, friends are someone who know you well and you will share your personal things with him/her while contacts are someone you deal with for business person. It is different in mylot. I will try to find more friends in mylot as I would like to meet more people from different countries and learn their cultures, I will try to find them actively,and add them to my friend list.

I think my friends find me. I try to avoid it, but some of them keep at it and there's just no escape! I have lots of aquaintances, but I don't like to have any more friends than I can be a good friend to.