why do girls expect guys to take initiative while starting a relationship???

guys,guys,guys..you should know that in the real world it is the guys that make the initiative first..especially if ur here in our country where girls are little conservative.. i know the world is fast-changing but why change the course of nature wherein the guys should be the proposing and not the gals??huh??if you really like the girl then make a move..why wait for a girl to make the first move?it's your job!lol

I can't say how it got to be that way, but it I always did this. Girls seemed to just wait around and look their best and wait for us guys to go over to them. Then they'd either like and go out with or make some excuse. Although once, I got quite a suprise. I helped a neighour out moving a washing machine into her home once. I did't know her too well but saw her struggling with the machine and couldn't just stand there doing nothing. She asked me if I could come back later and not expecting a chat-up line, asked what for? "Why do you think?" she replied.. That was the only time that happened to me..

I don't expect a thing, in the traditional sense. We talked about everything, and things just sort of "happened." Any rituals that are added were his idea if he were to innitiate them, or mine if I were to innitiate them. Nothing "formal" about our relationship at all, expect for what works for us. Tradition has nothing to do with it.

yup ... ure defenently right, but i have absolutely no idea why! ... maybe they'r shy to but to me only one time a girl came to me and wanted to start a relationship (probabli because we didn't know each other) and i've been whit lot's of defenently not shy girls and still they expected me to do the first move so ofcours i had to get lot's of curage and ..... tell them over the internet :P (the girl that came to me was my only relationship that started face to face)... it's hard for shy people to get relationships face to face, internet rules :P

Here in The States it is still a part of our culture that the man proposes. For years the only time a woman would ask a man to marry her was during leap year.It is getting better. But there are still women today that won't approach a man that they like or ask him out to dinner.I think they are afraid that if they approach him first that he will think that she is easy or too forward.

Sometime when i made a relationship with my boyfriend there is not because one of us propose but just flow like water, we get closer and connect each other, hang out together. but if we want to get seriously in relationship then i wish my boyfriend started first, maybe because he is the one can make a decision as a girl i hope we getting married but some man don't like commitment.