Breaking up

If he is not the right one for you,i think u r right when choosing to leave him.Marriage is very serious thing.Some men can be good friends,but are not suitable to be husbands.

It's good you were the one to break up with him with the many things that you were considering in your relationship. And it's even great that you don't regret it. Personally, I had a resolution that if my first instinct about the relationship I'm in is not at all good, I'd break it up with him. Always trust your first instinct. My ex and I were together for 8 months as a couple and 3 months in the stage of getting to know each other. During our first week as being exclusive, he ditched me just to pick up his drunk girl friend. And I felt bad that I thought I should break up with him and I know it would hurt much but I gave in to his sorry. After that day, the same thing happened. It was always about his girl friend. Not me as his GIRLFRIEND. Soon enough, he had the nerve to break up with me and I regretted not being the one to do so since he was the one who has shortcomings in the relationship. I was always thinking that I should give him a chance and all that other excuse I could think of just so I would not leave him. But now, I know it is for the best. Maybe God made his own way to end our relationship because He knows that I can't do it.

hello! as they say "breaking up is hard to do" because it's a decision. So you need to weigh things out, but in your case since it's no longer working probably you were not able to manage/compromise. But then you will be able to recover from it. just think that you deserve someone better. Pray to God and He has better plans for you. There's always a rainbow after the rain. Goodluck and i wish you well..