soucalgirl

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Should I forgive my friends?

soleya @soleya (1100) • Latvia 25 Oct 09

Ok, I just found out that my friends went on a trip all together and didn't even asked me if I want to come with them. I got very upset and now don't know what to do. I guess my friends don't care about me at all if they acted...

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soucalgirl I think that you should sit down and talk to your friends. Don't be accusing, just ask them why you were not invited. Once they tell you, you need to ask them to listen to your feelings, explain why you were hurt. After both sides are heard, you may find that...

26 Oct 09

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Are you afraid to talk to strangers?

velentina @velentina (891) • Mauritius 26 Oct 09

i am very afraid to talk to strangers specially men. Once i went for an interview in an unknown place. a stranger approached me to ask me where I was going. I was unwilling to tell him because he was drunk. as I did not reply he...

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soucalgirl I am sorry that you had this negative experience :( I know that these types of experiences can serve as roadblocks, but the important thing is to work out this fear because sadly, it is only limiting you and not the man who antagonized you. I think the saying...

26 Oct 09

I feel tired being a mother and want to get rest fr a while...

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 25 Oct 09

Is it natural that I want to get rest for a while from the activity being a mother? Being freed from everything that related me from a mother role? I mean it doesn't mean I don't like my kids ..no.. I just want a time for my...

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soucalgirl I think that it is so important for mothers to take time everyday for themselves; whether it be giving yourself a mini manicure, going shopping by yourself, or planning a weekend spa get-away. Wanting some time to yourself does not mean that you are a bad...

26 Oct 09

Have you ever had suicidal thoughts?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 25 Oct 09

I have had thoughts of suicide before and it was not a good thing. I would have a really bad day and just think about how much happier I would be in heaven. I sometime would think about my life and how bad it was. I relize my life...

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soucalgirl I think that there have been many who have sadly had suicidal thoughts, the important thing is to keep a good perspective. I think that the best way to keep a good perspective is to pray; all you have to do is get on your knees and ask for a knowledge of God's...

26 Oct 09

Do you think "We All Have A Purpose In Life?"

tandmunlimited @tandmunlimited (1252) • United States 23 Oct 09

What do you think your purpose is? Do you think you choose it yourself or it was chosen for you? I mean do you think it was your "Destiny" or did your "Actions" put you there? Do you think (we evolved, was put here,...

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soucalgirl I believe that we are all sons and daughters of God. He loves us very much; each of us has a special purpose here on earth. I believe that through prayer, we can find our divine purpose. God always answers our prayers, it may not be in the manner we expect or...

23 Oct 09

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Do you feel that women are selfish by nature?

think_twice @think_twice (553) • India 23 Oct 09

Some days ago a friend of me has visited my home. During our conversations I talked him about her girlfriend and he violently outbursts against that girl. She deceived him after taking a hugh number of favours, for some of which I...

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soucalgirl I do not believe that all women are selfish. I do not believe that all men are selfish either. In my opinion, it depends on the person. There are so many people in the world that are looking out for number 1 (themself), however there are so many people who...

23 Oct 09

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