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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 12 Feb 07

We've just moved to a new apartment on Friday and one of my cats will not come out from under the bed. I can get him to eat and use the litter box in the bedroom, but I still can't get him to leave that room. Our other cat has no...

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PoeTalker Aww, poor guy. Well it hasn't been that long, but you obviously need to do something. If you have a door for your bedroom I would shut it, and not let him/her in there to hide. You need to make it comfortable slowly in the rooms with doors. Put it in the...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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revdauphinee It is tradition to take the husbands name but i guess these days it dosent realy matter you should do whatever you both can agree on!

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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andak2007 I am using my husbans lastname because it is the tradition and for me personally it is one way to show respect, honor, love and commitment that you are married to that person. True it is really a hassle with all the documents you have to change but when...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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onabreak2 I took my husbands name and now years later I wish I had kept mine and hphenated it. Because it is the end of the line for the name. My Father and Mother had only girls. Thus no boys to carry on the name. My dads brother died before he was old enought to have...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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nicky35 i think its up to you but personally yes.im not married but i would be really excited about it,practicing my new name it would all be part of being married

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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jewel76 I wanted to take my husband's last name, but here in Quebec, it is now a paid option! You have to pay something like 400$ to take your husband's name. They say because there are too many divorces, and it complicates things. I say make the divorcing people pay...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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apky12 I did take my husband's name after marriage. It was a really tough decision for me. I liked my last name. Everyone called me by my last name. It was my identity. I did change my name though because it made my husband happy and it made my dad happy as...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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bhavesh80 According to me i would prefer my wife calling me by any cute nick name like honey, sweetheart, or any other of the same kind.

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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car0811 I did take my husband's name after marriage bec that's the custom here in my country. A married woman should automatically acquire her husband's name.

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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TripleFun i my opinion you should stick to your current name. I have a friend who took her husbands name and wasted a lot of time changing all her documents. if this isn't very important to you husband then i would recommend to stick with your current name. you know the...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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ankitagarwal actually these customs have been made by us only and its on us wether we have to follow them or not according 2 me its not at all neccessary 2 take ur husbands name after marriage infact u have ur own identity and u have right to keep it with u if ur husband...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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CarlyLaine Back in the old days... I didn't love my first husband, I took his last name-married 21 years. When I married Number 2-5.5 years-didn't love him either. I kept all my names...it took too long to write Maiden Name, first, and second married names...now...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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mercury1060 Perhaps work out the pros and cons and see which option has the most going for it. The other thing to consider is if you ever plan to have children, if you do then whose name would you want them to have? Would you be upset if they had your husbands surname?

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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metrobelle I'm still single but when I get married I'll definitely add my husband's name along with mine. It is not just to please him but to feel that I've also become a significant part of my other better half. And also I feel the hassles in changing all the documents...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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akotalagato i always thought that it is mandatory to take your husbands last name when you get married. and you have to go through all the paperwork with changing your name and status in your social security and tax information. but even if it werent mandatory, i would...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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GangstaV yes...it is good to have the husband`s name :D

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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rahulg007 wel i think gals should take there husband names after thre marraige wats the harm ???? and i also would like that my wife take my name after our marraige

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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tanujbhargava eh .. I think you should take the last name of your husband . . Because its a gesture of showing your acceptance .. Of course he would understand if you wouldn't take his last name .. and continue your last name . . It won't matter much .. as you both would...

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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archiee yes i will take my husbands name if i marry. that does not matter. what matters is respect.

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strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

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kgwat70 I have no problem with a woman wanting to keep her own name when getting married as that is her decision and would not force her to take my name. I certainly can understand why a woman would want to keep her name or have her last name and the mans last name...

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