Syndarin

@Syndarin (51)

United States • Age 35

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Discussions (6)

Syndarin's Comments

High heels or Flat?

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 16 Jan 10

What do you prefer to wear? A high heel shoes/sandals or flat? I actually want to wear high heels but its uncomfortable when I wear it too long, it's pretty and beautiful when you look at it but it is uncomfortable so between the...

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Syndarin Exactly! That's why I wish I could wear the heels, but it's just not in the cards for me.

17 Jan 10

How do get motivated in writing a novel?

enieweiz @enieweiz (97) 13 Jan 10

Hi there, i am writing a novel. It's a hobby that i really like but unfortunately i haven't finished one yet. i have started a lot and i could only end up until the middle part of the whole story. i wanted so bad to finish even...

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Syndarin I agree with listening to music while writing, but the best thing I set up for myself is I made a sort of schedule. I set aside an hour a day to do nothing but writing, and usually I can get a lot done because I'm not constantly having to make myself write. If...

16 Jan 10

Purpose

Syndarin @Syndarin (51) • United States 12 May 09

Do you think that you are really born with a set plan for your life, or do you think that you are able to choose how your life turns out by what you do?

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Syndarin I really like that you have a strong belief on this discussion, since not so many others do. I myself think that of course you choose to do what you can, but I do see how you could say fate and destiny are factors in how we end up. My husband and I had this...

12 May 09

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Purpose

Syndarin @Syndarin (51) • United States 12 May 09

Do you think that you are really born with a set plan for your life, or do you think that you are able to choose how your life turns out by what you do?

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Syndarin I agree with you. I never really thought that my actions in adulthood could really be drawn out by someone other than myself. It just wouldn't coincide with free will. Thank you for your opinion.

12 May 09

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Do something for yourself

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 29 Jan 09

When was the last time you actually did something for yourself instead of putting yourself last? I know that I have other priorities to tend to and I like to put son ahead of my needs. I don't do too much for myself. That is just...

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Syndarin Thank you for the advice. Everyone said the first year of marriage is the hardest, and it's definitely lived up to it's name so far. But I'm sure things have to get better. As I've posted in another of your discussions, I want this to last as long as it can. I...

29 Jan 09

Do something for yourself

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 29 Jan 09

When was the last time you actually did something for yourself instead of putting yourself last? I know that I have other priorities to tend to and I like to put son ahead of my needs. I don't do too much for myself. That is just...

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Syndarin I hope my marriage lasts to that point. I love seeing older couples together, especially when it's been 50 plus years. I want that for myself.

29 Jan 09

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