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telmesh @telmesh (1793) 9 May 13

I would suggest that those who not happy with the new style here should give Bubblews a try. I'm guessing this will be removed as the new owners don't like competition.

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telmesh Do you think the original operators would change in such a massive way.

10 May 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 3 May 13

Now that this site has become a web page site I shall not be using it. I will call back and look from time to time but it no longer appeals. All the best to the friends I had on this site previously.

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telmesh @changjiangzhibin89 They may have found that their final post was removed. I dared to criticize the new style in my goodbye and had my post removed the first time ever.

9 May 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 3 May 13

Now that this site has become a web page site I shall not be using it. I will call back and look from time to time but it no longer appeals. All the best to the friends I had on this site previously.

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telmesh I too will miss the many friends including yourself. Just called back and found the response area was hidden.

7 May 13

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 4 Apr 13

My best friend's son is now starting his second year out of work and its really getting to him. I feel bad for both of them as my friend Nelda cannot retire and she is in her seventies until he gets some sort of job.The problem io...

two hyears out of work he needs som

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telmesh Very true Hatley if your out of the job market even only a short time it is very difficult for an employer to take you on. You get out of practice and dispondant so quickly. Even if it's not the job you want, if you keep looking whilst working especially C.V....

11 Apr 13

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telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

positive thinking

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telmesh Hi I turned 65 last November and am aware of how frail we are even if we are physically fit. Had that Noro Virus Christmas day boy was that bad the room seemed to rotate at 90 MPH and trying to get up stairs was not easy. Living in Bristol England we...

22 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh Funny you should say that only to day I reminded her of when she used to walk to the phone box near her home to phone me 2 or 3 times a week, no mobile phones then. We lived about 15 miles away from each other and we used to travel by bus or train to meet up...

22 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh Thanks Mavic my wife is under intensive care at home as the team that calls to our home call it hospital at home. It gives her the opportunity to live as normal a life as she can manage.

22 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh Thanks my friend she is recovering well from the broken wrist but the feeling of low self worth is another thing.

22 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh We are both retired, so I am the one that has to try and keep her mind focused on the good things in life. Yes going out for walks and meals are all good but trying to conquer the bad thoughts is not easy for my wife. Keeping grounded is the only way...

19 Jan 13

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telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh We have a confining snow fall today that is expected to last for up to 4 days so not expecting to much improvement over that time as we need to get out and walk.

18 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh My wife is at the stage were sometimes even the simplest things can be difficult and sometimes impossible. Grounding works very well as the more often the negative thoughts can be blocked the better. Thanks for your best wishes and I'm sure a breakthrough...

18 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh Even with full recovery the little devil ANXIETY is just waiting to have another go at returning the sufferer to the depths of despair and one must take care to always think positive. Always keep talking to someone close.

18 Jan 13

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telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh She has been told it could take up to a year to regain full use of her wrist and arm. The care she is getting is very good and I can already see the improvement.

17 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh Hi lamps, you are right in everything you say but in Britain these days they like to treat at home. At present she is getting daily visits from health care professionals one doctor one nurse it's like hospital at home. In the past it would have been a stay in...

17 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh Hi my friend, my wife fell and broke her wrist. A minor injury but the immobility stopped her driving, this and other things that have happened since August has built into a large anxiety problem. Some really good care is getting her through the problem but it...

17 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh I well understand your guilt feeling. It was a minor injury that my wife suffered being a broken wrist from a simple fall but was probably the most serious she had ever had, being her wrist was immobilised and she did not have the freedom of driving then the...

17 Jan 13

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telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh This reply has been little while coming but improvement is on the way and with daily visits from intensive care unit imparting encouragement. The accident took place in August but just before Christmas the car broke down then I was ill over Christmas so her...

17 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh All negative things can lead to depression apparently the worse they are the more difficult it is to think positive. My wife is now under intensive care with daily visits of one hour duration and spends a lot of time using grounding techniques to block the...

17 Jan 13

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 12 Jan 13

I would like to know if any mylotters have suffered post accident depression. I consider that this is something that has caused me a problem and also appears to be a problem for my wife after breaking her wrist but health...

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telmesh Hi sorry to be so long replying but things have been really busy here and my wife is now receiving intensive home care just to be able to talk to someone for an hour daily so that progress can be monitored. Meds have been changed and they think they have that...

17 Jan 13

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marie2052 @marie2052 (3691) • United States 4 Dec 12

I just found out today that for the next three friday evenings from 6pm to 9pm our main historic street is going to give carriage rides, and they are putting up an ice skating rink. Told my son about it and I think we will stroll...

charles dickens

christmas

ice skating

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telmesh Sorry Marie grandson not son. I just like children to be happy as long as they do not cause distress to others by being mischievous.

2 Jan 13

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