tomcat23

@tomcat23 (621)

Old Forge, Pennsylvania • Age 64

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Making things happen by staying focused and expanding my social network.

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having a textmate is kind of cheating?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 18 Dec 10

hi mylotters, how will you judge a married man having a girl text mate? this man communicate with the girl secretly, and additional of it, this girl was his ex-girlfriend. do you think its a kind of cheating to his wife?

cheating

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tomcat23 It all sounds interesting, but the one thing does remain a fact, it really is his own business and there could be a very good reason why he is keeping it a secret. Maybe it is innocent. Maybe his ex-girlfriend confided in him about something very personal...

18 Dec 10

having a textmate is kind of cheating?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 18 Dec 10

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tomcat23 Exactly right!! It could indeed be the wife's own fault for making him have to keep it a secret. Then of course, maybe they are just having fun keeping it a secret and making people wonder what is going on. It could all be a game. If it wasn't done secretly,...

18 Dec 10

having a textmate is kind of cheating?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 18 Dec 10

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tomcat23 I agree with you MODS. Trust is indeed the key here. The question would actually be "why is he keeping it a secret?"

18 Dec 10

would u still want ur relationship to last forever?

harry89 @harry89 (2330) • India 21 Oct 10

If you really love a person and and that person also loves you a lot but your parents do not agree for your wedding? Then would you still want this relationship to last forever?

love

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tomcat23 I forgot to mention... it will indeed last forever, if the other person shares your feelings of wanting it to last forever...no matter what changes may take place.

21 Oct 10

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Is the grass really greener on the other side?

tomcat23 @tomcat23 (621) • Old Forge, Pennsylvania 29 Aug 10

I've often pondered this question. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, doesn't it mean you need to take better care of your own grass?

life

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tomcat23 Whatever helps you feel satisfied with what you have, people will always be "green with envy"..LOL

30 Aug 10

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Is the grass really greener on the other side?

tomcat23 @tomcat23 (621) • Old Forge, Pennsylvania 29 Aug 10

I've often pondered this question. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, doesn't it mean you need to take better care of your own grass?

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tomcat23 So true!!! Things are not always what they appear to be!

30 Aug 10

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Is the grass really greener on the other side?

tomcat23 @tomcat23 (621) • Old Forge, Pennsylvania 29 Aug 10

I've often pondered this question. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, doesn't it mean you need to take better care of your own grass?

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tomcat23 must be the "fertilizer"!! LOL

30 Aug 10

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Is the grass really greener on the other side?

tomcat23 @tomcat23 (621) • Old Forge, Pennsylvania 29 Aug 10

I've often pondered this question. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, doesn't it mean you need to take better care of your own grass?

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tomcat23 I guess it could also be a point of never being satisfied. At my job, everyone seems to think that working in their department is harder work than all the other departments, but they are the ones who haven't worked in any other department. They think the grass...

30 Aug 10

Is the grass really greener on the other side?

tomcat23 @tomcat23 (621) • Old Forge, Pennsylvania 29 Aug 10

I've often pondered this question. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, doesn't it mean you need to take better care of your own grass?

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tomcat23 That is kind of what I was getting at. Life is basically what you make it, so if you think the grass is greener on the other side, then you need to work harder on your own grass so that you don't see greener pastures, just green pastures like your own. And...

29 Aug 10

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Is the grass really greener on the other side?

tomcat23 @tomcat23 (621) • Old Forge, Pennsylvania 29 Aug 10

I've often pondered this question. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, doesn't it mean you need to take better care of your own grass?

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tomcat23 You can always hire a landscaper to take care of your grass and then the grass should look really green and you won't even have to worry about mowing it. Then people could look and say your grass is greener, in which case your side would be the other...

29 Aug 10

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