valentinesdiner

@valentinesdiner (1214)

United States • Age 65

Joined myLot 15 years ago

"Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but never gets you anywhere."

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Do you maintain the relationship with the in-laws after your marriage is ended?

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 8 Apr 13

Marriage can be ended by divorce or the death of the spouse. My husband passed away last year. I still maintain the relationship with his family. I have 2 kids, and nothing gonna change that my kids still blood related to his...

family

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valentinesdiner NO!!!!! My ex-in-laws were a significant reason for ending our relationship and marriage. I always strive to find the good in everyone I meet, especially those I spend time with because there is a bit of God in each of us. Regarding my ex-in-laws,...

9 Apr 13

anger in realtionship........what to do???

sporwal @sporwal (92) • India 9 Apr 13

hey guys!!!!! I am in a relationship for past 2 years . everything is well and we love each other madly . but mt BF gets angry very fast. i mean if he has argument with anyone he will just come and shout at me and if i utter a...

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valentinesdiner My real, heartfelt advice if he continues to have this explosive anger... RUN!!!!! You deserve better than this.

9 Apr 13

role of nuclear weapons in 21st century?

vgpyogakrishna @vgpyogakrishna (168) • India 9 Apr 13

I have recently studied that north korea is threatening to launch nuclear strike against south korea and america if they provoke the north korea. There lies the question what is the role of nuclear weapon in this era. In fact the...

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valentinesdiner I hope that the work of President Obama and other forward thinking world leaders will work toward a reduction in the number of nuclear weapons in the world. There will always be nukes or even something more damaging in the future as people try to scare each...

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Today I join a site name jobego

AkamaruKei @AkamaruKei (5219) • Malaysia 4 Apr 13

Hello mylotter. I need your help. Today I join a site name jobego.com. We earn for surf, click and discover. It give a good earning. Minimum payout is $5 but I think it not take a lot of time to reach that payout. Question in my...

online earning

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valentinesdiner Is there a minimum payout figure? I work with mturk and they put the income straight to paypal.

4 Apr 13

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no meat during holy week

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 2 Apr 13

do you still believe in this and why?because many people in my country still believe in this kind of Filipino belief,no meat during holy week so people especially in province never sell any pork and meat in the market and the...

meat

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valentinesdiner I used to follow that but mostly because I thought it was a rule to be followed. The underlying issue, taking away something as a sacrifice made more sense to me although the real "sacrifice" for our sins was made so long ago. One year I became so worried...

2 Apr 13

If You Believe You Can't Then You Won't !!!!!

TLilly12 @TLilly12 (1229) • United States 25 Mar 13

If You listen to people that tell you, that you can't do something, then you will believe that you can't do it, and you won't go any further, trying to do reach your goal, never listen to negative talking people, they will only...

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valentinesdiner I love this discussion! Yers ago I found a quote from a woman named Mary who started a business making soaps in her bathtub during the great depression when she was alone raising her children. She did pretty well with the business and was asked her secret. She...

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cantbeatfree - Unbelievable

LegalAlien @LegalAlien (641) • Serbia 18 Mar 13

I just wanted to let my fellow mylotters know what happened to me on this website www.cantbeatfree.net I registered to see if i can make any extra money. Apart from the site being terribly confusing i had a problem because...

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valentinesdiner Thanks for the info... these sort of things happen too often online. Thanks for your research and reporting, LA.

19 Mar 13

North Korea plans of US Nuclear Strike

LaLa Leo @mrscallands22 (2851) • United States 16 Mar 13

I know I'm late on posting about this.. but I read last week via Yahoo! news that North Korea is currently in their 3rd phase of nuclear strike testing with plans on bombing the US. According to the article, the UN is involved but...

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valentinesdiner N Korea's government issued a video yesterday of a bombing of the US Capitol and White House. Ameturish video but it gets the point across. Now if we only knew what the point was - don't mess with North Korea? End the sanctions? I guess we all just 'stay...

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my husband is back home

tigeraunt @tigeraunt (6326) • Philippines 16 Mar 13

My hubby is back home after his tour, he came home after several months, he was very excited to me home and kissed and hugged me many times in front of the children, it was amazing, i was eagely waiting for him. He will be here...

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valentinesdiner Hey, congrats to you and the whole family in weathering the time away. So many times we see the reunions of military families but we don't really appreciate the excitement of the coming together again. Thank you for sharing that with us... I hope you all have...

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Happy and Contented

krizzay @krizzay (22) 13 Mar 13

Having a relationship with a person that you love and who loves you more is really a God's gift to you. Everyday you wake up feeling happy and inspired knowing that you've lived with really a purpose in your heart....

fallen in love relationship been in love life

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valentinesdiner Thank you soooo much for mentioning God's role and especially the role of grace in relationships. There is an old Russian saying that if you become anything in this life it is because of the people God has put in your path. This is especially true I believe...

13 Mar 13

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Four more years of Obama

knoodleknight18 @knoodleknight18 (917) • United States 17 Dec 12

As presidents tend to do a lot more in their second term. What are you expectations if any? I for one hope to see congress work on the budget instead of playing the standstill game for political gain which hurts everyone else....

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valentinesdiner I expect for about two years we have the opportunity to have good public debates on the real issues left aside for the past few years. Together we can address what entitlements we can afford; how to address the immigration issues introduced by John McCain; the...

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Russian Newspaper Pravda Calls Obama A Communist and Our Citizens Ignorant

Fatcat44 @Fatcat44 (1141) • United States 26 Nov 12

Well I want to know what the left thinks of this. The Russian newspaper Pravda has called Obama a communist. The author, Xavier Lurma, liken Obama's speeches of illusion of hope and change to that of Lenin's. He says "the Obama's...

russian newspaper warns that obama is a communist

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valentinesdiner Golly geepers! I never knew Republicans to ever read and get their information from Pravda. Maybe we should take this with a grain of salt as we have most anything printed by the impartial folks of Pravda. Face it folks, he is the Commander in Chief for...

26 Nov 12

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DeadLOCK, hard to believe :0

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 5 Nov 12

Hello Lotters, There had been many and similar predictions within the past few days that it's either Obama or Romney who's going to have a close call this election. not surprised, I mean come on, this is the choice of the...

deadlock

results

us elections

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valentinesdiner Sad to think that millions will 'sit out' the election and not vote at all. I am psyched that our native born President will be re-elected and that the middle class will win. Here's hoping, eh?

6 Nov 12

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Is anyone going to say why they're going to vote for Obama again?

oneidmnster @oneidmnster (1384) • United States 27 Sep 12

Between the people I work with and my friends,Mylotters and the people who comment on articles on Yahoo,the majority of these people are against Obama. Yet,in the polls,Obama is in the lead. Who are these people they're...

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valentinesdiner First of all, I am what they call nowadays a RINO. I believe in the basics that Republicans have been about for decades - opportunity and less government, but also compassion for the working poor like the earned income tax credit and the Americans with...

27 Sep 12

Can the Baltimore Orioles Go All the Way?

cperry @cperry (151) • United States 19 May 12

Right now the Baltimore Orioles have the best record in the American League East and are playing some really good baseball right now. Can the Orioles finish with their first winning season in decades? Can the Orioles make it all...

orioles

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valentinesdiner Wow! What a predictor you are... 4 months ago NObody gave the birds a chance. Even now espn.com gives them a less tahn 1 in 5 chance of making the playoffs. PLAYOFFS? Hey, do not give up on the Fighting Showalters!

26 Aug 12

Presidential Elections 2012

ravisivan @ravisivan (14079) • India 26 Aug 12

I made a search in the internet "presidential elections 2012 usa predictions". I thought there may be predictions made by peoples' comments. Alas the first one i got was an astrology predictions. Do people in USA also believe...

presidential elections 2012

usa

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valentinesdiner A lot will depend on how large a lead President Obama has in late October. The impact of soooo much money that will be spent on Romney's behalf in the last days of the election cannot be over estimated. Right now, I would say that Obama will win, here's...

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Would you send a birthday card?

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 26 Aug 12

My son and his wife are getting a divorce. Next Tuesday is her 30th birthday. I want to remain on friendly terms with her....but I do have very mixed feelings about the whole situation. I am thinking of sending her a birthday card...

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valentinesdiner I would send her a card, though make it less personal or add comments less personal than you may have in the past. There was a time when she was an important part of the family and as you mentioned, you have some personal feelings as well. Life is short...

26 Aug 12

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Paid to post forums available at present.

deserve40 @deserve40 (1656) • India 24 Aug 12

I had worked as a paid poster for forums and also I had worked for some forums which pay to the posters. I enjoyed working for some forums as they paid me better rate and paid honestly too. However, since many months, I...

paid to post forums

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valentinesdiner I really enjoy payperpost sites - which ones do you recommend?

24 Aug 12

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Mitt Romney's Chances

MandaLee @MandaLee (3764) • United States 11 Aug 12

Do you think selecting Ryan as his Vice Presidential running mate has a positive or negative effect on Mitt Romney's chances of being elected President in November? Why or why not?

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valentinesdiner Short term positive: Ryan brings energy, youth, strong policies and another mid-western voice decrying the Obama administration. Long term negative: Romney, who endorsed the Ryan budget (coupons instead of Medicare, turning Medicaid to the states where...

11 Aug 12

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