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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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Amanda81587 If I help someone I feel good about myself. If they do not appreciate what I have done for them it can aggravate me a little, but I just have to keep telling myself that hey at least I tried and I feel good about myself because I did it....

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eseulhan @eseulhan (199) • Philippines 19 Sep 11

Actually, I've had a lot of sweet things said to me, so it's hard to decide what's the"sweetest ever". First, my parents openly telling me he's proud of me, how mature I am, and for the decisions I've made for myself....

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sanjana_aslam ....my parents are of older generation, they do not know how to praise children .... .... Friends ... i have always thought of their praises as not sincere ... My husband is different, from the day i met him 19 years ago until today, he sings songs of...

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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starrose_ara I use to feel bad whenever I turned people down when they need help but as I go older sometimes there has to be a balance between doing good to others while not driving yourself to tiredness physically. Sometimes to help ourselves we must learn to say NO....

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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GemmaR I think that you can be happy to a certain extent, however you might also be a little bit frustrated at the same time if the person who you helped didn't thank you for it. I think that you have to be sure whether the person realises just how much you've helped...

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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sudiptacallingu Though our moral books may say that helping people is a great virtue, I don’t always think so. Helping others can be at various levels…you can just help a stranger on the road with an information or direction…harmless helps that don’t affect you at all. You...

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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kalav56 Good topic for discussion and I am sure you are going to get a few idealistic responses. Vikku ! You are very young and try and learn to say "no" where it really has to be said. Some poeple are totally self-centred, selfish to the exclusion of anything else...

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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SpikeTheLobster It depends whether you're helping for thanks or helping and expecting nothing in return. True altruism - helping without expecting anything at all in return - is extremely rare, though it does exist. Personally, I don't mind if they don't thank me. Sometimes,...

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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shanemae hi vikku! it is always pleasing to be helping others and it's much pleasing if your efforts are being seen and are appreciated. i share the same feeling with you sometimes if a friend would ask me to help them i couldn't say no that's why i end up doing a lot...

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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Sreekala Hello Vikku, First of all congrats for reaching 100 points in mylot and you have a 9 star with reputation of 90 which is very good as a beginner. Regarding the topic, I can guess the situation; since you have lot of works you...

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vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 20 Sep 11

Hello friends, Its generally happens that many people come to you and ask for some help.In my case,If I become ready to help him and I have to do a lot of work to help him.While doing that work,I feel not very good as I could...

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Sreekala You should learn to say a ‘no’ Vikku and it is good for them. When you a say ‘no’ to them you are helping them another way, they will learn to do themselves. For getting a ‘no’ will encourage them to do efforts by themselves. Later they will grateful to you...

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