xiaoweileo

@xiaoweileo (35)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Be strong!

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if this is what you do early in the morning, how about at night?

jingbautista @jingbautista (2456) • Philippines 14 Oct 08

well, thank you for responding to my discussion about what you do early in the morning.. and it would be awkward when i would not ask of what were the things you do last thing at night before going to sleep?.. brushing and having...

before going to sleep

going to sleep

late at night

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xiaoweileo Well, recently, I am too tired to stand up late at night. I kept working from 7 a.m. to 12 p.m everyday. Whenever I reach the bed, I easily fall in sleep. Sometimes when I cannot sleep, I will listen to music, and then it is dawn. By the way, it is not good...

14 Oct 08

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Whom do u like best besides yourself?

rockyyy520 @rockyyy520 (113) • China 9 Nov 07

I love my mother,she is a great virtuous and friendly,she is my great mom.

people

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xiaoweileo On my part, it is my good friends. Without their help, I cannot have my days like now. My father and mother are both sick at home, doing nothing. I complaint sometimes though I know that is not their fault. I had to support my study and even part of their life...

9 Nov 07

Life is good. I'm a happy camper.

dbmax41 @dbmax41 (585) • United States 9 Nov 07

Too many people just complaining all the time. I wish I didnt have to hear gossip and complaining all the time. Im retired and have 30 ackers of land. Im not rich though. Just enough income to pay bills if I budget. I have a wood...

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xiaoweileo I am a Chinese people. And here are also complaints all over the road. I am learning to be more silent in my life, so I always tell myself to shut my mouth. The unhappy person just keep complainting without knowing that happiness just come when you stop...

9 Nov 07

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do you wanna search a boy friends who own lots of money or others?

jonieyang001 @jonieyang001 (12) • China 14 Sep 07

I am a poor guy, I can't found my girlfriend. I don't know why. I work hard alwaysly, I wanna become rich. I wanna own my house and cars. But why don't have a sweet girl understand me? guys, do you have same problem?

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xiaoweileo definitely! i am also a poor Chinese guy, haven't fallen in love with any girl. what a pity, huh? We are living in the real society, and money plays a very important role in our daily life. As we can see, more and more people become slave of money. I also...

14 Sep 07

who's Cooking in your family?

tanyusha @tanyusha (112) • Moldova 14 Sep 07

Do you cook for your husband or does he cook for you? Many men think that cooking is the wifes' "job", or even duty. Do you agree?

cooking

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xiaoweileo i am not married, and i am now a college student. But in my home, i cook for everybody, cuz both of my father and mother are lazy. I am boy, but i do not think it is only the female's responsibility or duty to cook. As we can see, most of the good cookers are...

14 Sep 07

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Do you sometimes wonder if the internet is bane or a blessing ?

Pablothehat @Pablothehat (99) 14 Sep 07

Sometime, after spending hours on the net trying to get something productive acheived or even thought you were being productive, only to find that you haven't acheived any of the goals that you set yourself for that day?

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xiaoweileo In fact, i was always wondering about this question. I still remembered that when I just went to this university in 2003, I know nothing about the internet. But one day, one of my new friends taught me how to communicate on line, i totally trap myself on line...

14 Sep 07

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Which English you like?

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 16 May 07

British or American and why?

english

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xiaoweileo I am a Chinese university student majoring in English. The fact is that most of the Chinese just mix up the two and it is hard to recognize whether they speak British one or American one. British English is the standard, but I like the pronunciation of...

16 May 07

How to help a friend get over a break up?

babyangie27 @babyangie27 (5176) • United States 16 May 07

My friend is going through a hard time with her breakup,I want to help her but don't know how. She has a daughter(not with the guy she broke up with) but she was very attached with him so she has to relive the break up daily,she...

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xiaoweileo It is really tough question for onlookers, because she cannot recover until she herself wants to. Time heals. Just give her some time to indulge herself in the temporary depression, because it is neccessary before recovery. Then, apart from time, tears are...

16 May 07

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Favourite website

Phlamingho @Phlamingho (7824) • Denmark 19 Apr 07

What website do you go to most often? Of course mine is Google, I go there all the time, I'm here on myLot a lot as well, but I constantly use Google to look up something. Just read in an article that 90% of all searches made from...

computer zone

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xiaoweileo well, me too, I use Google to look up information all the time. But I also use Answers.com frequently, because it is also good for looking up something. As a Chinese student who loves english very much, I keep going to Chinadaily.com.cn everyday to check out...

19 Apr 07

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do you feel bored all the time?

sacrg793 @sacrg793 (429) • China 19 Apr 07

sometimes i'm restless, anything is not my interest, getting bored for no reason, just want to change myself, you know, the life is just a formula, you have no choice but to accept. how about you? do you want to do something...

boring

formula

life

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xiaoweileo I think all people hope to have wonderful lives, especially the young generation, who needs excitement and novelty to stave off boredom. Me too, and I am even now busy to death. However, now I feel like missing those bored days doing the dull work, because I...

19 Apr 07

Is divorce the answer to unhappy marriage?

dale_df @dale_df (93) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

Is divorce the answer to unhappy marriage? WHY? Let your opinion be heard!!!

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xiaoweileo Continuted... Chinese parents always consider their children's welfare before making the decision of divorce, being afraid that children will be hurt by that. But in my opinion, we children also want our parents to be happy. Sometimes, divorce is a good way...

14 Apr 07

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Is divorce the answer to unhappy marriage?

dale_df @dale_df (93) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

Is divorce the answer to unhappy marriage? WHY? Let your opinion be heard!!!

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xiaoweileo People nowadays pay more attention to being happy rather than to the responsibility. That is why more and more couples want to simply divorce when there is unhappy marriage. Well, i cannot tell whether it is good or bad for the couple, coz i am still a...

14 Apr 07

What do you usually do when you feel down and lonely?

janette_bernaldo @janette_bernaldo (15) • Philippines 13 Apr 07

Life is beautiful but there are days when one feels sad and it feels like we are at our lowest ebb.

unhappy

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xiaoweileo I remembered one of my teachers told us that the best way she thought is just to go to bed and have a good sleep. I tried that several times. However, I think we should be more optimistic towards the loneliness and depression. Then, I think the best one is to...

14 Apr 07

I don’t know what to do!

byfaithonly @byfaithonly (10698) • United States 14 Apr 07

Do you ever feel like the world is against you? Like everyone hates you or you are the last person on earth that anyone thinks about?That’s how I feel, not all the time but it seems that’s been my mood the last week. The real...

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xiaoweileo yeah, that is exactly what I am also feeling these days. I have some really good friends, but I just don't feel like telling them what I am suffered, coz I am afraid that it bothers them so much. Then I always tell myself that I myself should be strong even I...

14 Apr 07

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love or make love?

dyne_15 @dyne_15 (162) • Philippines 12 Apr 07

pls reply.. thank you sooo much..

tank you

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xiaoweileo wow, what a question! but i think real love can still exist even without making love.

14 Apr 07

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good girl always with less beautiful face?

happylink @happylink (154) • China 13 Apr 07

i feel so depressd when i am looking for my special-one.can you give some advice?

face

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xiaoweileo lol, people always look forward the perfect one. it depends on what you value, the heart or the apperance. i am also looking forward the one who is kind-hearted, as well as beautiful, but you see, the first thing I want is to be kind. That is the most...

13 Apr 07