zapata118

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Can you say ' NO' without feeling bad about it ?

alokn99 @alokn99 (5717) • India 30 Jun 09

Every now and then we get the advice that we cannot, and need to be stop trying to pleasing everybody. I suppose most will say it depends on the situation and the people that we need to say 'NO' to. But at the same time I do come...

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zapata118 I both hesitate and feel guilty when I say no. It is not easy for me. Sometimes in my mind I will feel like the other person thinks I am making up and excuse. Then I try to convince them of the necessity of my "no". It seems ridiculous, but alas, it is true. I...

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