sassy_zhai

@sassy_zhai (63)

Philippines • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Would you be willing to make love to the man you don't really love?

sassy_zhai @sassy_zhai (63) • Philippines 22 Feb 07

If you are going to marry someone who loves you so much but you don't love as much, would you be willing to make love to that man?

get married

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sassy_zhai sorry i'm not going to china

17 May 07

love is blind and marriage is an eye opener!do u agree.

coolcat123 @coolcat123 (4387) • India 27 Mar 07

upon your personal experiances do let me know ,is really love blind,never sees the caste,status etc and marriage lets you know the real taste of life.the reality a person observes which opens its bitter or sweet secrets after...

experience

love

marriage

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1 person

sassy_zhai well i think i can say what you said is true. although i am not married yet but i observed that couples get to know each other more whent they are married already.

21 Apr 07

How can we as husbands/wives not fall into the pattern of just being comfortable

dedicated_28 @dedicated_28 (1383) • United States 20 Apr 07

I am married and unfortunately we seem to have fallen into the comfortable thing. Almost taking each other for granted. We both kinda just think well he/she loves me so it will be okay tonight if I stay out late and then just go...

comfortable routines

marriage

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5 people

sassy_zhai i couldn't agree with you more, you are right saying couplkes need to do something new... it will definitely make a difference.

21 Apr 07

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How can we as husbands/wives not fall into the pattern of just being comfortable

dedicated_28 @dedicated_28 (1383) • United States 20 Apr 07

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5 people

sassy_zhai maybe going out and for each partner to sometimes think that they are still on the courtship stage. WHat do you think?

21 Apr 07

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1 person

How do you deal with PMS??

MagdalenaM @MagdalenaM (681) • United States 9 Apr 07

Ohhhhhhhhhhh that time of the month can be a pain and to top it all we have to deal with mood swings and other PMS syndroms - I have some pills (Midol) that are should be helping me feel better during these times and while it does...

pms

women

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sassy_zhai MAKE LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER! It will help alot! haha, im just kidding... what i do during PMS is to put a hot compressed just below your below button... it eases the pain

10 Apr 07

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why women are marrying for the sake of it?

aciddrop @aciddrop (798) 10 Apr 07

i have been told that when a girl reaches her late 20s,single still,she would be very anxious to marriage.and this is what i witness as well.the most incredible example around me is my sister who is at the age of 23,already thinks...

marriage

men

women

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sassy_zhai Well, i guess it is a biological need for women... as they say: when a woman turns 25 her market value diminishes and her biological clock is ticking... as for your sister, i think she is quite young maybe she should wait til she turn 25 before considering...

10 Apr 07

Are all women bad ? Am I a man with bad luck ??

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 10 Apr 07

I had a bad relationship with a woman who I did not trust from the begining now I have a very hard time trusting women. Am I right to think all women are bad? Or am I just mentally ill? I mean it seems kind of ridiculous to not...

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12 people

sassy_zhai No, not all women are bad just like not all men are bad. Ypu just have to learn to trust people and learn to forgive. Maybe you have been betrayed by that woman but try forgiving her first so that you can learn to trust other women.you do not need to trust...

10 Apr 07

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1 person

to all those who got paid in mylot respond here

sassy_zhai @sassy_zhai (63) • Philippines 14 Mar 07

This is a survey to encourage others who are having a hard time earning here. Please indicate how much did you receive from mylot and for how long did you become a member before you get your first payment. Another, please give...

making money

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sassy_zhai yeah, please tell us whether the length and size of the discussion or responses matters. Thanks

10 Apr 07

love

indian_delhi2007 @indian_delhi2007 (77) • India 6 Apr 07

what quality are important to you an a boyfriend or girlfriend?

boyfriend

girlfriend

love

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sassy_zhai Respect, love, and loyalty

7 Apr 07

Do you check your boyfriend/girlfriend text messages and call history?

reeze_828 @reeze_828 (137) • Philippines 20 Mar 07

What are your view about this? Do you agree that they have the right to check it? Or you JUst feel so bad When they check it? I need your opinion about this matter! Thank you in advance....

check

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3 people

sassy_zhai Yes, at the begining of our relationship i usually check it out... it was my way of testing him how open he is to me and if he is hiding anything... but eventually i stopped i actually find nothing there... but sometimes i check it out of curiousity

7 Apr 07

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1 person

Should i stay or should i go

ckloeckner @ckloeckner (216) • United States 6 Apr 07

i am having serious trouble making this decision and i feel as though i am drowning. i have the opportunity to leave my boyfriend who is controlling and manipulative but it doesnt change the fact that i love him and he is very...

relationships

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4 people

sassy_zhai better think hard about your relationship counseling will be very helpful but do something about it.we are suppose to be happy with our life not miserable.

7 Apr 07

if someone asked you, what is your asset?

simplycza @simplycza (1480) • Philippines 4 Mar 07

what will be your answer?

asset

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3 people

sassy_zhai my assets are all my equities minus my liabilities

3 Apr 07

One more cheater!

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 20 Mar 07

I have come across to another cheater. He is also from China. He is repetadly posting this line " i ha ha ha ha ha you ha ha ha ha" in his response. He even don't write things like "I don't know" or something stupid what most...

cheater

copy paste

mylot

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25 people

sassy_zhai Poor guy, but please let us not judge him, let us give him a benefit of the doubt, maybe the best thing to do first is to call his attention maybe he is not aware of how bad he is doing. he probably wants to earn points.

21 Mar 07

to all those who got paid in mylot respond here

sassy_zhai @sassy_zhai (63) • Philippines 14 Mar 07

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sassy_zhai Congratulations and good luck i hope you get your next payment soon. actually i find it hard to post daily but i hope to reach at least a hundred.

21 Mar 07

to all those who got paid in mylot respond here

sassy_zhai @sassy_zhai (63) • Philippines 14 Mar 07

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sassy_zhai wow! that's good news. im glad to hear that. but how did you get your payment? did you request it or authomatically mylot sent you the payment?

21 Mar 07

Would you be willing to make love to the man you don't really love?

sassy_zhai @sassy_zhai (63) • Philippines 22 Feb 07

If you are going to marry someone who loves you so much but you don't love as much, would you be willing to make love to that man?

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sassy_zhai thanks ebo_bro.. you are such a dear-ry

15 Mar 07

Would you be willing to make love to the man you don't really love?

sassy_zhai @sassy_zhai (63) • Philippines 22 Feb 07

If you are going to marry someone who loves you so much but you don't love as much, would you be willing to make love to that man?

10 responses

sassy_zhai thank you, how nice of you to be the first one to respond.

15 Mar 07

Would you be willing to make love to the man you don't really love?

sassy_zhai @sassy_zhai (63) • Philippines 22 Feb 07

If you are going to marry someone who loves you so much but you don't love as much, would you be willing to make love to that man?

10 responses

sassy_zhai wow, i think this is the bese.. i like that :-)

15 Mar 07