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1212121212 @1212121212 (122) • India 9 Jan 07

Love and arranged marriage. We have debated over this for long, but do you think love still exists to go till marriage or is it just a superficial attraction or calculated event in the current generation.

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luzamper Before the marriage rites, the couple meet and see each other. That begins their acquaintance. They are aware that they are going to marry. They would know from themselves if they could learn to like and love each other. If they think they don't like each...

11 Jan 07

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1212121212 @1212121212 (122) • India 8 Jan 07

There are many times when i want to say no but can't. I fear that i might offend or hurt the person. A very common example is at my work place. My boss gives me extra work coz I do it without complaining. I end up ataying late. I...

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ashishsab I appreciate your feelings but would like to say specifically on work related thing that its time for you to be professional. In jobs, professional careers there is nothing called feelings and attachments. If you boss finds someone better then you ready to...

9 Jan 07

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1212121212 @1212121212 (122) • India 8 Jan 07

There are many times when i want to say no but can't. I fear that i might offend or hurt the person. A very common example is at my work place. My boss gives me extra work coz I do it without complaining. I end up ataying late. I...

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cheenlly You are what is known as - a people-pleaser. you cant say no, you volunteer way beyond the call of duty, and you do things for other people even when you dont want to anymore. You want people to like you and you feel that the only way this will happen is if...

9 Jan 07

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1212121212 @1212121212 (122) • India 8 Jan 07

There are many times when i want to say no but can't. I fear that i might offend or hurt the person. A very common example is at my work place. My boss gives me extra work coz I do it without complaining. I end up ataying late. I...

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katrina21 Grow up, girl. Learn to stand up for your self. When you really are overburdened, say so. If you do that once in a while, people will not trample over you. And because (so far) you have never said no, people will also believe you. Promotions are another thing,...

9 Jan 07

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1212121212 @1212121212 (122) • India 5 Jan 07

I feel very hesitant to bargain. The shopkeepers intimidate me. My friends bargain and get vaule for the money they pay. But I end up paying more than that is required. Please give me some tips in bargaining.

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nature Though I too hesitate when I do shopping. But I think u can try this: While shopping enquire at differernt shops n then buy.because i have seen taht when v have already bought thing n we enquire rates at other shop they say lesser then from what i have...

5 Jan 07

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1212121212 @1212121212 (122) • India 20 Dec 06

Recently I saw an article sying that even sitting straight does not help the discs supporting the spinal cord. It seems even they cause some wear to the discs. We are supposed to adopt a slanting position while sitting. Is this...

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forex4aliving I think whichever position you sit, it's best to do some stretching a bit and not hold on to the same position throughout. I have slight slip disc at my neck and warning signs are the back ache, sharp neck ache and even my right arm gets numb. Sometimes it's...

20 Dec 06

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