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Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Ha ha, thank you Kowgirl, for saying exactly what I did last night! "If you want to be with her, go live with her!" She does not care if she is causing a rift, because in her eyes I am the trouble-making sister (she called me that--a trouble-maker. Can you...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Hi pilotjune1972! Thank you for your reply. I totally agree with you. I would mauch rather not fight, and I feel too fighting is not necessary. There is a very easy solution to this problem which they refuse to do! It's either their way or the highway. But I...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia I actually have taken the key back (this is the second time too), and I've tried waking her up. But she ends up resenting me for it, and running to my brother to fill his ears with tales of how horrible I am to her. Thanks so much, becca29!

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you, rakhii!

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you gardengrrl, for the great, reassuring response! Oooo you guys are really good. You can all read this like an open book. Everything said is exactly what I think and feel, so I know I am not wrong in this! I know the day will come when he will see the...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Wow, nuttmeg your response was so right on!! I am so glad to hear you say those things, because now I know I'm not out of my mind, lol. I thought it was rude too, to be so blatantly disrespectful in someone else's home! If I was staying in someone's place, you...

28 Jun 07

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Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you for your reply, robin121! I actually feel that I have been very patient, as I have lived in this situation for 4 months, and have been very accommodating to her. I never complained or said boo until mid-May sometime. I have since given them over a...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you! I sure hope so too :-)

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you, gloria777. Yes we are a pretty tight family, maybe not emotionally tight but we would never walk out on each other, at least I would hope not. We have always stuck together and always helped each other out. Yes, the key is not the big issue...the...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia I definitely don't intend to cave. I am going to stand my ground and I refuse to let them make me feel like I am a bad person. If I have to, I will bring up the past situation with my boyfriend, because maybe he needs to be reminded of what it was like when...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you so much for understanding! I can feel for you too. That is a really unsettling situation when you don't like either yourself or your things are safe in your own home. Good luck and God bless too. I wish you the best, and hope you will be blessed...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you, tinamwhite!! You are so right on!! I totally told him to go move in with her and her craziness for a while! Then he'll see... I did try talking and unfortunately I was not listened to, and it did turn ugly (big blow-up last night). I also...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Oh yes I am definitely on the lease, which makes this more frustrating for me, as I'm not being treated as an equal. I am not being respected. I have tried to compromise, and you know, the solution is SO simple! But I guess some would rather have their way at...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thank you!! OMG, from the very beginning my instinct told me this girl is a master manipulator! I feel too, that it is my place that I have loved and cared for for 10 years and should have a say in what goes on around here. Just seems like common sense to me!...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Hi, Yep, I definitely did try to explain again what we had discussed previously, about the key situation. Unfortunately, my brother is very stubborn and is not giving me even a micromillimetre of leeway. It's his way or the highway. He just refuses to see my...

28 Jun 07

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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Discordia Thanks killahclaire, I definitely felt a weight lift when he said he would move out. Ahhh, peace!

28 Jun 07

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