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Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith How long has this been going on? Since we've been together. He can't think of his own. He was too dependent with his parents. Well, it's just fine if his parents are acting as one but they are not. In fact, they contribute to ruin us. Irresponsible parents....

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 11 Jan 13

Being honest is always the best to avoid complications in the future but what if you tend to hide something to your spouse by not saying anything. Would it be a lie?

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Jenith White lies on your spouse? If you are afraid that your spouse might be hurt of the information, you can say it later. Just wait for the right time and don't forget it. This may apply to those who are loyal and honest with their love ones coz in the first...

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 11 Jan 13

Being honest is always the best to avoid complications in the future but what if you tend to hide something to your spouse by not saying anything. Would it be a lie?

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Jenith No matter what it is if in terms of a couple, not saying anything even if you, yourself knew that you need to say it to your spouse but for some reasons you tend not to inform your spouse is considered a LIE.

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 11 Jan 13

Being honest is always the best to avoid complications in the future but what if you tend to hide something to your spouse by not saying anything. Would it be a lie?

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Jenith Whether it's negative or positive, the other half I think must know everything. Both of you are bound to share anything as what they promised in the church "for better or for worst, til death do us part".

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 11 Jan 13

Being honest is always the best to avoid complications in the future but what if you tend to hide something to your spouse by not saying anything. Would it be a lie?

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Jenith For friends, its fine to hide something. To keep secret. But in terms of a couple I think it's a big mistake. There must be a transparency in the family or else expect for trouble that might come. There's no need to hide to your spouse if you are true to...

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith I'm just afraid that my son would be affected because of his dad's fault. If it's just the two of us it's easy to do a lot of things. But then, I don't want my son to feel that something wrong. As young as he is, I want him to experience how beautiful life...

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 11 Jan 13

Being honest is always the best to avoid complications in the future but what if you tend to hide something to your spouse by not saying anything. Would it be a lie?

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Jenith Too many people love to lie. Don't they know that it would complicate things in the future. It is still better to live an honest life to have a clear conscience. No worries whatsoever.

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith May someone could help us and enlighten my hubby on what to do with our lives to have a beautiful life here on earth. Wish this could have been a magic in our lives.

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith Marriage counselling would be best. I would definitely do that one of these days. I'm still looking for a good counselor here in our place.

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith Thank God our business is doing fine but it's not enough. We need to pay our debts for the current renovation of our house and our son would go to school soon. These stuff makes me feel headache and heartache.

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith There are lot of men out there who is like him. I want him to be motivated of whatever his plan for us to have a better life. For now, he is contented of nothing which makes me so desperate. I feel so weak thinking how could he do that to me. I work so hard...

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith If I make him a to-do-list, he would say that I'm making him as servant. I don't know what to do with him. Really.

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Trying to be good, be positive no matter what and be a responsible wife but how could I do that if my husband is not doing his part. I woke up early in the morning to cook our breakfast and not even disturbing my husband's sleep...

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Jenith Maybe he has but then he is not that young anymore for him to tolerate any negative vibes that may hinder our dreams. As a man, he must know what to do for his family more than his wife.

10 Feb 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

I used to walk from work to home since I live near at my workplace. Undisciplined car owners tend to park their car everywhere as long as there's a vacant place. While walking, suddenly car door open and I was totally unaware and...

car driver

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Jenith Sometimes we need to think twice too thinking the incident happened at 6:10pm. If there's a policeman nearby, maybe I can ask for help. Good thing I did not make any move that would allow him to do what he wants from me.

11 Jan 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

I used to walk from work to home since I live near at my workplace. Undisciplined car owners tend to park their car everywhere as long as there's a vacant place. While walking, suddenly car door open and I was totally unaware and...

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Jenith He is not in hurry for sure. Why? He parked his car in a sidewalk in opposite direction to the hi-way.

11 Jan 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

I used to walk from work to home since I live near at my workplace. Undisciplined car owners tend to park their car everywhere as long as there's a vacant place. While walking, suddenly car door open and I was totally unaware and...

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Jenith Well said Abhi! It's just fine to do that in your case coz you are a guy. But, after reading the previous comment, I think it was done intentionally. If it was not, then for sure he would say sorry to think that not all people can afford to have car. Most of...

11 Jan 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

I used to walk from work to home since I live near at my workplace. Undisciplined car owners tend to park their car everywhere as long as there's a vacant place. While walking, suddenly car door open and I was totally unaware and...

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Jenith Getting the plate number would be the best thing to do. If he is a bad guy then I'd rather be hurt a little than to be a victim. Maybe it's his modus to think that it happened during the feast of Jesus of Nazarene and it was near the church.

11 Jan 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

I used to walk from work to home since I live near at my workplace. Undisciplined car owners tend to park their car everywhere as long as there's a vacant place. While walking, suddenly car door open and I was totally unaware and...

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Jenith I never thought of this. If it's a kind of trick then he was very unlucky coz I didn't say nor do anything. Thanks to GOD for giving me more patience.

11 Jan 13

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

I used to walk from work to home since I live near at my workplace. Undisciplined car owners tend to park their car everywhere as long as there's a vacant place. While walking, suddenly car door open and I was totally unaware and...

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Jenith A kind of. I don't know what happened to our society now. Even how hard you try to be happy and think positive, there's always a time when someone out of the blue turns it into a bad one.

11 Jan 13

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