Lexy2012

@Lexy2012 (8)

Age 53

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Why the need to lie?

Lexy2012 @Lexy2012 (8) 31 Jan 12

My fiance (39) and I (40)have been in a long distance relationship going on 3 years, he is in the UK and I am here in the US. Until recently everything seemed to be fine. We see each other maybe once or twice a year, whichever we...

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Lexy2012 Hi angelako, thank you for your reply. It is hard having a long distance relationship, but the benefit of starting out that way, is that you get to know the person on a different level. Initially you don't have the physical attraction that interferes with your...

1 Feb 12

Why the need to lie?

Lexy2012 @Lexy2012 (8) 31 Jan 12

My fiance (39) and I (40)have been in a long distance relationship going on 3 years, he is in the UK and I am here in the US. Until recently everything seemed to be fine. We see each other maybe once or twice a year, whichever we...

9 responses •

2 people

Lexy2012 Hi sid566, thank you for your reply. I agree with you, that's why I am here I guess reaching out to others to see what outsiders, someone that has no vested interest. Just to see, what they have to say, maybe something that I haven't thought of, and I do...

1 Feb 12

Why the need to lie?

Lexy2012 @Lexy2012 (8) 31 Jan 12

My fiance (39) and I (40)have been in a long distance relationship going on 3 years, he is in the UK and I am here in the US. Until recently everything seemed to be fine. We see each other maybe once or twice a year, whichever we...

9 responses •

2 people

Lexy2012 Hi eljayo, thank you for your reply. I agree with what you said. Someone just recently told me this. "Truth, as painful as it can sometimes be, is always the best policy" Which I agree to, but the're so many variations of lies out there that it's hard to...

1 Feb 12

Why the need to lie?

Lexy2012 @Lexy2012 (8) 31 Jan 12

My fiance (39) and I (40)have been in a long distance relationship going on 3 years, he is in the UK and I am here in the US. Until recently everything seemed to be fine. We see each other maybe once or twice a year, whichever we...

9 responses •

2 people

Lexy2012 Thank you Mashnn for your reply. I'm pretty sure it's not your first possibility. I know he has been married in the past, and is now divorced, he does have children which I know of. I just visited him for 3 weeks in the UK the middle of last year. I have...

1 Feb 12

Why the need to lie?

Lexy2012 @Lexy2012 (8) 31 Jan 12

My fiance (39) and I (40)have been in a long distance relationship going on 3 years, he is in the UK and I am here in the US. Until recently everything seemed to be fine. We see each other maybe once or twice a year, whichever we...

9 responses •

2 people

Lexy2012 Thank you cutepenguin, I think you may have nailed it on the head with your possibilities. I know he's told me in the past that he would go out with his mates and have a drink, which has and will always be cool with me. He's done this before where he hit...

1 Feb 12

Why the need to lie?

Lexy2012 @Lexy2012 (8) 31 Jan 12

My fiance (39) and I (40)have been in a long distance relationship going on 3 years, he is in the UK and I am here in the US. Until recently everything seemed to be fine. We see each other maybe once or twice a year, whichever we...

9 responses •

2 people

Lexy2012 Thank you sulsisels this is sound advice, and something I have considered. But with all the questions bouncing around in my head I just wasn't sure which route to take. I think time for a little breathing room and sorting everything out on my own and given him...

1 Feb 12