RButler29

@RButler29 (26)

Saudi Arabia • Age 34

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Living with parents after marriage,is it shameful?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 1 Sep 09

Normally people would think that after marriage one should be independent and live apart with parents.However my cousin and his wife live with their parents after they get married for they can not afford to buy a house now. So...

live with parents after marriage

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RButler29 I think its VERY shameful. Marrying is not just getting together with a girl and sleeping with her. Marrying means you have grow up and you have accepted some of the biggest responsibilities in your life. If you're married,naturally it means you are going to...

1 Sep 09

Mums going to work damaging for kids?

deepika201 @deepika201 (268) • India 21 Apr 09

A new survey suggests that kids are being “damaged” with more and more mothers going to work. It has been said that the growing economic independence of women from their male partners is contributing to family break-ups. Do...

working mums

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RButler29 I totally think so. Im sorry, my that statement would make the feminists around a lil not-so-happy with me. But in my defense, It has been proved time and again. its like a simple loic, the more the mother works (and assuming obviously the father works too)...

21 Apr 09

if you can choose, would you still choose to be born in this world again?

Canteen @Canteen (592) • China 21 Apr 09

my answer is definitely no. if i can choose, i would never choose to be born in this world. my parents got divorced when i was very young, and i don't ever have a happy life. death is so much easier than life. instead of choosing...

next life

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RButler29 Im sorry for you Canteen, but I am positive about the rest of your life. Its like night and day...if there is night ..day follows no matter what. Have faith and hope in God and everythgi nwill turn out for the best :) If i was given the chance to choose, I...

21 Apr 09

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Do we have to find a place for happiness or is it within us?

Soniasony @Soniasony (1827) • India 20 Apr 09

Its a small bit of argument that happened b/w me and my friend.. She wants to go on a vacation .. I asked the reason(?)for vacation She tells she is in search of happiness ..So I had an argument with her saying happiness is...

happy

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RButler29 I completely stand by your statement, Sonasony. Happiness is more like a state of joy, during which you act like an optimist, you forget all bad things that happened with you and whatever you see, you take it in the right manner. When and how do we get...

21 Apr 09

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What do you get from Slumdog Millionaire?

brusun @brusun (34) • China 19 Apr 09

I have seen Slumdog Millionaire several days ago, its scenario shocked me very much and couldn't remove from my eyes constantly. I think it gives me the most valuable point may be that the tribulation experience is a very...

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RButler29 I am an Indian. and I am used to see such scenes...not in movies BUT REAL life...I've been to those slums which are shown in the movie. Its in Mumbai and is Asia's biggest slum. Well...I woul like to share some news with you. this morning I watched in TV the...

20 Apr 09

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Came across any meaningful lyrics?

flowerday @flowerday (322) • Singapore 19 Apr 09

there are many many songs out there that have very meaningful lyrics.. to me, i have to say the best lyrics i have came across so far will definitely be Leona Lewis's "Better in time" the lyrics is just too...

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RButler29 yo dude! Coldplay is one heck of a band....lyrics of all its songs r awesome,just amazing. By the way, I totally recommend you to check out Shayne Ward's lyrics fo the song 'Breathless'...the lyrics leave me speechless xD (sorry i cant post the link of the...

19 Apr 09