abetojr

@abetojr (32)

Philippines • Age 73

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Is it better to get more friends?

inniewong @inniewong (42) • China 8 Oct 11

Many people like to meet new friends, thinking it's good for their life. I kind of doubt it. Some people says that the more friends you have made with, the more enemies you got. I think the reasons might be like these: If you...

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abetojr On my opinion, it is better to have few friends, that can be trusted. Than having many friends that only approach you if they need help, but doesn't help back when you need them. Sometimes having too much friends is dangerous.

9 Oct 11

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What's the best thing you like about yourself?

JmRawr @JmRawr (5) 24 Apr 11

I love being me. I love my weird-ness and funny flaws. That's the best thing of me that I can share. :)

being myself

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abetojr I love being friendly all the time. Lots of my friends trust me for anything, and i help them when they need something. I have a kind heart to everyone. ^^

24 Apr 11

How many of you believe in the Unidentified Flying Objects (UFO) ??

chhetp1 @chhetp1 (467) • India 7 Oct 10

Hot news - one of the airport in (Mongolia) china has been closed down due to new unidentified Flying Objects sighting. It is believed that there was a strangest of light appearing in the air for some-time!!! Now that is a big...

ufo sightings

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abetojr I once saw a UFO with my parents at night going home from the cementery. It was really a UFO, it disappeared in the middle of nowhere. And by the way, a really saw the news when there was a UFO sighting on China. It was pyramid shape with the other one smaller...

14 Apr 11

Have you ever believed that your house was haunted?

anonymousb @anonymousb (169) • United States 29 May 09

There are so many reports of hauntings around the world. Several people believe that they have experienced or witnessed a ghost or spirit. Have you ever lived in or stayed at a place you believed to be haunted? Has someone...

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abetojr I haven't lived on any house that was haunted. I think i am safe. I heard almost all of my friends experiencing it. My friends said when you live on a rented house, you are always haunted by ghosts that where living in that place a long time ago. I haven't...

14 Apr 11

Do you feel safe in life?

magic9 @magic9 (980) • China 27 Dec 09

do you feel safe? or lack of sense of safety? I believe most people are struggling to live and they have many fears. For example, people are fearing to lose job, to lose money in investment, they work hard or bear to maintain a...

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abetojr I feel safe in life sometimes,I have too many problem that I cannot solve and survive,well some problems of mine are easy to solve but I feel like struggling of fears...

27 Dec 09

Do you ever consider how much YOUR attitude affects other people?

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 26 Dec 09

When you are happy and joyful, that affects other people in a good way, but when you are miserable, morose, depressed, sad, or EVEN WORSE - hypocritical, cynical, negative, hopeless, apathetic, and you spread THAT, where do you...

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abetojr Yes,I consider my attitude that affects other people because people are just like us but different attitude when my attitude is very bad it can affect not just people yet it can affect the world.Example if I play basketball skillfully my teammates will be...

27 Dec 09

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Does Santa claus really exist ?

Abhi22m @Abhi22m (76) • India 24 Dec 09

Every 25th of December we eagerly wait forward for the Santa claus to arrive & shower us with his gifts.But have you ever wondered where does this Santa claus come from ? From where does his gather so many gifts & how can he...

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abetojr I believe that Santa is real but he only live long ago in the north pole he give gifts to children that are nice for maybe a year.I heard about a story of a naughty boy trying ruin Christmas to everybody I don't remember his name but I just want to tell this...

25 Dec 09

How much time do you spend in front of the computer?

louierrific24 @louierrific24 (1114) • Philippines 24 Dec 09

Hi guys, How much time do you spend surfing the net? Do you consider yourself a computer addict? and what sites do you visit regularly? I spend at least 3 hours a day in front of the pc..

internet

websites

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abetojr I spend 14 hours playing games in facebook I only play vampire wars thats what I am addict because I mainly understand how to do it.But I am not really a computer addict.

25 Dec 09

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DO u believe in KARMA????

tinsky @tinsky (163) • Philippines 29 Sep 09

do u believe in KARMA? me, i really do.... i think it happened to me already.... its really hurts.. they say that the KARMA will come to us will be twice as what we done wrong? i think yes.... HOW ABOUT U?

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abetojr Hi tinsky, yes, I too believe in KARMA. In the game of life, you throw the boomerang daily, in the form of actions and behaviors that you send out into the world, and that will return to you at some later date--often multiplied on the rebound. You'll never...

8 Oct 09

why it happened?

fairlady56 @fairlady56 (82) • Philippines 8 Oct 09

What if your kids grow up to be a bum? Who do you blame to? Your in laws or the family of your in laws? This hurt me so much because my family was being blamed for the failures of my brothers kids. I would say that on our part we...

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abetojr Hi fairlady 56, there is no such thing as bum in a person. Many who felt hopeless for lack of education, poor, not good looking, or due to obstacles in life did not give up and achieved success. Thomas Alva Edison who was acclaimed as the greatest inventor but...

8 Oct 09

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Is it a choice or responsibility to look after one another?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 8 Oct 09

Every day we're busy with our own life that we often overlook other peoples' concern. They said we should only mind our own business and let other people do whatever they like with their life. Do you think it is our choice or a...

choice

other

responsibility

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abetojr Hi careguarden, it is our responsibility to take care with one another. All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood. This has to be so...

8 Oct 09

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there are still people who have a good heart

cutepink_13 @cutepink_13 (691) 7 Oct 09

i am so happy and touched by foreigners who gave donations to my fellow people. akon will be performing to raise funds for us, ricky martin did ask for help for us too. im so glad that there still people who help.

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abetojr Hi cutepink, in this life, you have to offer something for the fellow human beings and for the world. Think constantly what you can give rather than how you would get? The return is often multiplied on the rebound. This makes me realize how truly the phrase...

7 Oct 09

why there are people who abuse

cutepink_13 @cutepink_13 (691) 7 Oct 09

just a while ago i watched the news when it was reported that there are many stores who are over pricing with their goods. i hate hearing this because we are in crisis and despite that people still abuse.

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abetojr Hi there cutepink, you know, these people who take undue advantage of the calamity crisis brought about by typhoon Ondoy and Peping, have been emboldened of doing what they are accustomed to do as they knew that the authorities are pre-occupied with more...

7 Oct 09

Lets share professions. what is your profession

1anurag1 @1anurag1 (3576) • India 6 Oct 09

May be if we know each other by professions too. then some time it could be helpful for us when we are looking for an advice from a person from right profession. so what is your profession. I am and IT guy.

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abetojr Hi 1anurag1, I am from the Republic of the Philippines and my profession is a lawyer. I passed the bar examination in 1976. I have been working with the Philippine government since 1991 up to the present as a judge of the Department of Agrarian Reform...

6 Oct 09

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Growing old

Zhizho @Zhizho (1350) • Indonesia 6 Oct 09

Hi there.Everyone's will trough growing old if we have long age.Are you afraid of growing old guys?I'm not afraid.Maybe some people afraid to look weak and not beautiful again.How about you?.Please share here.thanks.

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abetojr Hi Zhizho, this is my respond to your discussion. Yes, I am afraid of getting very old because I would not be able anymore to do the things I usually do during my younger years. That is why, while we can still do what we want, we have to do it now. We've only...

6 Oct 09

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how many people today have smiled because of you!!!!!

mohan89 @mohan89 (240) • India 4 Oct 09

Making people smile is a kind of social service which is dead easy than donating blood, money, clothes, etc etc., Do you belive in the above stament????? If yes then today how people did you make smile 2day... If No then write...

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abetojr A smile is a wonderful and powerful action. A smile is also an indication of a happy spirit and soul and is a real source of positive, friendly energy, for everyone. A smile is a universal expression of one's feeling and mode at the moment that convey the...

5 Oct 09

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for granted

dmercedes @dmercedes (59) • United States 3 Oct 09

There are certain things that many people take for granted. What people take for granted always varies in people with different lifestyles, values, careers, and genders. What is most frequently taken for granted and why do people...

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abetojr Hi dmercedes, here is my response: All of us want to achieve something great in life, and be recognized, honored and adored for what we have reached and accomplished. But we take for granted the element of hard work, sacrifice and determination to reach this...

4 Oct 09

do you attend PTA meetings?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 29 Sep 09

i remembered i used to cry when my parents were not able to attend PTA meetings.now that i became a parent, I personally believe that it can affect my kid's performance at school. a child will be more inspired and willing to...

pta meetings

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abetojr We must attend PTA meetings as we cannot achieve what we want for our children if we do not cooperate and support the teachers and the curriculum. Study shows, if you put strong trust and cooperation to the teachers and the school, students experience highest...

4 Oct 09

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