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akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

today is a really slow day for me. i have been thinking and thinking of what to post here in mylot and i cant seem to think of any topics of interest to discuss about. and when i browse through all the posted topics, i cant seem...

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akotalagato that is a pretty good idea and a great way to pass the time. getting in touch with friends is always a good thing.

9 Nov 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

today is a really slow day for me. i have been thinking and thinking of what to post here in mylot and i cant seem to think of any topics of interest to discuss about. and when i browse through all the posted topics, i cant seem...

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akotalagato yes. sometimes i go for weeks without being able to think of something to write about. so i just stick to responding to a few discussions a day.

9 Nov 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

today is a really slow day for me. i have been thinking and thinking of what to post here in mylot and i cant seem to think of any topics of interest to discuss about. and when i browse through all the posted topics, i cant seem...

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2 people

akotalagato wow. good for you. you dont run out of things to write about.

9 Nov 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

today is a really slow day for me. i have been thinking and thinking of what to post here in mylot and i cant seem to think of any topics of interest to discuss about. and when i browse through all the posted topics, i cant seem...

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akotalagato i do try those things. but i think the most helpful is watching tv. you could get great ideas from the news and other informative channels. thanks so much and happy mylotting.

9 Nov 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 17 Oct 09

sometimes i feel so overwhelmed by the things i need to do in a day. i work online doing transcription work which takes up most of my day. i have a son who is in preschool. i have a small store infront of the house to help make...

family

motherhood

working moms

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akotalagato wow four children! i have a hard time with just one. i do admire you. i prioritize my chores now. ofcourse my online job needs to be done first since i have a deadline everyday. but for the household chores. i dont stress over it any more. if i have the...

30 Oct 09

sexyposh @sexyposh (575) • Philippines 29 Oct 09

It is so easy to see that you are falling inlove. You're happy and excited to see him/her always, you just can't stop thinking about him/her, and you always call him/her up and talk and talk and talk... All of us really like the...

falling out of love

love

relationship

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akotalagato yes i agree. you can definitely feel it. it is usually the little things that was usually done but are done no longer. you can feel that the bond between the two of you is slowly fading away. and it will come to a point that you are both indiferent to each...

30 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

when two people are in a relationship and they both truly love one another but circumstances and deep problems in the relationship keep getting in the way of their happiness until the guy finally says he needs space to think about...

love

pain

relationships

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akotalagato true true... how do you indeed hold on to a person if the person you are holding on to is letting you go. you live with it i guess. you dont have much of a choice. it would be okay if it is only in an ordinary relationship and not yet marriage but when two...

30 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

when two people are in a relationship and they both truly love one another but circumstances and deep problems in the relationship keep getting in the way of their happiness until the guy finally says he needs space to think about...

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akotalagato well in this case Feodda really hit the mark. when i guy says he needs space to think, it is because he is thinking of who he shall stay with. what i know now is that you dont really have much of a choice in the matter. whether you love him or not, if he wants...

30 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

do you believe in this? i have recently been thinking of this when my life became plagued with problems. i am at a point that I am so confused as to what I should do with my life. i have been thinking about my choices in life and...

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akotalagato i have really tried looking for things that make me happy. since my husband left me for another, i thought my life ended with that. but life continues to go one. the sun rises and sets each day. so for me, it has become a choice to be happy. my life may have...

30 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 16 Oct 09

different cars suit different needs. if you are a bachelor a nice looking porche convertible will look really cool to enhance your image. for families, big family cars like vans work very well. for me, i find that this apv really...

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akotalagato i agree. a landrover would really be great. i has a four wheel drive so you really can go anywhere with it. though it is very expensive here.

30 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

i have been thinking of all the problems in my life that i am having recently. and it occured to me that why is it that when bad things or problems come in to our lives we always say "what did i do to deserve this?" "what did i do...

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akotalagato yes we must thank God for all our blessings in life. or else he may take that away from you so that you will begin to appreciate what you do already have.

21 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

lots of people tend to shy away from discussions on religion. but for me whatever your religion is, it is a belief in a higher power, which different religions have different names for. but for me what is important is your...

beliefs

faith

religion

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akotalagato yes, he knows what is in your heart. and that is what is important to him. i used to go to church but, people are sometimes too pushy and expectant especially in certain churches.

21 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

lots of people tend to shy away from discussions on religion. but for me whatever your religion is, it is a belief in a higher power, which different religions have different names for. but for me what is important is your...

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akotalagato Yes, negative power is also on the rise today with lots of cults going on. we really must be careful...

21 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

when two people are in a relationship and they both truly love one another but circumstances and deep problems in the relationship keep getting in the way of their happiness until the guy finally says he needs space to think about...

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akotalagato true true... but in the circumstance of marriage, things would be very different. here in the philippines, there is no divorce, so looking for someone else would be out of the question, which i do find is somewhat unfair to married women who often get left...

21 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

do you believe in this? i have recently been thinking of this when my life became plagued with problems. i am at a point that I am so confused as to what I should do with my life. i have been thinking about my choices in life and...

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akotalagato wow! you really actually plan out your life. well, me i guess you could say i just take things as they come. i have plans in life too but most of the time, i guess they are different from what God has in mind for me and so they dont push true. since i wrote...

21 Oct 09

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akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

when two people are in a relationship and they both truly love one another but circumstances and deep problems in the relationship keep getting in the way of their happiness until the guy finally says he needs space to think about...

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akotalagato i dont really know. i guess right now im skeptical of things. i do not know if i will believe anything he says anymore. i guess there really comes a time in a relationship where you dont know of where you stand anymore. the only real concrete thing you know is...

21 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

when two people are in a relationship and they both truly love one another but circumstances and deep problems in the relationship keep getting in the way of their happiness until the guy finally says he needs space to think about...

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akotalagato well actually if your partner really wanted out, there is nothing that you can do. you really do have to let go no matter how much it hurt. i think this is when your faith in the greater power above will come in handy. if you really love him and you truly were...

21 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

when two people are in a relationship and they both truly love one another but circumstances and deep problems in the relationship keep getting in the way of their happiness until the guy finally says he needs space to think about...

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akotalagato yes. losing the one you love really is painful. but when the pain is gone and you really ponder things, you will see that it may be that your love is not enough to keep the relationship strong in the first place, then it is not meant to be.

21 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

they say there are some people who are extremely rich but are not happy. they also say that there are poor men who live their lives one day at a time and are happy with their lives. I guess happiness means different things to...

happiness

life

live

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akotalagato thanks abhikmjmdr. the innate nature of some people not to dwell on their problems but rather just take life as it comes does certainly make them more happier in life than those who do dwell on their problems.

19 Oct 09

akotalagato @akotalagato (1334) • Philippines 19 Oct 09

when two people are in a relationship and they both truly love one another but circumstances and deep problems in the relationship keep getting in the way of their happiness until the guy finally says he needs space to think about...

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akotalagato yes. it is painful to see your love go but in this circumstance, it is more painful when he stays.

19 Oct 09

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