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allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi thanks for everyones kind responses to my post, Im going to choose best response now, and include an update. Basicly, she hasnt come home, has decided that we are too controlling! We only asked her to knuckle down for a month over her revision time...too...

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allegradream @allegradream (210) 15 Aug 09

I had an experiment today! We had bangers and mash and I fancied having onions in gravy with it...I fried the onions, then put a little brown sugar on top, then I wanted to give it a bit of body, so I zapped some kidney beans in...

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allegradream Hmm sounds good with the apples, Ill give that one a try :)

16 Aug 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, the job was at a restaurant/bar and she was just collecting glasses and cleaning, but unfortunately its the people that she mixed with whilst she was there..I think she saw it as fun fun fun and wanted to be part of that, but knew we wouldnt allow it,...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, yes unfortunately in the Uk because she left a note and is 16, theres nothing the police can do...even if they found her, they dont have to tell us where she is living :(...But please read my previous responses for an update on whats happened so...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, we contacted some of her friends and it turned out she had flitted from one friends sofa to another and ended up at a 25 year old mans flat! Our local vicar went in and refused to leave without her and has taken her away for a while to get her out of that...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Thankyou for your prayers, they are really appreciated.

24 Jul 09

nirjaagrey @nirjaagrey (209) • India 21 Jul 09

my son is just one & a half year old, but he doesnt listen to me , he'll pointout something & then he wants it , if i dont give he starts crying what shall i do . bc some times he ask for things which r dangerous for him like...

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allegradream Just a quick addition...please do not resort to slapping your child, it will only breed resentment, as much as people may advise you that it is a good thing..its counter-productive as the child will get more and more used to it, so you wil slap harder and...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, this is true, unfortunately, and I wish it wasnt. We live in the uk and a 16 year old can get a job in a bar as long as they dont serve alcohol. We did call the police, but unfortunately in the Uk, because she is 16 she can choose to live elsewhere, and...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, we waited...much against my instincts, but we thought she might come back after one night once shed cooled down, but she didnt and hasnt been back since. She hasnt contacted us, but a local vicar has found her and taken her away to give her some space to...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, she had wanted a job for extra pocket money for a while and there isnt many opportunities in the small town that we live in, apart from paperrounds and she didnt want to do those, one day when she was shopping in the big town (chesterfield) she saw a sign...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Thankyou for your kind comments, we traced her to a mans flat in town but the police annot do anything as she is 16!...she is currently with our local vicar so is in a safe environment until they manage to talk sense into her, and find out exactly whats...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, unfortunately the police wouldnt do anything as she is 16, nearly 17 and left a note. We live in England and unfortunately even if they found her, if she didnt want us to know where she is, the police dont have to tell us! how wrong is that! Please see my...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream There really does seem to be a wrong crowd problem here...it seems (and Im only guessing from a jigsaw of comments over the last few weeks) that her head has been turned by a 25 year old who goes to her bar to drink, it appears she has either fallen for him or...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, she was working as a cleaner and bottle collector in the bar. Thankyou for the advice about showing her that movie, I shall definitly get a copy for her, I have also picked up some leaflets on drinking that I want to give her when (if) she comes...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi, thankyou for commenting, unfortunately in this country, 16 year olds are allowed to leave home, as they are classed as adults..even though they shouldnt smoke, drink or get married! Bizarrely enough if i went round and dragged her back home..I could get in...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Thankyou for your comments, unfortunately as she is 16, in the UK, she is allowed to live somewhere else :( We have been in contact with many of her friends and Ive asked people to keep an eye out for her. We now know that she is in safe hands with the local...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Unfortunately, we think theres a 25 year old man involved that she knows we wont approve of..he smokes, drinks and has his own flat and we've traced her to his place. I think we may have been too lapsydaisy with the internet and mobile phones with her...and...

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Thankyou for your prayers Tcup :)

24 Jul 09

allegradream @allegradream (210) 20 Jul 09

Hi, Im at my wits end, we found out last night that my 16 year old daughter has been pretending to go to work and going out drinking instead. She works at a bar so last night we banned her from the bar and grounded her, and this...

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allegradream Hi thankyou for your comment, I am sorry its taken so long to respond, Ive been turning on the computer only to check if she has emailed or facebooked me. Unfortunately the police cant do anything because in the Uk, you can live somewhere else once you hit 16...

24 Jul 09

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