ana31798

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is friendship possible after a relationship?

Ritchelle @Ritchelle (3790) • Philippines 23 Apr 09

what's your view on this? had you had an experience wherein an ex really became a friend after your breakup? is it really prevalent that many couples cannot have a friendship after a relationship? why do you think so?

friendship

relationship

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ana31798 I think it is possible to be friends with an ex. i think if there are no left over romantic feelings it is totally possible. I have been best friends with one of my ex boyfriends for like 15 years. I am still friends with my sons dad also. Sometimes you can be...

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Would you still deserve a second chance?

amaine @amaine (2027) • Philippines 20 Apr 09

Alright, think of it as if you were in the situation. If you caught your husband/wife cheating (that includes all kinds of cheating) , how would you respond to it? What would you do? Do you think that you will still be able to...

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ana31798 As much as i would like to forgive him if that happened to me I don't know if I would be able to do it. I guess it would depend on the circumstances. I just think it would always be in the back of my mind that he is capable of doing that.

21 Apr 09

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how to love again?

HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

Its been 8 to 9 years now since i last love but since then I havent love again. I have this special someone now we are just 3 months but I really am not certain if I could say that I love her already. I really do want to...

to love again

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ana31798 You know....3 months is not a very long time so just take it slow. You will love again and it will just happen. There is no need to rush it.

2 Mar 09

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What will you do?

sunita64 @sunita64 (6469) • India 2 Mar 09

After tolerting lots of neglect from your partner, You have firmly decided that now things are over between him and you, and then you melt down when you listen to his voice. Again the guy disappears from life and forgets you, then...

partner

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ana31798 I say take the time that he is away and do things on your own and forget about him. You don't want to spend your life thinking that he is going to dissappear and when or if he will come back.

2 Mar 09

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how would you if your partner is cheating on you

eabaterina @eabaterina (501) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

my friend broke up with her boyfriend of three years because she found out that the guy is seeing another girl for about a year already. she never noticed the guy was cheating on her. so how would you know if your partner is...

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ana31798 Usually when someone is cheating there may be a change in their behavior and how they act towards the girlfriend/boyfriend. There can be a change in intimacy or the partner may become non caring or even mean. Either way if this guy is cheating she did the...

2 Mar 09

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Can a relationship with a cheater workout?

woundedeagle13 @woundedeagle13 (137) • India 23 Feb 09

A relationship with a cheater can work, if you work at it. A successful relationship after cheating requires the cheater to work at being faithful and honest at all times and the victim to have a forgiven heart, being willing to...

cheater

relationship

relationship with a cheater

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ana31798 I think it may be possible for the relationship to work out but both partners have to be willing to work very hard at it. Personally I would have a very hard time trusting again if my partner cheated on me but that is just me.

23 Feb 09

Mother Admits She Doesn't Love Her Daughter!

ana31798 That is so sad. It breaks my heart because I can not imagine not loving your child. At least she knows that there is a problem and is open about it but it is still a sad situation.

30 Jan 09

Fragile x syndrome

MissAmie @MissAmie (717) • United States 28 Jan 09

How many of you parents out there have heard of this? Not many, I'm willing to bet. Did you know that Fragile X (also known as Martin Bell Syndrome) is the leading inherited cause of mental reatrdation? Did you know that it is...

special needs children

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ana31798 I had never heard of this condition before. Thanks for bringing it out to our attention. I went to the links you have up and it is very interesting.

30 Jan 09

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Rabbit Farms

thecow54312 @thecow54312 (100) • Hong Kong 25 Jan 09

You won't believe how cruel people can be with animals as beautiful and lovely as rabbits. I refuse to eat rabbit meat after i saw this vid in Youtube about rabbit farms producing furs for mega-huge companies like Gucci and...

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ana31798 That is horrible! I didn't look for the video because I don't think I can, it's just too sad. I use to have a rabbit when I was a little girl. They are so cute and friendly. My son really wants a rabbit but we can't have pets in our apartment.

29 Jan 09

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treating animals as a friend

nandhinijagan @nandhinijagan (76) • India 24 Jan 09

Animals are our friends created by God for us. We should not do any harm to animals and we should be lovable to them. What you say to it?

animals

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ana31798 I totally agree with you. I am a big animal lover and believe animals should be treated kindly.

29 Jan 09

Is it wrong to say what you feel and saw for real to your intimate friend?

davido @davido (1623) • Canada 29 Jan 09

One was chatting with his intemate friend online and he was telling her that he liked her smile but most above all the lips that they make him wants to kiss her often... and the lady was like the guy was teasing her, this guy did...

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ana31798 I think it's perfectly fine to tell the person you are intimate with how you feel. In fact I believe that it is necessary in a relationship to be able to do this.

29 Jan 09

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What was the last movie you watched?

lovesummer @lovesummer (1162) • Malaysia 21 Jan 09

I just watched a cantonese martial art movie called "Ip Man". he is also the master of " li xiao long". that was great movie with great touching story. Recommend it to everyone. here is a link to what it is...

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ana31798 The last movie I saw was Bride Wars last Friday. It was so cute and funny, a girl movie for sure. I would definately recommend it.

22 Jan 09

Is Friendship Necessary For A Lasting Relationship?

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 18 Jan 09

I wrote a poem over a year ago and it means a lot to me. It is exactly how I feel about finding that perfect someone in my life. I want someone that I can be friends with. I think that is the basis for having a long, lasting...

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ana31798 I think being friends with your partner is very important. In fact I think it is one of the most important things. Being friends means that you can share everything and enjoy everthing with out fear of being judged. In other words you are friends and lovers,...

19 Jan 09

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One night stand

gracemanotoc @gracemanotoc (641) • Japan 18 Jan 09

What do you think about one night stand? Is it hurtful or is it just plain fun? Do you know of a relationship who rooted from a one night stand? I really think that it is not a good idea but i think if the couple is meant to be...

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ana31798 I have never had a one night stand but I guess it could be exciting and fun. I have a friend that her 8 year relationship began as just a one night stand. They met at a party and they slept together. It was really just supposed to be that but they ended up...

19 Jan 09

A friend's broken heart

baumunkgirl @baumunkgirl (173) • United States 18 Jan 09

So a few months ago a friend of mine started dating this guy that's 18, and she's 21. They live about an hour apart, so they didn't get to see each other very much. About a month ago she started telling me that she wished things...

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ana31798 Just being there for her as friend would be a big help for her. The first few days are the worst, as time passes she will feel better. Maybe you can just do things with her like take her out and busy so she can keep her mind off of him. I dated a guy that was...

19 Jan 09

games: Bloody Mary

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 15 Jan 09

Bloody Mary is apparently a very popular game, only I never heard about before I watched an episode on Medium and Supernature If you don't know the legend of Bloody Mary you will find it very interesting....

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ana31798 I played it when I was a kid. It was scary and creepy but we loved it. Now my son and his friends are trying to work up the courage to do it...lol!

16 Jan 09

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Your girlfriend and her ex-lover in a room,what do you think just good friends ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 16 Jan 09

[b][/b]CAN EX-LOVERS BE JUST FRIENDS Or should ask "do you think that ex-lovers should sever all ties after the relationship is over ?.Wouldn’t it be safer especially if you were in a new relationship ?Should there still be...

exlovers and firesticks

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ana31798 I think you can be just friends with an ex lover. I am best friends with my ex, we have known eachother for almost 16 years. We were friends before anything ever happened. we started dating and it didn't work out but our friendship was still there. He is...

16 Jan 09

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Go hug your kids.

isabella123 @isabella123 (688) • Canada 13 Jan 09

I just always remember about that boy who left his house because he was mad that his mom said no more video games and diseaper for a week until the police found him dead in the wood.Or the mom who's baby was taking at the grocerie...

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ana31798 Oh I know what you mean. Whenever I hear one of those stories or just think about something like that I just want to hug my son and tell him how much I love him. It is so sad how those things happen. It reminds me af a saying that I heard before...."always say...

15 Jan 09