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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?

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applejoy it's really hard if you already went dating then fell in love with another person then at the middle of your relationship with that person, you suddenly realized that you still love your ex and that you find yourself confused already.

16 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?

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applejoy what if you got used to being with that person for the past years..it will be hard to remember what were you doing before you met this person..but true, friends and family..are one of the tools for healing..try to catch up with the things you wanted to do most...

15 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?

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applejoy accepting the reality..how? it's hard especially if there are things around you that keeps reminding you of your past. One big mistake of people is that they can't let go cause they can't even start avoiding or taking away those things that keeps on dragging...

15 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?

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applejoy what if the heart met someone new? but he isn't ready? eventually he love the girl already..is it possible that they can stay together as time will pass? given the fact that the girl is trying to help the guy to recover and heal from his past.

15 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?

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applejoy it's true that people around you will help you move on..but what's hard is yourself. Self-control is vital to be able to move on..there are some people who divert their minds but still they can't help but think of their past. I guess this lonely person must...

15 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?

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applejoy true..but the person should help himself to recover..try to forget things by voiding the things that makes him remember about his past..or else it will be another heart for him..if the new special someone in his life gives up cause he can't move on.

15 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

We all know that it's not easy to repair a heart that was badly hurt..but is there a way where people can make their broken hearts be able to recover faster than usual?

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applejoy oh..thanks..i really agree with what you said.. you have to let go of the pain by doing what? specifically? you have to open your mind and accept that the past will never be back and that you got a lot of things to deal with your present and future life.. i...

14 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy true..but the point is..you also have to learn from this situation especially if you're on top of it. He did this to you but he doesn't want to lose you..then it's your decision.. at least you got a hand on him..and he'll follow you just so he can't lose you.....

13 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy thanks..I'm working on it at the moment..whatever happens..i must look at the brighter side..what have i gained from this experience..it's a process..the realizations and learning will come at the end of every situation. thanks for keeping me company here....

13 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy i think they will still talk but just 'how are yous'. I think my bf realized this because i confronted him which almost lead to a break up..he doesn't want to lose me..so from now on, he'll be careful with his actions .. i told him I'm not secured of his...

11 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy i confronted him earlier sid..and guess what..i saw more painful messages..like he's telling his ex that he misses and loves her than me.. finally i told him I'm breaking up with him anymore..he explained and told me that those are past messages and its...

11 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy i see.. but from what i saw..i didn't feel secured of his love for me.. sweet..is like its literally sweet..when you read it..it sounds like they're still lovers who want to get back together..i understand that my bf is trying to move on..but this won't...

10 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy what do you mean that you would let it go? I'm sure he's in love with me.. and i know that he's just being there for his ex because she's very lonely at the moment..but as i said it doesn't justify the fact that they are still sweet with their messages..so i...

10 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy yes..i'm above this situation..i can handle this..i'm sure he will. cause if not..then he knows the consequences.

10 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy additional: he said they were just friends.. "yea, friends" i know..but does it have to be sweet? I know they got used to talking that way..but it's very disrespectful on my part..now..i don't feel secured of his love to me cause of what he's doing..i think...

9 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy I think the husband of the girl doesn't know.. and i think..you're right..the girl is the one who's taking initiative to get close to my boyfriend..i want to talk to the girl...cause she thinks it's "okay" with me i guess.. it's not..i hope she realizes it if...

9 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy thanks sardonyx...i feel like I'm not in the "mood" with him..just like before.. I'm cheerful and i laugh a lot..but now it breaks my heart...feels like something got broken inside of me...and it will take time to heal it back..literally. At the moment there's...

9 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy I know they still talk..but never knew they talk "sweetly"..i already confronted him and i get his point but i think this time I'm more right at this situation. I'm not jealous..i got hurt..for the fact that why do they have to talk just like that..it's all...

9 Dec 10

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy well, that's true. to enable to move on, one or both of them should distant themselves from each other.. aside from that they should respect me. I look stupid from what they did. Yet, I want to see what his actions would be. He thinks every thing is alright...

9 Dec 10

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applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 9 Dec 10

What would you do if you found your boyfriend still talking with his ex-girlfriend secretly..and saw their messages that are still sweet..yet you know they can't be together again cause the girl was already married and got a...

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applejoy thanks..I'll look unto it..cause i don't want to make decisions when I'm not emotionally ready..it's hard to make decisions when you are angry..I confronted him about it and he said sorry and he said that he's just being there for her since the girl is really...

9 Dec 10

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