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arlena040 @arlena040 (252) • United States 25 Feb 07

i was reading the news on my home page on the net and it was about the dumping of a homeless paraplegic man , a hospital in LOS ANGELES DUMPED THIS POOR MAN OUT ON THE STREETS . what a cold hearted thing to do to a human being ....

cold

lifesavr_89 @lifesavr_89 (212) • United States 19 Dec 08

i love to hang out with my friends. we may be almost 20 but when we all get together, we act like a bunch of little kids. yeah we have a lot of serious times but come on. where is the fun in being serious all the time? we like to...

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arlena040 i love to hang out with my friends. we may be almost 20 but when we all get together, we act like a bunch of little kids. yeah we have a lot of serious times but come on. where is the fun in being serious all the time? we like to go to the mall and be loud. we...

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arlena040 @arlena040 (252) • United States 13 Feb 07

I have happy news today. 2 weeks ago our family dog disappeared we searched every where in the neighborhood we could for Toby .but we just could not find him. we have had Toby since he was a puppy he is a golden retriever, we have...

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arlena040 yes thank you for your reply . Toby at first seemed so happy to see us licking our faces wagging his tail . wanting us to hug him close to us . and i was so happy to see him i cried . he was very hungry and wanted water. we found him about 15 miles from home...

13 Feb 07

arlena040 @arlena040 (252) • United States 13 Feb 07

I have happy news today. 2 weeks ago our family dog disappeared we searched every where in the neighborhood we could for Toby .but we just could not find him. we have had Toby since he was a puppy he is a golden retriever, we have...

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davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 11 Feb 07

What would you do if you accidentally knew you were just adopted? Would you still pursue on looking your real parents? Would you be mad at the adoptive parents who kept this secret from you? These are just hypthetical questions...

adopting

parents

relationships

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arlena040 Honey i am adopted like i said in my earlier post . and let me tell you this if you raise your daughter with love and let her know how special she is to you and your husband she is never going to forget you guys as her parents. i choose to not know who my...

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davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 11 Feb 07

What would you do if you accidentally knew you were just adopted? Would you still pursue on looking your real parents? Would you be mad at the adoptive parents who kept this secret from you? These are just hypthetical questions...

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arlena040 i have been thro this and done this i am adopted. and i found out after my parents died .i was 30 years old when i learned the truth . and to be honest i could care less who my parents are. was i angry with my adoptive parents no i was hurt..hurt to know i was...

11 Feb 07

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leftconcerned @leftconcerned (10) • United States 11 Feb 07

I use to draw back when I was in high school which seems like along time ago.I liked to draw because it was a good stress reliever for me and it helped relax me.I dont have as much time to draw seeing I have kids.But I am hoping...

drawing

hobbies

painting

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arlena040 yes i love drawing and painting picture's . i find it so exciting to see a picture i created with my own hand and my mind.

11 Feb 07

smoke_n_it_up @smoke_n_it_up (2) • United States 11 Feb 07

i have a 87 year old grandmother we take care of at home shes on oxygen and gets nerveous alot doesnt want us to go anywhere or leave her with anyone else just to run to the store life has come to a stop for now dont know if we...

grandparents

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arlena040 Grandmaof2 i could not have said it better myself . it is very important for us to get a break from our loved one and it's just as nice for them to have a break from us. sometimes i hopp in my car and just go for a drive alone. it clears my mind and relaxes me...

11 Feb 07

raptor25 @raptor25 (9) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

we dont send our old folks in homes for the aged because they mean a lot to us. im asian, one time i talked to an american and he told me they send their old people to these type of place, and i felt really sad. our grandmother is...

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arlena040 well first of all i would just like to say not all americans send there loved ones off to nurseing homes. my sister who has had a trumatic brain injury has lived with me in my house for the last 15 years . my grandparents and my parents are all dead . but if...

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smoke_n_it_up @smoke_n_it_up (2) • United States 11 Feb 07

i have a 87 year old grandmother we take care of at home shes on oxygen and gets nerveous alot doesnt want us to go anywhere or leave her with anyone else just to run to the store life has come to a stop for now dont know if we...

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arlena040 well i would love to give you some helpful advice but i need to know more about how you are taking care of your grandmother . i mean who else is there to help you with her care ? and what country are you from i am asking this because here in the states we have...

11 Feb 07

ShahidKhan1479 @ShahidKhan1479 (1522) • India 10 Nov 06

Have u ever flirt?

flirt

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arlena040 Oh COME ONNNN i think everyone flirts. and if they say they don't i think they are not telling the truth. it's just human nature for people to flirt. and yes i have flirted .lol and i am sure my husband has to , thro i doubt he would ever admit it..lol

11 Feb 07

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captainambosky @captainambosky (117) • United States 23 Jan 07

I have a two year old nephew who is just out of control!My sister doesn't know what to do with him.She is a single mother and the dad does not have anything to do with his son.He pitches fits that are crazy!If you don't do...

behavoir problems

children

parenting

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arlena040 well mad dog is right he has learned what he can and can not get bye with . i went thro some of this with my son . the 2's are just what they are called terriable 2's. but it won't last forever and now is the time to be teaching him what is aceptable behavior...

10 Feb 07

queenajasmina @queenajasmina (449) • United States 9 Feb 07

I was reading an article about a girl in Iran who may get the death penalty for kiling a man who tried to rape her. In her country, if a woman is raped she may be killed by her brother or father to bring the honor back to the...

death sentence

rape

women

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arlena040 i don't know what i would do . probably the same as she did . i think i would rather be dead than live in a place where there is no laws to protect me and men could have there way with me and know that i would be killed if they did. how stupid and dump can...

10 Feb 07

findcutegj @findcutegj (1466) • India 2 Feb 07

If you get a chance to color your hair, which color would you choose? I would choose shining burgundy color.

color of hair

coloured hair

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arlena040 i would choose the color of hair i was born with and still have blonde.

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arjunfour @arjunfour (128) • India 3 Feb 07

Which should be more beautiful. They external appearance or the internal mind or heart. I feel your internal self should be beautiful

beauty

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arlena040 i think true beauty begins with in a person heart. if you have a good heart full of love for people and helping hand for those in need .then you are a beautiful person . you could be the most beautiful creature ever created but if you have a ugly heart .then...

4 Feb 07

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Lecaro @Lecaro (1100) • Romania 16 Jan 07

www.ringo.com is a digital album for your photos... is real cool i keep there all my photos sorted in albums and sorted by calendar... is nice is place where you can share photos...

ringo

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arlena040 yes i have Ringo and i like it a lot . its really cool you can choose who See's your pictures and make some really nice friends all so .

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