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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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Mr_Ant My best advice to give to you is get professional help. What you are experiencing is beyond the range of being helped by a pep talk or encouraging words from friends or strangers or family. You are in the midst of a serious depression and should seek help...

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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Mindy86 This is a wonderful topic because IM THERE! I dont know so much as the anger and all, but I notice differences in me. When I go to Walmart I catch myself walking through the baby aisle checking out cribs and clothes and such. Just the other day my husband got...

20 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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Anakata2007 Adoption like you say is not so easy. It costs a lot of money to adopt. Some people have to take out second mortgages on their homes. Some people can just not afford it altogether. If you adopt privately depending on the country or state you live in the rules...

20 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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shila07 I friend, i have also the same problem, i have been married for 5 years and could not get concieved, Iam also becoming mad nowadays, i feel very sad and humilated,feel unlucky. I too feel so sad when ever, i see pregnant women, attand birthday, when other...

20 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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Anakata2007 Hi, I'm sorry for your pain. I'm angry too. I sometimes find myself giving pregnant women dirty looks on the street. Normally I'm a nice person, I swear. It has also really affected my self esteem and I find it hard to believe that my husband still wants to be...

20 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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Anakata2007 Adoption is NOT an easy solution. I'm sorry to say but it actually make me really angry when people suggest that, as if we've never thought of that before! Sorry, I'm just angry right now myself. 25% of birth mothers "change their minds" and take their baby...

20 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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littlefranciscan Some how ..I feel that if you change your outlook on your situation..things may brighten up..Think of the children who wait in orphanages for someone to love the..I bet they feel hopeless and angry as they see others chosen and them not..For some reason, God...

20 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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GloomCookieLex Well, I honestly have no idea how you feel about having always wanted to be a parent, so I may not be of any help. But since you don't have insurance, I'm sure you can find support groups that may help you. Sometimes just having friends who feel the same as...

20 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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suspenseful I get upset and start crying. I love children, so I try to help out as much as I can, but I am afraid because I got infertile through non specific Gonnerea people would think that it also accepted my brain and made me the type of person who would harm babies....

14 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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raheel07 I know this is tough for you and people around you. But see it in a positive light. You can give a great life to a child who is an orphan and needs help by adoption. You can give her your motherly affection. You can make his/her life and future better. Maybe...

14 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 14 Feb 07

So on last nights show House was ready to maybe kill a girl so that he could get a nerve from her spine and copy it for himself. While watching my husband said somthing about how 'cool' it would be to not feel any pain. As...

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PiperCharmed i am happy with the life i have now. ALthough sometime there is so much heart ache i think that everything that we go through is what makes us turn int o the person we are now. every experience helps you grow

1 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 14 Feb 07

So on last nights show House was ready to maybe kill a girl so that he could get a nerve from her spine and copy it for himself. While watching my husband said somthing about how 'cool' it would be to not feel any pain. As...

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Fargale Pain is necessary, it is a warning mechanism for our body (as very well shown in this last episode). That said, it's a hard choice, it would depend on how much the constant pain affected your life.

1 Mar 07

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 14 Feb 07

So on last nights show House was ready to maybe kill a girl so that he could get a nerve from her spine and copy it for himself. While watching my husband said somthing about how 'cool' it would be to not feel any pain. As...

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DivineTemplar This is really a difficult choice. I too am in near constant pain (anywhere from 4-7 on the pain scale), however the side effects and fear of injury that comes with being devoid of all pain is horrible. I would have to say I would rather deal with my pain then...

1 Mar 07

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clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I really missed out on my chance to go to school at a young age. Now I have to go to school in my thirties and its so difficult with a family. Is there any easy way? I go for a semester and then I sit one out. It really is hard to...

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ScrappinHappyMom You are doing the right thing by going to an accredited school. The problem with the right thing is that is often very hard to do. Instead of thinking about how hard it is today try and remember how nice it will in two years when you are done. I have many...

26 Feb 07

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clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I really missed out on my chance to go to school at a young age. Now I have to go to school in my thirties and its so difficult with a family. Is there any easy way? I go for a semester and then I sit one out. It really is hard to...

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clarkanthony Yes sounds nice but, check into those online schools, inflated cost and not necessarily affiliated with any governing body, most are scams to get your info and the legit ones are way over priced

26 Feb 07

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clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I really missed out on my chance to go to school at a young age. Now I have to go to school in my thirties and its so difficult with a family. Is there any easy way? I go for a semester and then I sit one out. It really is hard to...

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APasserBy Can't you be homeschooled? I know a lot of colleges in the US provide HS diploma too and you can take it at home. I was thinking of taking long distance course on photography and found so many long distance programs provided by universities and colleges in...

26 Feb 07

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clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I really missed out on my chance to go to school at a young age. Now I have to go to school in my thirties and its so difficult with a family. Is there any easy way? I go for a semester and then I sit one out. It really is hard to...

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vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 27 Mar 10

Is this really true? I have read in one of the discussions that it is not paying anymore??? I hope gagabux will stay and not turn into scam. I hate when things like these happen like in upbux which was a good site and it suddenly...

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mari61960 Is this really true? I have read in one of the discussions that it is not paying anymore??? I hope gagabux will stay and not turn into scam. I hate when things like these happen like in upbux which was a good site and it suddenly disappear.

26 Feb 07

heatspine @heatspine (1141) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

If you are married to someone who has a different religion with yours, how do you manage that? Now, the trickier question is what religion your children follows? Isn't it a distraction and will cause confusion to your kids?

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heatspine Yes. I sometimes wonder how a couple of two distinct religions (say hindu and catholic) handle it. Seems difficult for me personally.

26 Feb 07

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heatspine @heatspine (1141) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

If you are married to someone who has a different religion with yours, how do you manage that? Now, the trickier question is what religion your children follows? Isn't it a distraction and will cause confusion to your kids?

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angelfromtheheavens I think that yes it is possible and I also think that it depends on what the religions are. Are they something close like Lutheran and Catholic or something different like Catholic and Jahova Witness? I know of a family like that and the parents stayed the...

26 Feb 07

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