ashcas

@ashcas (55)

United States • Age 41

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I ruined my schooling in the beginning Now I am paying for it

clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I really missed out on my chance to go to school at a young age. Now I have to go to school in my thirties and its so difficult with a family. Is there any easy way? I go for a semester and then I sit one out. It really is hard to...

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ashcas I understand exactly where you are coming from. Well maybe not exactly. I do not have kids but I have been going to school for 7 years now. Sometimes I go full time most of the time I go part time and sometimes I like you just sit a semester out. I did a lot...

26 Feb 07

Can a couple with two different religion co-exist?

heatspine @heatspine (1141) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

If you are married to someone who has a different religion with yours, how do you manage that? Now, the trickier question is what religion your children follows? Isn't it a distraction and will cause confusion to your kids?

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ashcas I have been with my husband for 9 years, he is southern Baptist and I am an Atheist. I don't think that we have mastered dealing with it yet. I guess what has gotten us this far is basically being honest about our feelings and agreeing to disagree. We don't...

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Do you call your aunt or uncle by their first name?

ajinomoto23 @ajinomoto23 (1057) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Do you think that is a sign of disrespect? I feel offended if my nephew call me by my first name without adding the word aunt. I keep on correcting him but he never change.

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ashcas When I was a kid I called my aunts and uncles Aunt so and so and Uncle so and so, but when I got older I started just calling them by their first name. We are all adults so I don't think it is disrespectful. When I talk about them to someone who does not know...

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how many cousins do you have?

jerpogz13 @jerpogz13 (283) • Antarctica 25 Feb 07

i have 20 cousins.thats all!!

cousins

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ashcas If you are counting just 1st cousins then I think 20 is a lot. I only have 2 1st cousins. one I have not seen in at least 15 years the other was just born a year ago. My dad was 1 of 4 kids but his 2 sisters could not have children and his brother only had...

25 Feb 07

Everyone's favourite subject

pinknic @pinknic (307) 22 Feb 07

YOU!!! As a relatively new member of MyLot I'd like to get to know other members! So tell us one interesting or random fact about yourself! A weird fact about me is that I can't stand cotton wool. The feel of it just creeps...

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ashcas Only one...I could write and book about all of my wierd traits. I won't use milk the day before it is suppose to expire. Drives my husband crazy cause most of the time he will still drink it the day after. Gross. Of course he won't eat the last pickle slice in...

22 Feb 07

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how strict?

mitdasein @mitdasein (46) • United States 8 Feb 07

How strict are you about meat-based ingredients? Do you make waiters go back and double-check whether there's chicken stock in the risotto? Do you have a "don't ask, don't tell policy" when it comes to the refried beans at Mexican...

vegetarian

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ashcas I am not that strict when it comes to restaurants. I just try to order something that doesn't have any reason to use meat. But I have never asked if they use chicken stock in the potatoes or anything like that. Like someone else said I don't want to starve....

22 Feb 07

what do u do when you feel angry

ARINDAM007 @ARINDAM007 (149) • India 22 Feb 07

A few month ago,I was a man of anger,then I would burst in very small anger.but,now I am changed.I now-a days try to forget that matter for which I am angry.I then try to remember beautiful things of my life.it has really worked.I...

what do u do when you feel angry

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ashcas I wish I could just think about the beautiful things in my life but instead I get very very tense to the point my body aches, my head feels like it might explode at any second, I start to clean like I am on a mission...stuff flying everywhere...slaming stuff...

22 Feb 07

smoking

Makena1968 @Makena1968 (682) • United States 19 Feb 07

I was wondering, recently I had to end a relationship, and one reason I had to end it was because my partner smoked, alot..and I don't, at all. I just couldn't take the smell of the cigarette and cigar smoke, it made me smell bad,...

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ashcas My husband does not smoke but he uses snuff, which is really nasty too. I can get so irritated just thinking about it. We fight about it all the time. He used it before we got married but he hid it from me. I think that if he was a smoker we would have to work...

19 Feb 07

Can you use chopsticks?

thyst07 @thyst07 (2079) • United States 19 Feb 07

When, where, and why did you learn to? I learned how to use chopsticks to impress a guy I liked. He was really into Asian cuisine, and I didn't want to look dumb by using a fork while he ate with chopsticks.

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ashcas I can't and it drives my husband crazy. He was really good friends with a Korean family and not only did he learn alot from them but they also gave us a set of chopsticks that are metal and have a case and these big spoons that go with them. I wish I knew how...

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Do you help the homeless in any way?

SxyFlGrl315 @SxyFlGrl315 (306) • United States 19 Feb 07

What do you do when you see a homeless man or woman on the street asking for money or food? Do you stop to give, do you atleast offer a kind smile? That smile may be the only one they receive all day. I admit that I...

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ashcas I have never helped the homeless directly. In the area that I live there are not to many out begging. I think that it is actually against the law in certain areas. I do however give to different food/clothing drives and every year my family has a big yard sale...

19 Feb 07

Does your dog have any funny habits?

jeggie @jeggie (99) 18 Feb 07

We have 3 dogs in our household, all of which have very different personalties. All of them have funny habits. One of our dogs, who is a golden retriever always gives us his sign when he wants his walk. He sits on our sofa, with...

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ashcas I could write a book about all the things that our dogs do. We have two, both mutts. Stormy is 2 and about 35lbs, Tank is 1 and about 50lbs. The first thing that comes to mind is that Tank gives Stormy "piggy back rides" LOL They love to 'fight' and at one...

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Table manners, what 'irks' you?

shaz6611 @shaz6611 (951) • Australia 18 Feb 07

I've been trying to teach my children table manners since they started sitting at the table. Now, at 16 and 12 I still have to remind them to eat with their mouth closed and not to grate the fork on their teeth. I remind them...

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ashcas I don't mind some things like elbows on the table (never really got that one) but I hate it when people eat with their hands and then lick them!! That is So Nasty! I also hate to watch people eat some messy meat like ribs or fried chicken. My brother-in-law(18...

18 Feb 07

what does your dog know how to do ???

yahooguy @yahooguy (508) • Romania 18 Feb 07

what does your dog know to do ??? or he doesn't know nothing??? well i don't have a dog but i have a cat and i she knows a lot of thing to do but what about your dog??

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ashcas Our 2 dogs can sit, stay, lay down, fetch, and one can roll over. They also understand "get a treat"(they run to the kitchen) "go to bed" "get your rope" "whos here"(they run to the window) "lets go bye bye"(they go to front door) "outside" (they run to back...

18 Feb 07

Did you ever eat something you regretted?

lena2000 @lena2000 (2392) • Belgium 18 Feb 07

Once I fried a whole package of bacon and ate it in one sitting. That wasn't enough as after I was still a little hungry so I cut two Amoroso rolls in half and lightly fried them in the bacon grease. This was probably the...

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ashcas EveryDay! I actually just had a HUGE piece of birthday cake for breakfast and I am now regretting it. :-(

18 Feb 07

bare feet or slippers?

shelagh77 @shelagh77 (3643) 17 Feb 07

I have been fighting battles with my family ever since I was a child. I simply HATE having anything on my feet. I accept that I have to wear shoes outside the home but once at the doorstep, off they get kicked and there they stay...

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ashcas Looks like I am with the majority also. No Shoes For Me! I am always barefoot. Unless I have to go somewhere I have nothing on my feet. Most of the time I will go barefoot in my yard if I am going to be outside for just a minute. Like someone else I also...

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