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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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babyangie27 Ma I am not sure how to handle this. The stress you and your hubby are going threw is difficult. All i can do is be here to listen. I would try to talk to him and let him know how you feel. Maybe the boys could look for part time work too?

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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Thoroughrob I would sit them down and tell them that living with you is not a free ride. They are responsible for getting out and finding work. You have to stick up for your husband. Your boys are now adults and should have responsability. They should have things they do...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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purplealabaster I have been at a couple places that hired temporary workers and liked them so well that they offered them a job when the temporary placement was done. It doesn't happen all the time, but it can and does happen sometimes. Besides, it sounds like at this point...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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purplealabaster I have to say that although it might be difficult to hear, I think that Aharter has some good advice and made some good points. If your boys are sleeping until 11:00 and then going to look for jobs in the afternoon, then they are not making a very good...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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rosepedal64 Hello bitoffun...I hope that things work out for you. I think with their ages that they know that mom is going to help no matter what. Believe me when I say I know what you are going thru. I just spoke with a man about my oldest son. He told me one thing that...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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rosepedal64 Oh bitoffun..I do feel for you so much. I know it is hard to handle those adult sons. I have went thru so much with my oldest that I cant begin to tell you. Yes they are putting you in the middle. As bad as it may sound you might have to treat them like when...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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rosepedal64 Hello bitoffun I have been in a situtation something like that before. I know this might not be what you want to hear but please hear me out. My older son a few years back didn't have a job and his girlfriend kicked out. So he came running to me. He knew...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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purplealabaster I hope that I didn't sound unsympathetic in my reply below, because I really do understand and feel sorry for the position that you are in, Bitoffun. You are caught in between your husband and your kids, and that is not a good place to be. Like Angie said,...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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babyangie27 Well then you have to tell the boys how it is. I know you love them but they have a security net with you and trust me that is not going to be good from them down the road. I was pretty lost when my mom and dad died,now look at me at us? You know how bad it...

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bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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aharter Maybe I am sticking my nose in where it doesn't belong, mostly because I don't have adult children. But, I have had people live with me that have worn out their welcome. My sister lived with me for a very long time and it was only supposed to be for a few...

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