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aharter @aharter (16) • United States 20 Oct 09

I have something that I need to get off of my chest and thought that this would be the best place to do it. Anyhow, my family and I just moved into our new home this past February. Since then my children have made friends with...

bad parenting

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aharter You both are right. I was just afraid to step in because she wasn't my child. I am certainly going to try it. Thank you both.

21 Oct 09

aharter @aharter (16) • United States 20 Oct 09

I have something that I need to get off of my chest and thought that this would be the best place to do it. Anyhow, my family and I just moved into our new home this past February. Since then my children have made friends with...

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aharter @aharter (16) • United States 10 Jul 09

My husband and I have been married for almost 11 years. And for a good majority of those years he has cheated on me. His last affair (that I know of) was about 4 years ago. But, the girl(if you can call her that) he had the affair...

trust

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aharter I just wanted to let everyone know that my husband has turned over a new leaf. He definetly respects me and our relationship more. He has cut off ties with these women and spends alot of time with me. When he does go over to the mutual friends house I am right...

1 Oct 09

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 1 Oct 09

I don't have this problem but my friend does. He handles it by going out and socialize with friends rather than sit down and talk things over with the wife. For him that's a waste of time, often it doesn't go anywhere. Any...

magging wife

reasons for socializing

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aharter I used to be the "nagging" wife kind. And my husband's response would be to go out everyday with his friends or stay at their house for days. This only made things worse. I felt very alone and forgotten. I spent my nights crying and my days nagging about him...

1 Oct 09

bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

family

kids

life

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aharter Good for you.I'm so glad to hear that the talk went well. Please keep us posted on how their progress goes.

1 Oct 09

bitoffun @bitoffun (203) • United States 30 Sep 09

I have two adult sons living at home. They are trying so hard to find full time work. My hubby is always complaining about how he supports them. He does cause he is the only one working. They both have security jobs that give them...

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aharter Maybe I am sticking my nose in where it doesn't belong, mostly because I don't have adult children. But, I have had people live with me that have worn out their welcome. My sister lived with me for a very long time and it was only supposed to be for a few...

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laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 15 Jul 09

I am hurt but don't want to talk about it anymore. Neither do I want my family or friends to know about it, so I pretend I'm okay, but deep down inside I'm not really fine. Do you ever hide your real feelings? Why do you?

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aharter Yes, I hide my feelings from everyone but my husband. I can't hide anything from him. Trust me, I have tried. But, that's ok. He is the one that helps me work through it most of the time. I don't tell everyone everything b/c I learned a long time ago that even...

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Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 15 Jul 09

Hey Mylotters, I am on my way to sleep but I had to think of something that I knew would get your attention. So I thought of this topic, to get your attention and to also make you laugh and think about the last time when you had...

love

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aharter My husband decided that he was going to get a babysitter for a few days and take me on a romantic getaway. The hotel that he had chosen was under a little bit of repair b/c some pipes had burst in the laundry room upstairs. But, we decided to stay anyway. We...

15 Jul 09

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aharter @aharter (16) • United States 15 Jul 09

I am REALLY wanting to find a way to make a living from home. I have been looking for some time now. I have one job "ChaCha" that pays. But, it doesn't pay well at all. I am looking to make about $200 a week. I am also willing to...

money

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aharter @aharter (16) • United States 10 Jul 09

My husband and I have been married for almost 11 years. And for a good majority of those years he has cheated on me. His last affair (that I know of) was about 4 years ago. But, the girl(if you can call her that) he had the affair...

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SuperJelly @SuperJelly (320) • Malawi 10 Jul 09

Dou you ever confide your most secrets about your life with your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband? Or are you always at pains to do so?

confide

lover

secrets

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aharter I tell my husband everything. We have been married for 10 years and he is still my best friend. I know that seems pretty mushy. But, it's true. I find that telling the truth and having him be mad at me for just a little while is way better than lying to him...

10 Jul 09

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sandeepnongkynrih @sandeepnongkynrih (196) • India 27 Jun 09

Do you think that marijuana should be legalized? Illegal marijuana trafficking causes so many problems. Do you think the effects of legalizing marijuana would be less than the problems caused due to illegal trafficking of...

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aharter Yes, I believe that marijuana should be legalized.It is not the "gateway" drug that everyone used to think. They have actually found benefits of using marijuana. Besides if you are smoking it, who are you hurting? Yourself? In that case cigarettes should...

10 Jul 09

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NarcyzaProspera @NarcyzaProspera (154) • Philippines 9 Jul 09

Hi guys. I joined myLot a year ago. But I wasn't able to do much on the site until I forgot about it completely. Good thing I regularly receive email updates from this site and decided to open one particular email. Now, I felt...

how to earn in mylot

make money on mylot

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aharter I am really looking for an answer to this very same question. I am a mother of 3 and would really like to find a way to make a sizable income online. Is this the place to do it?

10 Jul 09

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lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 9 Jul 09

Have you heard about this little girl missing after leaving her friends house to go home less than 1/2 mile at 9:30 at night in McCleary, Washington. She has not been found however her Father is suppose to report to Iraq. I think...

father to report to iraq

lindsey baum missing

washington

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aharter I agree with you. There is no way that this man is going to be able to keep his mind right and keep himself safe when he is worried about his little girl. Being a mother of a 10 year little girl I know that I would not be able to do it. Isn't there some kind...

10 Jul 09

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 9 Jul 09

My oldest son has always been the most frustrating of my children. He's had the same chores since he was 4 years old, yet he still has to be reminded every single day to do them, and once he does them, he doesn't do them right....

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aharter I may be out of line here, but my 7 year old son was just diagnosed with ADHD about 6 months ago. Before his diagnosis and medication I was at my whits end. I felt like all I did all day long was scream. He would do anything that would pop into his head at...

10 Jul 09

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