CHARDY19850603

@CHARDY19850603 (71)

South Africa • Age 39

Joined myLot 18 years ago

It can only get better

CHARDY19850603's Responses

how bad is the world out there?

Inti2000 @Inti2000 (9) • South Africa 11 Feb 07

Do you ever wake up feel that things are just generally going south. I seem to feel that the individuals out and about are in a sort of gloom palace, without a single clue that there is a way to clear their way through life....

depression

sadness

self loathing

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1 person

CHARDY19850603 Hi there could you please elaborate, im not quite understanding what you trying to say

27 Feb 07

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Why is everything so inconsistant?

Rumple @Rumple (301) • South Africa 20 Jan 07

How come some days you get so many responses to your discussions that you think are quality and then sometimes you dont get any. And also sometimes you get hundreds of responses to discussions that are of no quality at all. I...

discussion

inconsistant

mylot

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CHARDY19850603 Hey there i'm also from durban, please respond when you get this

22 Feb 07

using a mobile while driving

meloy_74 @meloy_74 (26) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

This always irks me, people using their mobile while driving. To me, this is just a pure case of recklessness, or even stupidity. Even theres a law prohibiting it, I still see lots doing it on the road. I dont know what it will...

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6 people

CHARDY19850603 Unfortunately not, Thats why they invented hands free kit so that you don't have to use your hands for the phone when you driving.I guess some people feel they need to brake the law somehow just to get status, or do something that people are forbidden to do...

21 Feb 07

Criticism

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58673) • Delhi, India 21 Feb 07

How many of you like to be criticised? Means who do you feel when someone close to you critise you? I feel it is really hurts when some one directly criticises you in front of others. Do you feel that if someone criticises you, he...

criticism

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CHARDY19850603 Sometimes your friends close to you will criticize you not because they hate you, but because they care about you. You might have to much pride in your self and you don't even realise it, So criticizing you helps you in a way and in a way makes you a better...

21 Feb 07

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Do you think much criticism can ruin a relationship?

ajinomoto23 @ajinomoto23 (1057) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

I found myself to be too critical about my nephew. I think he doesn't like the way I am treating him. We have more fights than happy moments. But when we play jokes we seem to have good laughs.

relatioships

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CHARDY19850603 When you criticizing some1, i think it also depends on your body language, if you criticize someone with a smile on your face then they won't take it that bad, but try and criticize someone with a serious face and see what happens..................

21 Feb 07

How do you deal with criticism?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 20 Feb 07

As I am a very stubborn person - LOL - if anyone criticise me at work or in any other walk of life, I tend to get quietly annoyed about it, and determine to prove them wrong. I certainly never give tem the satisfaction of knowing...

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CHARDY19850603 If you have self image problems then you will react negatively when people critisize you, You need to no who you are and take it from there. I get alot of criticism daily but hey that don't effect me, i no who i am which makes it easy to handle...

21 Feb 07

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1 person

How Old were You when You got Married?

make7upyours @make7upyours (287) • United States 18 Feb 07

I am almost 27, and I have never been married. It is kind of depressing... I am just not sure if it will ever happen

marrige

weddings

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CHARDY19850603 Whats makes you think you won't get married, the saying goes "good things happen to those who wait". have you got any children ?

19 Feb 07

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visit visa

sharon1980 @sharon1980 (116) • Philippines 6 Feb 07

i want to go to canada and work there. i am working in a call center in Philippines. Can anybody give advices on what I should do? My uncle is an immigrant there but he spend more than 2 million for it and I don't have that...

visit or working visa in canada

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CHARDY19850603 Hi there Sharon I'm not the response you would be lookings for, but i just wanted to no how is it in phillipines? I'm from South Africa........

16 Feb 07

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War in Africa

marvjee687 @marvjee687 (8) • Ghana 27 Dec 06

What do you think is the problem that bring about wars especially in Africa? .............Have you also thought of the end results ? Speak your mind out please beacuse Africa is Dieing.

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CHARDY19850603 I think its got to do with racism, people need to understand that we are put onto this earth for reason(a good reason)no matter what race we are, we suppose to love unconditionally,Many of wars are also caused by the peoples wrong upbringing.......

16 Feb 07

Ever had a crush on your School Teacher??

pix_trix @pix_trix (447) • India 15 Feb 07

When i was in school, we had this really beautiful history teacher! it was like a dream to be in her class, no one even cared if the subject was boring, infact i scored a 95% in history during the time she taught us. i never used...

crush

school

teacher

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CHARDY19850603 I had a crush on my grade 10 english teacher, i don't think i ever missed a her class even when my friends wanted me to bunk school.I 1st made sure i went to her class before i bunked.I guess the person teaching you also plays an important role because it...

16 Feb 07