chillvail

@chillvail (43)

United States • Age 65

Joined myLot 16 years ago

If you live your life properly, your dreams will come to you

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

What is a cult?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 2 May 08

Just curious as to what you guys think defines a cult. Is it just any organized religious group or certain religious group?

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Malyck I don't think cults are limited only to religious groups, or at least not to the "mainstream" religions. A cult to me, is just a group of people who follow the same ideal and disregard rational thought for the purposes of following these set rules and...

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

What is a cult?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 2 May 08

Just curious as to what you guys think defines a cult. Is it just any organized religious group or certain religious group?

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sharay it does not denote any particular religious group, it is basically a group of people with different religious beliefs from a larger group to which they belong

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

What should I do with rings after the divorce?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

I am divorced and not sure what to do with my wedding rings now? Any suggestions?

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aowaow The best solution is following your heart.

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

What should I do with rings after the divorce?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

I am divorced and not sure what to do with my wedding rings now? Any suggestions?

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positiveminded1977 You can sell them. Use the money to have some fun. Do they evoke a lot of pain? If so, get rid of them. Still fond of your ex? Keep them in memory of him. :) If you don't want to keep them and don't want to sell them either, I have a good idea for you. Take...

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

What should I do with rings after the divorce?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

I am divorced and not sure what to do with my wedding rings now? Any suggestions?

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bhappy2 When I divorced I kept my rings. I will give them to my children eventually but for now they are a reminder never ever ever get married again. I think people who marry the second time are either very brave or very foolish. I mean if you can't pick the right...

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

How do I start to date again after a divorce?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

My husband left last May and our divorce was final this past Jan. I was married for 27 yrs and now I am terrified and clueless about dating again. I did not like it when I was a young adult and I am pretty sure I won't like it...

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anetteh Hello and welcome to mylot, I know exact what you mean. I was married for 12 years when my husband one day wanted to change is life and move to the big city. He is today living as a homosexual person. I have no judgment of it and I have made my life to be very...

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

How do I start to date again after a divorce?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

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YoungInLove Just do what feels right. I dated my boyfriend for a year and a half before we broke up. He was my first boyfriend ever and i was completely heartbroken. It took a good 7 months for me to even feel comfortable around guys when i knew they were interested....

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chillvail liked this • 5 May 08

How do I start to date again after a divorce?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

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bhappy2 I was married 42 years but I am dating again now. When we were young I think we were more hunting than dating. We were looking for a permanent partner. Now I enjoy going out with men. Conversation with a man is different to conversation with another woman and...

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chillvail liked this • 4 May 08

Whats the strangest thing your child has ever done?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

I had a child eat a snail, another one shove rocks up his nose,one eat dog poop. Another child ate laundry soap . A whole scoop full of the powder kind . Had to call poison control on that one . Maybe it is just my kids but they...

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easymoney75503 well my kids have done some good ones too. my youngest got a piece of a pink balloon stuck up her nose. the oldest got a shampoo bottle lid stuck to her lip. my sister stuck a greenbean sed up her nose and it sprouted lol. i packed my ears with dirt when i was...

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chillvail liked this • 4 May 08

Whats the strangest thing your child has ever done?

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 4 May 08

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Malyck Ahaha, this reminded me of a story of my sister's boyfriend when he was about 3 years old. It's actually something that continues to affect him to this day, at the age of 20 =) One night, his mother had just finished changing his nappy, and then gave him...

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chillvail liked this • 2 May 08

Husband left and TOOK THE TWO KIDS!

chillvail @chillvail (43) • United States 1 May 08

After being married for 27 yrs my husband left one day and took my 2 youngest kids. They were willing to go and I could not understand it why. The youngest was 12 at the time. My ex later admitted he had been talking to the kids...

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dragonfly242 Hi chillvail. This is an awful situation to be in. I think your ex went about this in an underhanded way. He is indeed causing a lot of damage to you and your kids relationship.Coming from a broken family myself, my situation was alot different. My mom...

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