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ChupoLibro @ChupoLibro (54) • United States 27 Oct 07

One day she's berating me and being openly rude to me, the next she's acting deeply concerned about me and my family (I live on the East Coast and all my family is in SoCal so she called to find out how they're doing). I know I...

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ChupoLibro This is exactly why I can't have relationships with my husband's brother's wives because she would run to them, tell them twisted things and then turn them against me so she could say things like, "We;;, no one in this family likes you". There was always this...

11 Nov 07

ChupoLibro @ChupoLibro (54) • United States 27 Oct 07

One day she's berating me and being openly rude to me, the next she's acting deeply concerned about me and my family (I live on the East Coast and all my family is in SoCal so she called to find out how they're doing). I know I...

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ChupoLibro This is exactly why I can't have relationships with my husband's brother's wives because she would run to them, tell them twisted things and then turn them against me so she could say things like, "We;;, no one in this family likes you". There was always this...

11 Nov 07

ChupoLibro @ChupoLibro (54) • United States 27 Oct 07

One day she's berating me and being openly rude to me, the next she's acting deeply concerned about me and my family (I live on the East Coast and all my family is in SoCal so she called to find out how they're doing). I know I...

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ChupoLibro WOW - deja vu! My MIL was the same way when we first moved "back home" (from CA all the way to DE to be near HIS family). She would watch our son and rummage through our financial papers then lie about it. So we bought a filing cabinet with a lock and she...

11 Nov 07

ChupoLibro @ChupoLibro (54) • United States 27 Oct 07

One day she's berating me and being openly rude to me, the next she's acting deeply concerned about me and my family (I live on the East Coast and all my family is in SoCal so she called to find out how they're doing). I know I...

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ChupoLibro You hubby used to go right along with her and not say anything until about 4 years ago. Now when she says something disrespectful, he tells her so and does whatever he can to reinforce that I am his #1 woman now. I took 8 years, but better late than never, I...

27 Oct 07

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ChupoLibro @ChupoLibro (54) • United States 19 Jul 07

I don't cause bruises and in most cases not even a red splotch. I do it more for shock and notice than anything else. But when my child gets an attitude, rolls her eyes, and says something disrespectful, she's at least going to...

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ChupoLibro So, I am to alter my day, my plans, my shopping trip because she has been disrespectful? What does that teach her? It teaches her that she can behave that way and I'll simply sulk away and in some way bend to her will (she was acting this way because she...

19 Jul 07

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beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 3 Jul 07

Do best friends keep secrets about themselves? I suppose it's inevitable. After all not everyone is so straight forward about their past. I've often wondered if some of my best friends had really bad secrets, like maybe they...

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ChupoLibro You know what - it was already happening before you could have said anything. They fooled around when she visited in '99 and then he allowed me to invite her into my home in '03 having never told me and it just picked up from there. It was going on until she...

17 Jul 07

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