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seymiss @seymiss (622) 5 May 09

We constantly keep listening to the wrong voices.Certain people just enjoy that we live our lifes guilty and condemed constantly bringing accusations of what we didnt do or should have done our past mistakes and failures we...

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cobrateacher Welcome, Newbie! Everyone has at least some toxic people in their life. Just as we wouldn't tolerate toxic fumes or toxic products into our lives, we must get rid of the peope who are toxic to us, like those you describe. Some may be family members, but...

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seymiss @seymiss (622) 5 May 09

We constantly keep listening to the wrong voices.Certain people just enjoy that we live our lifes guilty and condemed constantly bringing accusations of what we didnt do or should have done our past mistakes and failures we...

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celticrogue Welcome to myLot, seymiss! The degree that someone listens to those continually accusing us or tries to bring us down is dependent upon our own self-esteem. The lower of one's self-esteem, the more we will tend to listen to our accusers. The higher, or...

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seymiss @seymiss (622) 5 May 09

We constantly keep listening to the wrong voices.Certain people just enjoy that we live our lifes guilty and condemed constantly bringing accusations of what we didnt do or should have done our past mistakes and failures we...

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bird123 If you listen to the negativity of the world, guess how you will turn out. Shine your love and positive energy to all. BE THE SOLUTION! Now about mistakes.Life is about learning and growing as people. God counts on us making those mistakes because more is...

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seymiss @seymiss (622) 5 May 09

We constantly keep listening to the wrong voices.Certain people just enjoy that we live our lifes guilty and condemed constantly bringing accusations of what we didnt do or should have done our past mistakes and failures we...

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seymiss Thanx for the advices.And thanx for participating on my questions guys.

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seymiss @seymiss (622) 5 May 09

We constantly keep listening to the wrong voices.Certain people just enjoy that we live our lifes guilty and condemed constantly bringing accusations of what we didnt do or should have done our past mistakes and failures we...

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RhythmWalker1 seymiss, Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery so today is a present. I didn't quote that exactly right but it's worth thinking about. If we allow the past to bog us down and aren't brave enough to tell other people to mind their own business, we...

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seymiss @seymiss (622) 5 May 09

We constantly keep listening to the wrong voices.Certain people just enjoy that we live our lifes guilty and condemed constantly bringing accusations of what we didnt do or should have done our past mistakes and failures we...

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CookieLynne @CookieLynne (5) • United States 29 May 09

I am still single, and in most relationships that I have had the friendship leaves the minute the "relationship" enters. Will it be different when I find "the one?" Is there a chance that a friendship can occur with the lovey...

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rsa101 I guess there is always friendship in a relationship whether it is romantic or not. I think there is just a slight difference if you go further beyon the friendship but it can exist in a romantic relationship still.

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CookieLynne @CookieLynne (5) • United States 29 May 09

I am still single, and in most relationships that I have had the friendship leaves the minute the "relationship" enters. Will it be different when I find "the one?" Is there a chance that a friendship can occur with the lovey...

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jjasmine I think it is quite scary to even contemplate that you cant have friendship with the person you choose to spend your life with. friendship, love, trust, communication, etc should all be present in both marriage and long term intimate relationships.

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CookieLynne @CookieLynne (5) • United States 29 May 09

I am still single, and in most relationships that I have had the friendship leaves the minute the "relationship" enters. Will it be different when I find "the one?" Is there a chance that a friendship can occur with the lovey...

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samar12 Yes it does exist at least for me it does. I never thought I could get my husband as the best-friend.We have become best friends and I don't even get in touch with my older friends to hang out with or talk to sharing things to. We share about each and...

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CookieLynne @CookieLynne (5) • United States 29 May 09

I am still single, and in most relationships that I have had the friendship leaves the minute the "relationship" enters. Will it be different when I find "the one?" Is there a chance that a friendship can occur with the lovey...

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tomcat23 Friendship is the base of a relationship. You build on that friendship, because in the 49 years I've been around, I've found that without friendship, there really isn't much to go on. In my opinion, based on my own personal experience, its often the friendship...

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