crank_yanker

@crank_yanker (13)

Philippines • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

live through this, and you'll never look back...

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Why Do We Need Friends?

Geoas @ashjoe76 (1422) • India 7 Feb 07

Aren't we all happy if we have a good family - a great looking spouse, a couple of wonderful kids and to add to this, if we have a good white collar job? Why do we need friends in life? Just to give vent to our frustruations, or...

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crank_yanker we all need friends because we are all social beings. as they say, no man is an island. a life without friends would indeed be a miserable one.

7 Feb 07

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Can you define LOVE

ilunice @ilunice (946) • Netherlands 3 Feb 07

Love can be defined in a variety of ways. Here is my definition from the Acronym named love. L = Live your live for the benefit of others O = On this hangs the laws and other relational matters V = Vanity is all deeds with...

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crank_yanker you can't really define love. it's something that you feel. you just know.

7 Feb 07

what is your question about life that still hasn't been answered?

Autisteek @Autisteek (326) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

What are your deepest thoughts?

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crank_yanker i have to answer this question with a quote by French philisopher ALbert Camus: "You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life." having sasid that, i guess...

7 Feb 07

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How will you celebrate your valentine?

cathiza27 @cathiza27 (188) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

Valentines day.... how can you celebrate without a partner? Me I don't know? this past 10 years of my life, every feb 14, I have some one to be with, I recieve flowers, or chocolates or gifts from someone...right now I felt so sad...

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crank_yanker i've never had a valentine date EVER in my life, so this year's not gonna be any different. i'm gonna spend my night at home, watching tv and stuffing myself with ice cream. yum!! =p

7 Feb 07

Love at First Sight !!!!

maibam @maibam (142) • India 7 Feb 07

Have you ever had Love at first Sight?

love at first sight

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crank_yanker i don't believe in love at first sight. that's just infatuation at most. you need to at least speak to the person first before you fall in love with him/her.

7 Feb 07

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Have you ever tried to get a long distance relationship to work?

jeepstergirl @jeepstergirl (396) • United States 25 Jan 07

I can't imagine trying to get this to work. I would miss my husband so much, but at the same time be worried about what he's doing and who he's doing it with. Have you ever tried to get one to work? How did it turn out?

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crank_yanker i was in a long-distrance relationship with my ex for about 8 months. in the end, it wasn't even the distance that broke us up. it was a whole other bunch of messed up factors. =( i guess if you really love the person you can make this long-distance...

7 Feb 07

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have you ever experience of being broken-hearted?

czarina0527 @czarina0527 (307) • Philippines 17 Jan 07

do you remember how painful it felt? how did you rid yourself of this pain? how did you move on? i experienced it already and it is very painful when i found at the my boyfriend has another girlfriend. i keep myself busy at...

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crank_yanker i just had my heart broken this past xmas. it hurt so much coz it was my birthday when the bf and i had the falling out, even though we never really ended it officially (he wouldn't talk about it with me til this day). i had some good cries, and i felt...

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what is the best way to handle a breakup????

parastaps @parastaps (34) • India 3 Feb 07

the time after the breakup really sucks!!!its the worst time of your life....you dont feel like meeting anyone,havin food,its feels like the end of life,feels like you are lost.....HOW DO U HANDLE THIS????

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crank_yanker well, there really is no easy way to handle a breakup, but it is true that time heals all wounds. you may feel like total crap right after the breakup, which may go on for months, even years. but trust that everything happens for a reason and that someday,...

5 Feb 07

what's your fave dashboard confessional song?

cutepoison @cutepoison (143) • Philippines 8 Jan 07

what song by dashboard confessional do you like the most? mine would have to be "rapid hope loss."

dashboard confessional

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crank_yanker i have to agree that my fave right now would be "rapid hope loss." i can totally relate to it. "so much for all the promises you made, they served you well, now you're gone and they're wasted on me."

5 Feb 07

What is an easy way to get over someone you love

emilylynn2003 @emilylynn2003 (876) • United States 4 Jan 07

Things are not working out real well for me .. i dont think my love life will be lasting much longer what are some helpful ways to help me get over the person i love.. and move on and really just forget?

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crank_yanker keep yourself busy, busy, busy. also, surround yourself with people who care about you, like friends and family. i know it's tough, but you'll get over it sooner or later. it's not like you wake up one day and you're suddenly over that person entirely. it...

5 Feb 07

Whats your favorite BREAK UP song???

PoeTalker @PoeTalker (715) • United States 3 Feb 07

What song do you listen to during a break up that helps you move on??

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crank_yanker definitely "my happy ending" by avril lavigne. "i'm not missing you" by stacie orrico helped me a lot too. ;)

5 Feb 07