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elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

We all hear the specialists saying that we should love more ourselves first than anybody else, in order to be able to love others.... Is that right though? In the case of the partner, someone that I chose to be with for the rest...

husband

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elenahap Thank you. I also didn't mean a selfish love, just not to forget myself's needs, because of my husband's.

8 Jul 08

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elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

We all hear the specialists saying that we should love more ourselves first than anybody else, in order to be able to love others.... Is that right though? In the case of the partner, someone that I chose to be with for the rest...

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elenahap Thank you. That is a nice advice.

8 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

I really do not know ahy they are called french. I don't believe is because the french invented them, or is it? I mean, french don't even eat so many french fries in fact, they prefer other kinds of cooking potatoes. Can...

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elenahap I have all these questions also :) At least someone made a good discovery, because we all love fries, french or not!

8 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

I really do not know ahy they are called french. I don't believe is because the french invented them, or is it? I mean, french don't even eat so many french fries in fact, they prefer other kinds of cooking potatoes. Can...

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elenahap Really they are from Belgium? Well, they do speak french there, so there is a connection...

8 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

My son is almost 2 years old. When he gets annoyed or when he doesn't get his way he slaps me, hits me, kicks me, pinches me, etc... I do not know how to make him to stop. I try ignoring it, but nothing. I then shout at him, it...

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elenahap What privilages can I take away from a 2-year old? He only has his toys...and he plays with them when he is calm, so surely I don't want to remove one of the reasons that actually calms him down .

6 Jul 08

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elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

My son is almost 2 years old. When he gets annoyed or when he doesn't get his way he slaps me, hits me, kicks me, pinches me, etc... I do not know how to make him to stop. I try ignoring it, but nothing. I then shout at him, it...

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elenahap harsh in what way?

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

My son is almost 2 years old. When he gets annoyed or when he doesn't get his way he slaps me, hits me, kicks me, pinches me, etc... I do not know how to make him to stop. I try ignoring it, but nothing. I then shout at him, it...

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elenahap I don't believe in violence and I am against it. I only tried pinching him back once, so for only once to realise that waht he does is not good for mommy, or for him, or for anybody else. I actualy try to hug him, but this only makes things worse, because he...

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

My son is almost 2 years old. When he gets annoyed or when he doesn't get his way he slaps me, hits me, kicks me, pinches me, etc... I do not know how to make him to stop. I try ignoring it, but nothing. I then shout at him, it...

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elenahap Thanks. I do send him to his room for a time out, but soon he does the same thing. Timeout doesn't work for him.

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 5 Jul 08

My son is almost 2 years old. When he gets annoyed or when he doesn't get his way he slaps me, hits me, kicks me, pinches me, etc... I do not know how to make him to stop. I try ignoring it, but nothing. I then shout at him, it...

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elenahap Yes but he is only 2 years old. What priviledges can I take away from him? I do send him to his room though, but that also doesn't work. Soon he forgets and does it again.

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Jul 08

One of the biggest questions in life, about life, and one that in our lifetime will never be answered. Religions try to answer this question but still the answer is not clear or satisfactory. Why God created us? Is it a game...

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elenahap Very nice answer... I also liked it that you answered about why you are here in mylot :), you have a macro and a micro perspective! So if I understand, you believe that we go to other planets to live when we die from our life on earth?

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Jul 08

One of the biggest questions in life, about life, and one that in our lifetime will never be answered. Religions try to answer this question but still the answer is not clear or satisfactory. Why God created us? Is it a game...

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elenahap So you are convinced that fr sure when we are deadwe will learn the answer? Aren't you afraid that maybe we will never ever learn why? Even when we die? Maybe there is nothing after that...

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Jul 08

One of the biggest questions in life, about life, and one that in our lifetime will never be answered. Religions try to answer this question but still the answer is not clear or satisfactory. Why God created us? Is it a game...

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elenahap :) Very interesting approach, a freak accident. This opens up even more questions though.

6 Jul 08

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elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Jul 08

One of the biggest questions in life, about life, and one that in our lifetime will never be answered. Religions try to answer this question but still the answer is not clear or satisfactory. Why God created us? Is it a game...

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elenahap So you think I should just believe and not to ask questions?

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Jul 08

One of the biggest questions in life, about life, and one that in our lifetime will never be answered. Religions try to answer this question but still the answer is not clear or satisfactory. Why God created us? Is it a game...

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elenahap Yes you are right.This is what I also think some times, the purpose of life is to simply live.

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Jul 08

One of the biggest questions in life, about life, and one that in our lifetime will never be answered. Religions try to answer this question but still the answer is not clear or satisfactory. Why God created us? Is it a game...

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elenahap So you believe in reincarnation?

6 Jul 08

elenahap @elenahap (104) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Jul 08

One of the biggest questions in life, about life, and one that in our lifetime will never be answered. Religions try to answer this question but still the answer is not clear or satisfactory. Why God created us? Is it a game...

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elenahap Thanks. You are right, we will all know out purpose sooner or later...

6 Jul 08

avidwhit @avidwhit (1492) • Mexico 4 Jul 08

I just read a post asking what can you do if the Jehovah Witnesses keep coming to your door even after you say your not interested. This strated my brain a thinking. This post is not in anyway pointed to the Jehovah...

religion and love

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elenahap Yes i love them anyway....but I am human, and no human can have a 100% pure heart (except the saints, and even they got angry once in their lifetimes the least), so I do get annoyed also, -when they keep on pushing my nerves.

4 Jul 08

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