forslahiri

@forslahiri (1042)

India • Age 66

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Can there be attachment?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 9 Apr 09

I am asking about our generation. Do you think there can be very much attachment in arranged marriages? Or is it just moderate and not as prevalent as love marriages where it is there beforehand.In my opinion, it is going to be...

attachment

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forslahiri Hi, any generation including the new will agree Marriage is such a relationship which is built upon STRONG TRUST & Mutual Sacrifice.In LOve marraige Love exists before,U know the traits of each other and therefore adjustments are made accosrdingly.In Arranged...

10 Apr 09

I would appreciate if my partner would be........

HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 9 Apr 09

try continuing this sentence the things you want your partner be just try to complete it I would appreciate if my partner would be_________________________________. and tell us why you want this.. thanks

partner

want

you

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forslahiri Hi, ...my partner would be Balancing the Brain & Heart, as per the situation demands! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

10 Apr 09

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My boyfriend has severe psoriatic arthritis.

jennajen26 @jennajen26 (79) • Canada 9 Apr 09

Does anyone know what that is? I'll explain, he's literally COVERED in psoriasis, and his arthritis is SO bad he cannot turn his head, straighten out his legs or ankles, he walks with a cane, one of his pinky fingers is...

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forslahiri Hi, "Psoriatic Arthiritis"in Loose term is Inflammation of skin(psoriasis) &Joints(arthiritis).Joint pain,redness,scaling of skin,stiffness are common symptoms. 10% population suffer this disabling disease.Treatment is must either with...

10 Apr 09

what topic really provoke your love one's anger?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 9 Apr 09

You and your love one might have many topics to talk about, what really provoke your love one's anger while discussing certain topics. For me, whenever I talk about wasting money on certain stuff, such as gym, and shopping for...

anger

love one

provoke

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forslahiri Hi, For a girl,any topic challenging their Integrity will be kindling anger. Spending on Jwelleries,Costly dresses,shopping-habit, Her declining beauty,comparing her intelligence with someone U know etc are "touchy subjects'.It is bound to add fuel to...

10 Apr 09

Which Relation You Like Most

neerajpandey_13 @neerajpandey_13 (1765) • India 9 Apr 09

From born to deathe each and every man was in different type of relationship. First he was son of parents. After that he was brother or sister. Then he was lover of someone After that he married and then he was master of other...

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forslahiri Hi, Every Relation in the Path of Life has it's own importance. It's difficult to compare one from the others,because the relationship has it's own Impact during that slot. However,most of the persons want to revisit their 'childhood' b'cz even...

10 Apr 09

top 4 reasons to break up with a girl

Ritchelle @Ritchelle (3790) • Philippines 10 Apr 09

am just interested in the reasons on why guys break up with a girl. i hope the guy mylotters will give their opinions on this. it would be very interesting to the single, female mylotters.

breaking up

reasons

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forslahiri Hi, According to me:- #She only wants,not ready to sacrifice. #Double-standard! #Insincere to Love. #Quarrelling nature. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

10 Apr 09

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what is love according to you???

pratik87 @pratik87 (1927) • India 9 Apr 09

Different people have different ideas about how love should be and what love actual;y is. scientists say love is a a state of mind caused by release of chemical substances in the brain or something like that. what is you...

love

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forslahiri Hi, Love is numbers of Emotions related to strong attacment. according to me-"Love is the Beauty of the Soul". =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

10 Apr 09

How to maintian your love , give you some proposals

tf_skyline @tf_skyline (6) • China 10 Apr 09

I met my boyfriend on july 4, 2003, he was twenty years old and i was nineteen years . How can we last for six year? You know , no one has no fault . If his fefect is not so bad and you can bear it . don't drop him If your life...

love

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forslahiri Hi, U r Right,dear. Often Mask & Original face we cannot distinguish. We expect more,give less,sacrifice even less. & We call it is LOVE. Lust & Love are totally different. I wish U get REAL LOVE,when the scar heals. Donot expect Mr.Perfect,near-Perfect...

10 Apr 09

Do you know of the Haka?

Shula101 @Shula101 (268) • New Zealand 10 Apr 09

How many people here know of the Haka and its purpose? :p. I love the Haka. Its so, powerful.

haka

new zealand

question

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forslahiri Hi, as far as I know, HAKA is a traditional folk dance of Newzeland.It is performed in group(by men only),shouting together pressing legs on the ground. Purpose:-Haka was performed before battle,to frighten enemy & to worship the God of War...

10 Apr 09

What one quality do you miss in yourself?

jimmy87 @jimmy87 (475) • India 10 Apr 09

Hello everybody in myLot.. Since childhood,at different stages of life I missed various qualities in myself.Such as,whenever I saw Michael Jackson dancing and grooving to his music,I always felt the urge to dance like him,but...

music

singing

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forslahiri Hi, One quality I envy with others is the skill of ACTIVE LISTENING. It's a great skill to solve problems,think alternatives,showing empathy etc. If I miss a Quality in me,I miss that art of active Listening. I practice,but a long way to...

10 Apr 09

what will you talk if your President calls to your mobile?

deepika201 @deepika201 (268) • India 10 Apr 09

Let us think that you get a call on your mobile and it turns out to be President of your country.What will you talk to him.

president calls to your mobile

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forslahiri Hi, I'll be Dumb(out of excitement!)for sometime. Regaining strength I'll only tell her to take immediate steps to drive poverty,illliteracy & corruption from my motherland.I'll pray -God Bless You! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

10 Apr 09

black n blue mark problem

psychotaz206 @psychotaz206 (2086) • United States 9 Apr 09

i seem to have this black and blue mark problem when i go to bed i have no marks on me but when i wake up my left leg has black n blue marks on it , then the next day i got to bed i wake up and there are even more black n blue...

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forslahiri Hi, Is it painful? Have You noticed Ur veins in the legs?Is it seen from outside like a strangled rope? If Both Yes,U must visit a doctor & take consultation for 'Vericose Vein'treatment. Meanwhile,do some simple exercise.Lying down on bed,Keep Ur legs up...

10 Apr 09

oil for health

Ritchelle @Ritchelle (3790) • Philippines 3 Apr 09

what edible oil do you know, besides the famouls olive oil and coconut oil, that is considered a health oil? you know, one that you can take by the teaspoon in its pure form?

edible

healthy oil

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forslahiri Hi, The answer of Ur question is the oils rich in MUFA=Mono-Unsaturated fatty acid. Oils like Mustard oil,palm oil,ricebran oil,flexseed oil (beside oliveoil,u've mentioned)etc are rich in MUFA content than the% of PUFA(Poly-unsaturated fatty...

6 Apr 09

Is it healthy to apply deodrants on the skin directly?

PinkyPosh @PinkyPosh (226) • Canada 6 Apr 09

Hi all, When I was browsing through the net, I happened to read an article about applying perfumes. In one point it was mentioned that, it is not good for the skin when it is directly applied by perfume. i.e. The skin should...

deo on skin

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forslahiri Hi, Ok,for most perfumes. Only donot use perfumes(liquid/solid)just before going to the Sun.The essential oils with UV rays cause discoloration of skin,which is permanent! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

6 Apr 09

Can pregnant woman eat pineapple?

myfb2009 @myfb2009 (8296) • Malaysia 6 Apr 09

My mum and even my friends always advised me, not to eat pineapple whenever lm pregnant. Actually, it was an old wives tales that had been brought down to the new generation. They said it can harm the fetus since it's acidity is...

harm fetus

pineapple

pregnant

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forslahiri Hi, I can only share what I know,based on evidence. The source of this old-wives-tale is from ages pineapple is used in regulating Menstruation & as abortifacient.Drinking large amount of pineapple juice during pregnancy may cause uterine contraction,which...

6 Apr 09

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love poems

wangxiaozhi @wangxiaozhi (116) • China 6 Apr 09

If you were a teardrop;In my eye, For fear of losing you,I would never cry And if the golden sun,Should cease to shine its light, Just one smile from you,Would make my whole world bright. second: I have searched a...

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forslahiri Hi, Love... My tears are Red, Ring,Ring,Oh Bells She is in wedding Gown Just Splendid...o'bell; Ring,Ring,Loudly now.. Life-Bell for Her& Bride! Last death-bell,for ME! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

6 Apr 09

The Most Romantic Word

France7 @France7 (385) • Philippines 6 Apr 09

No word is more romantic than love. To many people, love means everything. A person becomes happy when in love, and lonely and depressed if unloved. Love is usually regarded as a great thing, immune from criticism/ But problems...

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forslahiri Hi, I agree with U(except Ur last line). Love never jeopardise...,it's our 'lust' in the name of Love. Love teaches us Sacrifice,not to Grab everything selfishly. Finally, U R a 'Romantic Person'.Hurt recently out of 'flurting', in the name of Love?Just...

6 Apr 09

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Boast

meetvivek @meetvivek (226) • India 6 Apr 09

Do you like boasting about special talents you have?

boasting

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forslahiri Hi, I am Jack of all trades,master of none! No special talent I've which can be boasted upon. (Shhhhhhhhh,except one- I can manage the tigress(wife) very well! hiohi...) =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

6 Apr 09

Which WORD or SLANG do you use the most??

jimmy87 @jimmy87 (475) • India 5 Apr 09

Hey,we use many words in our daily life,but some of them are used much more than others.. If someone had asked me this question,it would have been..bloody hell What word or slang do you use the most????

words

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forslahiri Hi, "Thank You!" "tusi Great Ho...(to my secy)! I often use these duo... =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

6 Apr 09

Were you inspired by the hand writing of any person

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 6 Apr 09

[b][i]and started writing in the same style when you were young and still sticking to the same style?[b] I used to gaze with awe at the italic style hand writing of my teacher Miss.Solomon and resolved to write like her and...

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forslahiri Hi, Everyone's handwriting has different style.Some handwriting are so good that worth copying(e.g-Miss Solomon,Rabindranath Tagore,noble-laureate of India etc). Actually handwriting can reveal one's Character.This skill is called Graphology.Still this...

6 Apr 09

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