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qianlizhifeng @qianlizhifeng (468) • China 28 Dec 12

They were the model couple in our neighborhood,but the husband unluckily passed away half a year ago because of some terrible illness.All the neighbors including us try our best to help her out of sadness and loneliness,but she...

loneliness

old lady

pass away

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GloomCookieLex Just leave her alone. Make sure she knows she can come to any of you for anything she may need, but leave her alone. Let her grieve in her own way on her own time-table. My husband died 6 months ago and I'm sick of people telling me how I should grieve him....

28 Dec 12

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GloomCookieLex @GloomCookieLex (6073) • United States 3 Jul 08

WTF?! Where do people get off on these ridiculous generalizations? Why is it so horribly unfathomable for someone to not want to have children? Why people feel the need to insult others for saying so? Why does everyone say, "oh...

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GloomCookieLex Thank you ^_^

28 Dec 12

ever_purple @ever_purple (522) • Philippines 27 Nov 11

most of my cousins, aunts and friends especially my mom does not agree marrying at 30 or above cause they're concern is that during that age its quite difficult to bare a child especially if it would be your first born. but as for...

purple

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GloomCookieLex I'm sorry, sugar, but you clearly have no idea what you're talking about. my reproductive organs have nothing to do with "Mankind" they are MINE to choose to use how I wish. Every mother who "risked her life" to bear her children CHOSE to do so. EVERY woman...

28 Dec 11

zeciram @zeciram (161) • Philippines 22 Dec 11

I am starting to hate my in laws!!! I have learned to accept who they are but recently, my MIL has gone overboard. She got upset at me because of invalid reason. I cannot stand her being so sensitive. Why can't she just shut up...

hate

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GloomCookieLex I can't help you with that, I detest my in-laws and I refuse to ever speak to them again.

22 Dec 11

incredibleDNA @incredibleDNA (1742) • Philippines 15 Dec 11

What has been the hardest thing to adjust to, and how have you handled it? Did you ever have doubts?

change after marriage

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GloomCookieLex Nothing changed at all. As far as doubts, I think it's only sane and intelligent to have doubts. Nothing is permanent, nothing is forever. To me, not having a doubt means you except the whole world to simply work itself out, which is just not reality.

20 Dec 11

ever_purple @ever_purple (522) • Philippines 27 Nov 11

most of my cousins, aunts and friends especially my mom does not agree marrying at 30 or above cause they're concern is that during that age its quite difficult to bare a child especially if it would be your first born. but as for...

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GloomCookieLex Your opinion, nothing more. Just because that is how you choose to live does not make you right nor I wrong. And it does not give you justification to accuse me of not valuing life. I do not believe that a heartbeat makes something an individual deserving of...

18 Dec 11

luckygrey67 @luckygrey67 (765) • Indonesia 17 Dec 11

If you have a choice : You Have great health with no money OR Rich but Sick What you prefer ?

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GloomCookieLex But most of the time you can't just choose to be healthy. You can choose to liver a healthier lifestyle, but if you're sick there's not a lot you can do about it.

18 Dec 11

luckygrey67 @luckygrey67 (765) • Indonesia 17 Dec 11

If you have a choice : You Have great health with no money OR Rich but Sick What you prefer ?

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GloomCookieLex As someone who is sickly and poor, I have a really hard time decided which is worse. But I think I'd go for great health. Being helpless and useless really sucks.

17 Dec 11

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nussisse @nussisse (2) • China 15 Dec 11

Most of my friends think 25~30 is the most suitable age for marriage,in their opinions,in this period of life,one's personality has been matured enough to bear the responsibility of a family.What do you think?

age

marriage

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GloomCookieLex Everyone is different and there is NO such thing as "too late" to get married. I also don't agree with putting a timeline on things like that. They will happen in their own time. Trying to force it only leads to poor decision making and mistakes. I...

15 Dec 11

nussisse @nussisse (2) • China 15 Dec 11

Most of my friends think 25~30 is the most suitable age for marriage,in their opinions,in this period of life,one's personality has been matured enough to bear the responsibility of a family.What do you think?

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GloomCookieLex That is completely false. 25-30 is NOT "old" for a woman to get married or have a child. And the female body is NOT "already aging after 18-20". The HUMAN body begins it's decline after about 25, BOTH men AND women. The female reproductive system begins to...

15 Dec 11

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