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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

I am a sensitive and emotional person, so I am easily affected by others, which makes me feel happy one moment and upset the next. I used to be ok with this, but now I find this very annoyinng both to myself and my friends. I just...

advice

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ianmeteor Is it about confidence and balance? I get it.. Thank you very much!

1 Jun 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 31 May 09

I am a sensitive and emotional person, so I am easily affected by others, which makes me feel happy one moment and upset the next. I used to be ok with this, but now I find this very annoyinng both to myself and my friends. I just...

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ianmeteor Hi med889, thank you for your advice. Actually I have tried but I think all I can do is try harder:)

1 Jun 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Unfortunately, I fell for a man who has a girlfreind. He is very loyal to her and she is really lovely. However, I told him how I feel about him and after his big "no", we decided to remain freinds. Although I stop having...

dilemma

fantasy

girlfreinds

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ianmeteor Hi jbrooks0127, I think you are offering a good and sound advice here. You are right, if I decide to make friend with her, I should be frank and honest. That is really important, thanks for your reminding!

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi streakykj, thanks for your encouragement and sharing! Actually I have been told by someone else that when you look for love nothing comes. But after years, I start to doubt, I mean will my mr right just come over and tell me I am the one? And here I think...

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Yeah, I agree, although I am blaming the bad happenings on fate, I think it is to some degree my own choice,maybe the part played by destiny is what we call "luck"? And I am just not lucky enough....Hey, thank you~

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi Chapstek, maybe you are right, I need to think wisely and learn to accept the consequences! Thanks a lot!

30 May 09

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Yeah, you are right. I must have too obsessed with the destiny thing and overlook the good side of it. And I am trapped in this dilemma just because I try to take it this way. I should make myself happy.. Thank you!

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi, Grungebox, you seem to be very rational to me, is that so? But I think you have a point here, people's choice bring them where and what they are. But sometimes, we just can't think that far before we make a decision, and even sometimes the thing doesn't...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi, ajithlal, you know what? I like your" everything happens for good". Although I am down for a while, I always cherish good hope for the future. I think it is not the good thing makes us happy, but the excitment when you are expecting the good thing. And...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Yes, going over the bad feelings is too much harsh for us. But you seem to be optimistic and after the bad experience you can just let it go.(Just guess). So maybe I should take this less seriously and try to forget it. However,thanks for sharing!

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Thank you very much, and if I get you right, do you mean that I am having a hard time right now may be caused by the bad deeds I committed in my previous life? Expecting your furthur answer...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Yeah, I think the worst thing is that you do not get what you deserve! what can we do? Carry on and move forward, do not surrender in front of destiny. Fight for it! Cheers! And Thanks!:)

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor You do not mean that I am fated to fall in love with someone unavailable, do you? Just kidding...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi Bradpete, thank you very much, that's very encouraging! You remind me of "the butterfly effect", everyone is born out of some reason, and this reason may be called destiny. I guess what I should do for now is to realize my value and be the master of my...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor Hi oinkgiz, that is very sweet! I know that the good thing will happen to me eventually.But after so much frustration, I just doubt if that will come true. You are right, all I need is patience but sometimes I still cannot help whining. Maybe the best thing...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Do you believe in destiny? In the past, I would say no, but now, I am not so sure.. I had twice unreturned love in my university. One was in my second year.The other was in my forth. Both of them didn't know me well before I...

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ianmeteor I know, but there is such times you think you make the right decision but it just turns out the other way. I mean you can do nothing about it. So... Thank you all the same!

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ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Unfortunately, I fell for a man who has a girlfreind. He is very loyal to her and she is really lovely. However, I told him how I feel about him and after his big "no", we decided to remain freinds. Although I stop having...

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ianmeteor I must thank you for your full consideration. I can feel your good intention. Like what I said, they are good people and I treasure them both. Therefore, I choose to believe that the girl just wants a friend. I would rather to take the risk than missing a true...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Unfortunately, I fell for a man who has a girlfreind. He is very loyal to her and she is really lovely. However, I told him how I feel about him and after his big "no", we decided to remain freinds. Although I stop having...

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ianmeteor Right, they are good people, I treasure them both.I guess I can be her freind without making damage to their relationship. And I would not plan the future, I mean no one knows what is gonna happen. I just need to follow my heart and do the right thing. I hope...

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

How do you feel if you introduce a new fish to your freinds circle and only to find that he/she gets more attention than you? Look, many of my freinds envy my job because I am the only girl in the office. My collegues treat me...

expectation

freind circle

jealous

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ianmeteor Yeah, thanks for making this complex so clear. You are right, everyone has their own life, and what I should do is to focus on mine and be myself.And this girl is still my best freind, cause I learn to be happy for her!

30 May 09

ianmeteor @ianmeteor (52) • China 30 May 09

Unfortunately, I fell for a man who has a girlfreind. He is very loyal to her and she is really lovely. However, I told him how I feel about him and after his big "no", we decided to remain freinds. Although I stop having...

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ianmeteor well, your words get me to think that maybe I should figure out my feeling towards the guy, and start this freindship after I am sure nobody will get hurt... Thanks!

30 May 09

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