infobyaj36

@infobyaj36 (907)

United States • Age 54

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Do you help your children in doing homework?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 20 May 09

It may sound strange but helping children in homework is not good, as told to me by the teacher, of my son, I didnt believe in that as i said he doesnt know how to, but pat came the reply "then how would he learn!" I am still...

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infobyaj36 Yes, I have 5 children two in college now and I still continue to help with homework when I can. I am not sure where you are from but here in the US our teachers expect the parent to help in the childs education and in not doing so you it would hurt them. The...

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Being who you are...

asherem2 @asherem2 (257) • Thailand 20 May 09

Do you believe that you can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation? Or what kind of person are you: are you a fountain or a drain? here in myLot - i know many of you can answer that...

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infobyaj36 I feel I am a fountain maybe not of wisdom of course but definatley of thought. I tend to really think about the responses I give on mylot and in everyday life. I would have to say that I would learn more about a person in a year of conversation although I...

20 May 09

do you have a friend who always borrows money and never pay?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 19 May 09

i have a friend. we know each other since kinder garten and we're still friend now that we're already 25 years old. i can't hardly remember the last time that we argue.but she has this bad habit of borrowing money but not paying...

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infobyaj36 I use this one rule when it comes to "borrowing" money to a friend. If I cannot afford to never get it back I say no. I explain that I do not have it, that may not mean that I do not have the money at the time but it simply means I cannot afford to be without...

20 May 09

Anyone else in a relationship right now?

lauriehomebusiness @lauriehomebusiness (656) • United States 24 Sep 08

Hi everyone. I will tell you all about me of why I decided to do this discussion. I am in a relationship that I have been in for 13 years now. We both met each other where at the time, I was almost 16 and he was 20. We are now...

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infobyaj36 I was 16 when I met my husband. We married when I was 18 and he was 22. He had a previous relationship and had a beautiful daughter from it. We have now been married 20 years, have 4 children together and step daughter makes 5. Our life together has its ups...

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Is there a such thing as summer camp for adults?

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 31 Aug 08

Now i know what you might be thinking but im not talking about that kind of adult camp lol, im talking about fun camps for adults with outdoor activities kinda like the ones for kids but only for grown ups, i was...

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infobyaj36 Check with your local WMCA I know they have camps for adults and families. And if you look online there are some State parks and lodges that offer different types of mini vacation camp like experiences for adults. Sounds fun....now all we need is time..lol

31 Aug 08

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What do you do when your find out your Partner cheated on you?????????????

eve301345 @eve301345 (658) • Philippines 19 Aug 08

I have a friend of mine who cheated on her boyfriend. When she find out about it she still forgive him and move on with there relationship. The thing that gets me is if that man done that once he may say I will not do it again but...

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infobyaj36 Because this man is only her boyfriend and they are not married I would say dump him. There many more men out there that would be better for her. Now if they were married I would say to at least attempt to save the relationship and see if you can overcome the...

19 Aug 08

Good Gift to my Boyfried!!

eve301345 @eve301345 (658) • Philippines 19 Aug 08

I have a BF which a lot older than me and it is hes birthday soon. He like perfume and boat. I been giving him perfume every special occasion we have and I want to give him deferent gift this time. I ask advice with my friends...

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infobyaj36 I think sometime's we tend to focus too much on what we think they would like. Of course you cannot buy him a boat and shouldn't your not married and a gift like that is just too big. Look at some of the things you enjoy doing together, maybe there are some...

19 Aug 08

Tired of having SKIN ASTHMA...help please

kyomboii10 @kyomboii10 (46) • Philippines 19 Aug 08

Hi, I have Skin Asthma and im getting tired of it, I had it since HighSchool and since then my life was never the same. Does anyone one of you has one too? Please shed me some light on how to control it, if not, get rid of it...

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infobyaj36 Skin asthma like allergies are auto immune disorders and yes there is help. I am a nutritional assistant to a Certified Nutritionist and we could help you. You will have to be willing to change some things in your life but if you are willing the right...

19 Aug 08

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What was the most romantic thing you ever done?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 6 Jul 08

When the word "romantic" was mentioned,straight away came across my mind was the relationship between men and women. Nothing is more romantic than the love between this two genders. Do you agree with me? Frankly, I had never done...

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infobyaj36 This may seem silly in comparison to the romance you see on the show but my hubby can be inspired with romance from time to time. For example, one day on his way home from work he seen wild flowers growing in our neighbors field. He pulled over and picked me a...

6 Jul 08

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So where should I place my 1000th responset hen?

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 6 Jul 08

It has been around two years of less than aggressive but at least consistent activity on myLot and I am only a number of responses away from reaching 1000! So where should I celebrate this personal milestone in terms of my...

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infobyaj36 Well congrats James. As far as how you should celebrate I am way off the mark so I have no idea. lol I don't know how some people got to 10,000 either they must live on this thing! I myself will admit my dedication is not that great. Enjoy your...

6 Jul 08

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my husband and his girl best friend who he was inlove for a long time

XnatenE @XnatenE (38) • United States 5 Jul 08

my husband and his girl bestfriend relationship bothers me alot. they have known each other since highschool. he was inlove all the time with her. she also had cause a lot of problem for him before. but my husband wants to be a...

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infobyaj36 UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR!! He is your husband first her friend second. That is all there is to it. He promised to love and honor you. He is not doing this by spending time "alone" with another woman. I do not have a problem with male and female friendships but...

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Why mama, why!

honeydew82174 @honeydew82174 (1720) • United States 3 Jul 08

How do you get though the why stage? My daughter is asking why to everything. Then you tell her why and she asks why again. lol. I can't remember how long this stages last. I will be happy when she is...

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infobyaj36 Everyone hates the "why" stage. It last for quite some time about a year or so depending on the child. But truthfully it never ends it just gets into more suitable questions instead of just why. Remember to be patient and anwer all the questions to the best of...

3 Jul 08