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Ivianca @Ivianca (14) • Sweden 2 Dec 08

Hi! I have a son who´s 9 months and have blue eyes. My husband is "typically" scandinavian with blond hair and blue eyes. I´m dominican with all the mixture we have in in my country. I wonder when my sons eyes will turn brown...

dominican

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Ivianca Thank you! The same for your family :-)

2 Dec 08

Ivianca @Ivianca (14) • Sweden 2 Dec 08

Hi! I have a son who´s 9 months and have blue eyes. My husband is "typically" scandinavian with blond hair and blue eyes. I´m dominican with all the mixture we have in in my country. I wonder when my sons eyes will turn brown...

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Ivianca That long?? I want to burst my husbands bubble now :-) Thank you :-)

2 Dec 08

Ivianca @Ivianca (14) • Sweden 2 Dec 08

Hi! I have a son who´s 9 months and have blue eyes. My husband is "typically" scandinavian with blond hair and blue eyes. I´m dominican with all the mixture we have in in my country. I wonder when my sons eyes will turn brown...

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Ivianca Thank you for your answer :-) When Alex was born he had navy blue eyes but they turn light blue when he was around 6 months. But everybody says that his eyes must turn brown because I have brown eyes :-)

2 Dec 08

Ivianca @Ivianca (14) • Sweden 2 Dec 08

Hi! I have a son who´s 9 months and have blue eyes. My husband is "typically" scandinavian with blond hair and blue eyes. I´m dominican with all the mixture we have in in my country. I wonder when my sons eyes will turn brown...

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PrincessKitten @PrincessKitten (790) • United States 10 Nov 08

I once heard a young woman say she wasn't going to burden someone else with her mistake, so she wasn't going to place her child in adoption. What do you think?

adoption

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Ivianca I can only speak for myself but my daughter is together with my biological son the best that ever happened to me!! I´m totally blessed!

2 Dec 08

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nimnim74 @nimnim74 (250) • Philippines 24 Nov 08

It took us so long to decide for an adoption, We already tried everything just to have our own child but it's been 7 years already but still we failed, so just recently we decided to adopt, we are in the process of having one and...

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Ivianca Hi! I have 2 children of my own, one is adopted and the youngest is biological. I think it+s natural for you to question yourself about your decision! We did it all the time but when we got our daugther all hesitations disapeared and we know that we made...

2 Dec 08

Ivianca @Ivianca (14) • Sweden 28 Nov 08

I´m so tired of people asking me that! Is it really that incredible for a woman of mixed "races" and a white nordic man to have children that are blond,blue eyed and fair skin? I hate going out with my son because of all the...

monkey

so tired

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Ivianca Thanks for your welcome :-) People here in scandinavia are more used to interracial children that looks less scandinavian than my son and thats why the find him almost like a "freak of nature" :-( And some people makes comments that really hurts. I come...

30 Nov 08

Ivianca @Ivianca (14) • Sweden 28 Nov 08

I´m so tired of people asking me that! Is it really that incredible for a woman of mixed "races" and a white nordic man to have children that are blond,blue eyed and fair skin? I hate going out with my son because of all the...

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Ivianca It´s very offensive and gets to me every time. Thanks for your support :-)

30 Nov 08

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 17 Nov 08

i forgot what i was reading but it was talking about how Sweden does a lot of adoptions to the usa because of the blue eyed babies.. that blue eyes are in high demand.. i thought blue eyes were the most common?!?!? am i wrong??

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Ivianca That information is missguiding people.An american citizen can only adopt a child in Sweden IF he or she is married to a swede and most likely through a third country like Colombia or India. But to the real topic: I don´t think that blue eyes are so raren...

30 Nov 08

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 17 Nov 08

i forgot what i was reading but it was talking about how Sweden does a lot of adoptions to the usa because of the blue eyed babies.. that blue eyes are in high demand.. i thought blue eyes were the most common?!?!? am i wrong??

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Ivianca Well... you do know that Poland and Sweden are two different countries? The artikel is about Poland! I live in Sweden and have an adopted daughter and it´s not easy to adopt a child and the goverment follows everything little step of the adoption. You can...

29 Nov 08

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Ivianca @Ivianca (14) • Sweden 28 Nov 08

I´m so tired of people asking me that! Is it really that incredible for a woman of mixed "races" and a white nordic man to have children that are blond,blue eyed and fair skin? I hate going out with my son because of all the...

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moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 17 Nov 08

i forgot what i was reading but it was talking about how Sweden does a lot of adoptions to the usa because of the blue eyed babies.. that blue eyes are in high demand.. i thought blue eyes were the most common?!?!? am i wrong??

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Ivianca Sorry to tell you this but, Sweden doesn´t have adoptions outside the country. The adoption of swedish children is about 20 a year, and they all are domestic adoptions.

28 Nov 08

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