Jackvan

@Jackvan (14)

China • Age 47

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Would you sacrifice for the sake of giving your child the best future?

rizadel @eloveriz2004 (499) • Philippines 11 Mar 10

It is every parent's goal to give all the necessary needs & wants of their children. I have a 9-month old baby named Carl Jaybert who is so sweet and cute, I and his dad loves him so much that we are most willing to sacrifice just...

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Jackvan I'm sorry that i can't agree with you. Child is very important for us without doubt, but not all. As parents, we should have our own lives. I think a whole and happy family is the best gift for the kid. We live together and raise child together, that's more...

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Who is the first person on your mind when you're sick or in pain?

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 11 Mar 10

I've been away from my family for several years now but every time I suffer from sickness a normal or severe one i am thinking of my mom whom I want to stay beside me when I'm not feeling well.I'm thinking about her care when i...

mommy

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Jackvan My answer is my wife. Because she is always with me.

17 Mar 10

do you keep a picture in your wallet?

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 23 Jun 09

i am.. my wallet has my picture and my husband's... i always like having a picture in my wallet, and most of my friends also have pictures of them or their loved ones in their wallet... i just noticed that when someone don't...

loved ones

pictures

wallet

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Jackvan Now, I keep two pictures of my wife in my wallet: One is her childhood, one is her youth. I will put my baby's photo in my wallet in the near future. I love my family!

25 Jun 09

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Enjoy life, enjoy what you have. Agree or disagree?

ShellyB @ShellyB (5241) • United States 9 Jun 09

I believe that in order to enjoy life one must enjoy first what we have and what we can do with what I have, it is enjoying today instead of waiting for tomorrow or regretting the past. I wonder how many agree with me. Do you...

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Jackvan I fully support you, my friend. Today is everyday. Now is everything. Treasure what you have instead of building castles in the air.

11 Jun 09

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Daydreamer2: What if you fall in love to someone who can't love you back?

Daydreamer2 @Daydreamer2 (470) • Philippines 9 Jun 09

i am in my college life right now and i fall for someone who is really numb at me and i feel so hurt about it until it reach 2 years of admiring him, i feel so jealous of the girls that comes to his life and until now my prayers...

fall alone

heartbreak

jealousy

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Jackvan Take my suggestion please, brave girl. Give it up uncompromisingly! There're plenty more fish in the sea. Out from the shadows, the days ahead is clear. Don't waste your valuable time in such hopeless things. Don't hurt yourself by the so-called "love". Life...

11 Jun 09

What do you do to keep fit?

jakill @jakill (835) 8 Jun 09

I do one or two 25 minute sessions a day along with Rosemary Conley on a video. Doesn't seem to be enough though. When I did a long walk last week, I got totally puffed on all the steep stretches. I don't expect to be able to keep...

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Jackvan Usually, I do broadcasting gymnastics before breakfast in the morning at home. Then I do it again after lunch in the office. in the evening, after dinner, I ofter go for a walk in our housing estate with my wife. Sometimes, usually in rest days, I do some...

9 Jun 09

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Do you think that most of the love marriages are not successful?

abhishek111 @abhishek111 (377) • India 27 May 09

I got some information from a recent survey that most of the love marriages are not successful. That is most of the love marriages are not long lasting. Whereas arranged marriages are quite successful on the other hand. Based on...

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Jackvan In my opinion, marriage is a lifelong career. No pains, no gains. May spouses love each other for all seasons!

27 May 09

kids having kids

dianamunoz1 @dianamunoz1 (125) • United States 25 May 09

what is you opinion on teens having kids?

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Jackvan In one word, it's unforgivable in any case!

27 May 09

is it ok for a teacher to fall in love with his student?

porygon @porygon (2) • Philippines 25 May 09

I am a language teacher at a young age. This gives me tne opportunity to meet and know other races. But, as a professional I must separate personal matters from the others. I had a student (of different race) and started to...

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Jackvan Frankly, it's NOT okay at all. STOP your horse on coming to the precipice. There's plenty more fish in the sea. Good Luck to you!

27 May 09

Quote of the Day...Behold the Woman

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 25 May 09

I just finished reading my emails and came across this one. It is funny, but so true. "Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you...

funny

life

women

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Jackvan It's intresting, I love it!

27 May 09

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should texting be banned while driving??

dragoncrystal @crysontherocks77 (1273) • United States 23 May 09

the state i live in is Tennessee and the governor just passed a law stating that's illegal to text and drive at the same time. what do you think?? is texting and talking on the phone while driving imparing you just like drinking...

texting while driving

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Jackvan In the traffic jam, or while waiting for red light, I sometimes read some texts. But I could't read while driving with no doubt.

26 May 09

what does it takes to be successful?

friendship4lyfe @friendship4lyfe (520) • Saint Lucia 22 May 09

Lots of people believe that to be successful in life you need to be a millionaire or a billionaire but there are different success.Mostly everyone of us have set goal we want to acheive,aim for things in life apart from money.When...

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Jackvan In my view, money is not a most critical matter in terms of success. Wealth is not the only yardstick for measuing success. Live as you belive, never walk in anyone's shodows. Go your own way, do your best. Everyone has a chance of success! Trust yourself!...

26 May 09

at what age do you plan to get married?

xannebull @xannebull (1793) • Philippines 22 May 09

when i was still single, i used to plan on getting married at the age of 25, and have baby at the same age. But i was married at the age of 24. 1 year before planning to get married. i thought that being 25 was the right age of...

married

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Jackvan My gender is male, and i got married 5 years age at the age of 27, when my wife was 23 years old. We live very happily together after marriage. In my opinion, as long as the couple loves each other sincerely, age is not an important matter. May all shall be...

26 May 09

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Which Would You Prefer? Being Rich or Being Happy?

candramawa @candramawa (114) • Indonesia 20 May 09

Hello every one! How's life.. I noticed that there are some people with different destiny. Some people are rich.. some others are not. Some people are happy.. some others are not.. How about you? Are you rich and happy? Which...

happy

rich

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Jackvan I prefer being happy than being rich,of course. obviously,if the live is unhappy,then what is the use of a lot of money?

22 May 09