jemmerp

@jemmerp (59)

United States • Age 56

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Life is too short. My friend died after a party last night

jamed28 @jamed28 (1903) • Philippines 8 Aug 10

I just got a call this morning that a close friend of mine just died from a motorcycle accident. We where just hanging around last night, drinking beer. And around 2am we parted ways. And that is the last time I saw him alive. His...

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jemmerp Ah well, we all have our own time. I always see death as a positive thing since I believe that one transform or goes back to its origin form which is energy. Of course some believes they either go to heaven or earth, some believes they will be reincarnated,...

8 Aug 10

How Long does it take you to Write

ronslove @ronslove (481) • Philippines 7 Aug 10

I just started working as an article writer paid by hour. Problem is, it takes time for me to write. I spend more than an hour doing research, half an hour to organize my thoughts and an hour to write and edit. More or less, I...

freelance writing

writing

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jemmerp It takes an hour for me to write 600-700 words article. How? I research the topic online, skim through each paragraph and choose the ones related to the topic I am writing about, then re-read each paragraph and understand it, write on how I understood on what...

7 Aug 10

A person avoids his/her life.

sjaswon @sjaswon (635) • Jamaica 7 Aug 10

I remembered my friend is a young man. I knew him to good man. When he come to my home. I smelled his clothes. I asked him you are smoking? He said in sighing "Yeah". I warned him that you will hit your heart. He said in slow...

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jemmerp I have smoked since 13 years old and still enjoying it now that I am 42. I guess if I die of cancer at the age of 50, it will be alright. Considering I have enjoyed it so much in 3 decades, suffering from it even for a year will equate all the joys it has...

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Does it really matter if you're virgin or not?

Goldamier @Goldamier (104) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

I've read an informative article saying that some guys are still looking for virgins. Is it true?

virgin

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jemmerp Oh my! I never thought this question is still relevant. But yes, the only answer to this question will be based geographically. In the city, virginity does not matter. In rural areas, people think virginity still gets a few points among men.

7 Aug 10

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Can you fall in love online?

bcote212 @bcote212 (1112) • United States 7 Aug 10

My friend recently told me that he thinks that he is falling for someone. I was happy for him when he told me this. After talking a while he told me that the other person is in New York City, we are located in Baltimore MD, a...

love

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jemmerp Oh I did many times but only a few came to see me. We had short relationships. I've met my current partner online and we have been together for a year now. So being inlove online can work out but of course, this will be finalize after meeting personally.

7 Aug 10

Older women with younger men -- yay or nay?

moonchild117 @moonchild117 (1987) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

Guys, are you okay with dating older women? And girls, is it okay for you to date a younger man? And I'm not just talking about a year older or younger. Like, 5 years and beyond. My sister's 32 and she seems to be playing sweet...

dating

older women

younger men

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jemmerp lol! are you from ice age? nonetheless, the problem lies in your psychological moldings. it seems you have pre-setup values that makes you uncomfortable with younger-older relationships. i would suggest start opening up your mind as there are so many things...

6 Aug 10

PRAYER that moves mountains...(please share your thoughts)

juneramir @juneramir (334) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

Often when we face such a circumstance in our lives, rather than looking to God immediately, we complain, and we moan and groan to our friends. We get down in the dumps, we lose our faith, we ask God where He is – while all the...

mountains

prayer

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jemmerp oh i've stopped praying. it is weird when you pray and then when it is answered, you praise god. when it is not, you just simply say god has other better ways. whether you pray or not, the fact is, things can go either way.

6 Aug 10

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how to maintain your relationship

Ongtina @ongtina (1232) • Singapore 5 Aug 10

What do you specially do for your spouse to keep the relation good? How often do you do it? How do you treat your spouse on the usual days? Do you think it's good enough?

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jemmerp Most of the times, i would compromise to whatever is not being agreed upon.Understanding those who cannot understand seems to be the key to any relationship if you want it to be harmonious continually. You must know when to end unending arguments for the sake...

5 Aug 10

so hot!!!

chenpingping @chenpingping (152) • China 5 Aug 10

it is hotter and hotter,i just stay at home.i often feel depressed for no reason, easily to get angry.and the most important thing is that it is too hot to sleep.

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jemmerp ehr,if you don't have any other choice, go down deep in your thoughts and imagin you are in alaska surrounded by snow. it can help a bit.

5 Aug 10

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How often do you confront people?

hushi22 @hushi22 (4928) 5 Aug 10

I have noticed something in my workplace, people do not know how to confront or at least it's safe to say only a few do know how. They seemed to love just prejudice and spreading rumors. I don't like this behavior because it...

confrontation

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jemmerp Communication is always difficult with lots of people. Confronting someone is a good act but most of the times, it ruins relationships more than build it. I guess I can say that before you confront someone, you should think whether what you should say will...

5 Aug 10

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Why are relationships so complicated?

kellywelly03 @kellywelly03 (17) 5 Aug 10

Surely they should be happy and stressfree... pah. not in reality. hmph. :-|

life

love

stress

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jemmerp Ehr, relationships are not complicated. Only our understanding is limited and that is why it is difficult for many of us to maintain it. Simply put, if you understand all, there is no need to question. Bwa ha ha ha

5 Aug 10

free will or destined?

bokal2703 @bokal2703 (802) • Philippines 5 Aug 10

What or who decides our fate? Do you believe that it is you who control your destiny or you believe that it is God/chance/universe decides on what will happen to you?

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jemmerp Combine the two without mentioning something about god. Do what you must at your best, and if fate bring otherwise, accept it. That way, you follow both and in the end, you are not to be blamed. Bwa ha ha ha!

5 Aug 10

do u hate it when your mom calls you while watching the tv????

abj163 @abj163 (1037) • India 5 Aug 10

i just hate it....my mom calls me whenever i am watching the tv...she calls me fo me for anything and i gets angry but i just control myself and try to keep me cool..... so what about you mylotters???

hate tv watch mom

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jemmerp Hmmn. Get a tv recorder that way, you can be disturbed anytime. Or if you really must, talk to your mom about it. Maybe she will understand :)

5 Aug 10

Are you thinking of Going Back?

Proud Dad of Twins :) @primeaque86 (8108) • Philippines 1 Aug 10

Just this morning, I had a little tour at the past... NO Computer, NO Cellphones, NO Chat but reading mailed letters from the post... I just feel great. I just don't know. It's that life is simple yet worth living before... I...

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jemmerp Oh don't worry, you can always remember the past and enjoy the happiness or the pain it brings. It is part of being human. And do not stress yourself with the present. Just enjoy it as well. And the again, enjoy thinking whatever future may bring. That way,...

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