JessicaSearcy

@JessicaSearcy (117)

United States • Age 34

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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If today was your last day..

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 14 Oct 09

You just found out that today was going to be your last day on Earth. What would you spend your day doing? Who would you want to see? Where would you go? What kind of legacy do you want to leave when you're gone? It's really...

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JessicaSearcy Hahaha, This is the first Mylot comment to make me laugh out loud. Very nice way to be creative. :) Wouldn't it be nice to just do all those things and donate the money or give the money to someone that really needs it or deserves it. Or just to your friends...

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thanks for your comment, yeebutler. Three months isn't too big of an age difference at all. My fiance is only five months older than me and it doesn't cause any problems for us, either. Best of wishes to you and your girl friend. And also happy mylotting!

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thanks for sharing with me, Bluepatch. 18 and 35 is a pretty big age difference, but it looks like that didn't have effect on your parents relationship. I guess you're right, it does depend on the people in the relationship and their maturity levels. Happy...

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thank you, Hatley! I would never marry someone ten years older either. I'd rather date someone around my age, that has the same kinds of interests that I have. I've seen a relationship like the one you mentioned above, too. Happy mylotting!

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thanks so much for a wonderful response, Bliu11! You and your husband sound like a match made in heaven! :) Looks like you got lucky and found you a keeper! :) I wish you two the best of luck with your future! Happy mylotting!

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thanks so much for a wonderful response, iceydon! I agree with you that communication is one of the main keys for a healthy, successful relationship. Also I agree that a lot of times maturity doesn't depend on the age of a person. Some 40 year olds act like...

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Wow, I guess that's something an older woman has to worry about when dating a younger guy? I hate that happened to you, I'm very sorry to hear about it. I guess age sometimes can make a difference. Thanks for sharing with me, jillmalitz. :)

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thank you for sharing with us, amandakringle. I'm the same way as you are when it comes to being independent and not liking having someone always smother me. I can understand where it is probably hard for your fiance to get back into going to concerts and...

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy True love does not worry about age. In my opinion, a relationship has a few really important key factors. I believe that is trust, communication, and understanding. Thank you so much for your response and happy mylotting!

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thanks so much for sharing your opinion with us, KarenJohn! I agree with you about the extremes. Age doesn't matter for some of us, but extreme age differences can make a difference. My fiance is only 5 months older than me, but he is so mature for his age,...

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thank you for your response, gohigh00. You are absolutely right, according to the country as a whole, they consider age important. Maturity is the key. The more mature a couple is, the higher the chance of that relationship lasting. And I definitely agree with...

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thank you, ericaldo! I agree with you, age shouldn't be a factor of any relationship. It's about the feelings you share with someone that matter, not age nor looks.

14 Oct 09

Akon! Puts on GREAT concert:)

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

I saw Akon in concert a couple weekends ago, and he was amazing! He was crowdsurfing and everything, Has anyone else seen him live? Any opinions on Akon?

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JessicaSearcy Thanks for your comment, mnk202! I also enjoy Akons music! (obviously.) haha :) You should definitely consider trying to go see him live, it's an awesome experience. Now I want to go see Lil Wayne. :) Happy Mylotting!

14 Oct 09

Akon! Puts on GREAT concert:)

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

I saw Akon in concert a couple weekends ago, and he was amazing! He was crowdsurfing and everything, Has anyone else seen him live? Any opinions on Akon?

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JessicaSearcy Thanks for your response! I would definitely recommend trying to go see him when he comes to your country! He is a great energetic artist and you can tell he is really serious about his music. You'll be very entertained if you go! Happy mylotting!

14 Oct 09

Do you think curfews keep teenagers out of trouble?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Do you think that curfews keep teenagers out of trouble? I don't think curfews keep teens out of trouble. I believe its respect for your...

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JessicaSearcy Thank you very much for your response! The best answer, most definitely. You made a lot of good points, and I can definitely tell you have good parenting skills. Kids often do end up with the wrong kinds of "friends" and that's what usually sends them down the...

14 Oct 09

Ever lost a friend?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

I lost my very best friend in a car accident in August of 08. I was following them when they had the wreck and had to see the whole thing. It was a very hard experience being so

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JessicaSearcy Thank you for your response, robertjvan. You're very lucky you've never experienced anything like it. I hope and pray that you never have to go through that kind of hurt and pain. Happy mylotting!

14 Oct 09

Ever lost a friend?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

I lost my very best friend in a car accident in August of 08. I was following them when they had the wreck and had to see the whole thing. It was a very hard experience being so

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JessicaSearcy Thank you for sharing, jillmalitz. My best friend was also 16 when he passed away. He turned 16 on August 12th and died on August 31st. He didn't even get a chance to get his first car. And you're absolutely right, it seems like the best of the bunch are...

14 Oct 09

Ever lost a friend?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

I lost my very best friend in a car accident in August of 08. I was following them when they had the wreck and had to see the whole thing. It was a very hard experience being so

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JessicaSearcy Thank you for sharing your story with me, dorannmwin. I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. I know that it isn't easy to go through. I told my friends parents I was naming my first son after Ian, too. How crazy is that? I've yet to have any kids yet because...

14 Oct 09

Ever lost a friend?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

I lost my very best friend in a car accident in August of 08. I was following them when they had the wreck and had to see the whole thing. It was a very hard experience being so

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JessicaSearcy Thank you so much for your comment. It gave me chills reading that, even made me tear up a little. I'm so sorry to hear about what happened, I know it isn't easy. Especially when it's your husband, I can't even imagine what that was like. You are so...

14 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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JessicaSearcy Thanks so much for your answer. I agree with you also here. If both of the people in the relationship want it to work and want to be together, then age doesn't even begin to start problems. I also agree that the most important part of a relationship is trust.

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