josemyms

@josemyms (31)

United States • Age 62

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Can You FORGIVE and FORGET????????????

AskAlly @AskAlly (3625) • Canada 18 Jan 07

Your spouse has cheated on you, your best friend has betrayed you, another friend has lied to you. Can you forgive and forget. I would have a harder time forgetting

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josemyms But the guilty WILL suffer when they know that you have forgiven them.

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Can You FORGIVE and FORGET????????????

AskAlly @AskAlly (3625) • Canada 18 Jan 07

Your spouse has cheated on you, your best friend has betrayed you, another friend has lied to you. Can you forgive and forget. I would have a harder time forgetting

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josemyms I forgave mine. But it turns out that by me forgiving him made only myself feel better about it, lol so thats why we forgive, Hes the one with the guilty conscience thats tearing him up. I'll never forget it, but I also will never slap him in the face with...

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When you can forgive but you cant forget?

eaforeman6 @eaforeman6 (8979) • United States 23 Jan 07

What about this problem...an injustice has been done to you , it may be by family members, you have forgiven but you never feel the same and you are uncomfortable being around them. What do you do? It shows that your attitude has...

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josemyms aww shywolf, I hear ya, some of us have really sensative feelings and that goes along with treating others the way you want to be treated, (the golden rule) And we expect the same treatment back,but that doesn't always happen. and we seem to be targets for...

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When you can forgive but you cant forget?

eaforeman6 @eaforeman6 (8979) • United States 23 Jan 07

What about this problem...an injustice has been done to you , it may be by family members, you have forgiven but you never feel the same and you are uncomfortable being around them. What do you do? It shows that your attitude has...

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josemyms That was very well put. I like how you think thinkingoutloud.

24 Jan 07

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When you can forgive but you cant forget?

eaforeman6 @eaforeman6 (8979) • United States 23 Jan 07

What about this problem...an injustice has been done to you , it may be by family members, you have forgiven but you never feel the same and you are uncomfortable being around them. What do you do? It shows that your attitude has...

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josemyms Could it be that these people are so nieve that they don't even realise that what they've done hurt you? Have you told them what they did wrong, and how you feel about it?

24 Jan 07

I want the divorce but feel immobilized...

splendor777 @splendor777 (1) 29 May 06

I have been separated for a year from my physically and verbally abusive husband. He has confessed to me that he has fathered a child outside of our marriage and that the child is now five years old. We have been married for...

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josemyms Don't you have legal aid in your state? My divorce cost me nothing and my ex husband is paying child support and spousal maintenance. And he paid an attorney.

30 Dec 06