jpaxxx21

@jpaxxx21 (170)

Singapore • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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who could be unhappier?

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 7 Apr 11

the mistress who knows the guy has a wife to go home to or the wife who knows her husband has a mistress to cling on to when everything is all messed up. sometimes, the burden is on the part of the mistress. she has to respect the...

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jpaxxx21 that is true, the mistress will never be happy being in that situation forever. the mistress can be a wife if she intends to find another guy & marry, the wife now will always be a wife if the husband admits to his faults & change for the betterment of their...

8 Apr 11

who could be unhappier?

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 7 Apr 11

the mistress who knows the guy has a wife to go home to or the wife who knows her husband has a mistress to cling on to when everything is all messed up. sometimes, the burden is on the part of the mistress. she has to respect the...

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jpaxxx21 it is a tough situation but it depends on how u react to it. it won't happen to anyone if he/she knows the value of respect :)

8 Apr 11

who could be unhappier?

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 7 Apr 11

the mistress who knows the guy has a wife to go home to or the wife who knows her husband has a mistress to cling on to when everything is all messed up. sometimes, the burden is on the part of the mistress. she has to respect the...

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jpaxxx21 the wife would be unhappy. in the first place, the mistress is ready for that unhappiness. but the wife expected a smooth marriage & her husband's affair with another could not be any more painful :( the mistress has a choice, the wife has no choice (not...

8 Apr 11

who could be unhappier?

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 7 Apr 11

the mistress who knows the guy has a wife to go home to or the wife who knows her husband has a mistress to cling on to when everything is all messed up. sometimes, the burden is on the part of the mistress. she has to respect the...

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jpaxxx21 i still feel for the wife. if all the guys would give up their mistresses then go back to the wife, there won't be enough men for the mistresses. lol.

8 Apr 11

my friend

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 4 Mar 11

i have a friend who is a mistress. I know i should not tolerate her but I don't know how i can maker her understand. She knows in the first place that the guy has a wife. I have been her friend for so many years now & so far, I...

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jpaxxx21 and that would be the most painful part of the relationship... i just wish the man would slap my friend's face early enough before breaking her heart totally :(

7 Apr 11

my friend

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 4 Mar 11

i have a friend who is a mistress. I know i should not tolerate her but I don't know how i can maker her understand. She knows in the first place that the guy has a wife. I have been her friend for so many years now & so far, I...

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jpaxxx21 thanks a lot! my friend has been through tough relationships. the last serious relationship she had was really painful. her boyfriend broke up with her only to realize that he had a 3-year steady relationship with another & married a month after the break-up....

7 Apr 11

my friend

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 4 Mar 11

i have a friend who is a mistress. I know i should not tolerate her but I don't know how i can maker her understand. She knows in the first place that the guy has a wife. I have been her friend for so many years now & so far, I...

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jpaxxx21 tell me how to advise a friend who is happy now.. sometimes, i think an advice is best heard when the person is already in pain...i'll just keep praying for her.

7 Apr 11

my friend

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 4 Mar 11

i have a friend who is a mistress. I know i should not tolerate her but I don't know how i can maker her understand. She knows in the first place that the guy has a wife. I have been her friend for so many years now & so far, I...

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jpaxxx21 that is so true! i just wish i can do something without really doing anything.if u get what i mean. i don't want to meddle with her life. she might think i am against her happiness. i can see the guy loves her but u see, my friend has access to the guy's...

7 Apr 11

movie title, anyone?

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 5 Apr 11

this movie stars antonio banderas. it's a comedy. i tried to search for Antonio Banderas's movies on google but can't seem to make out the title. Sigh! I could recall the movie plays his role as a guy who pretends to have a twin....

antonio banderas

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jpaxxx21 oh, thanks.. i actually searched through antonio banderas's movies. i wonder why the last time i searched i could not even recall the title. :)

6 Apr 11

A Dear Dear Mylot Member Is In Need Of Prayers For Her Husband!!

CatsandDogs @CatsandDogs (13963) • United States 4 Apr 11

I recieved an email from a dear dear friend from Germany (book1) in need of prayers for her husband! I'm shocked with all she's going through and now her husband! OMG! She's stressed out beyond the max that I'm afraid she's going...

a dear friend in need of prayers

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jpaxxx21 i'm sorry to hear about your husband. it must have been hard for u. I hope ur Dad will be ok.

5 Apr 11

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hands up

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 28 Mar 11

i have a problem with my hands coz they are rough. Eversince I was a child i already have rough hands :( I am quite shy when people shake hands with me. I try my best to put on lotion at work most especially it's an...

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jpaxxx21 whoa :) thank u so much! i will do that :)

29 Mar 11

found my match

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 20 Mar 11

okay, here goes my 4 year relationship with my bf.. during my past relationships, my exes are always the ones who move away to another country. it's what i fear the most when the other gets fed up working out the communication....

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jpaxxx21 thanks! :)

28 Mar 11

found my match

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 20 Mar 11

okay, here goes my 4 year relationship with my bf.. during my past relationships, my exes are always the ones who move away to another country. it's what i fear the most when the other gets fed up working out the communication....

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jpaxxx21 i think u're right on the last part :) haha..

28 Mar 11

found my match

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 20 Mar 11

okay, here goes my 4 year relationship with my bf.. during my past relationships, my exes are always the ones who move away to another country. it's what i fear the most when the other gets fed up working out the communication....

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jpaxxx21 thanks renhard :) actually, my ex-boyfriend before would set a time for us to chat, talk on skype, he calling me, then emails. I was scared that one day he might get fed up with the schedule & I would expect too much & just disappoint myself. And i did expect...

28 Mar 11

found my match

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 20 Mar 11

okay, here goes my 4 year relationship with my bf.. during my past relationships, my exes are always the ones who move away to another country. it's what i fear the most when the other gets fed up working out the communication....

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jpaxxx21 how can we ask for space when we already literally have space? lol. It's nice to know opinions from different people. I guess we differ due to experiences. Thanks though but I won't worry now coz we're together again. Cheers!

28 Mar 11

how to prevent varicose veins

jpaxxx21 @jpaxxx21 (170) • Singapore 28 Mar 11

when i was in the food & sales industry before which require me to stand for 10 hours, i always wear tights underneath as my mom advised me. It sure helps because I don't get tired easily:) But i wonder what could really prevent...

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jpaxxx21 after having walked for long hours I always elevate my legs when I get home. I wonder if it's okay to wash up after resting for like an hour. I just feel the need to be clean before hitting the sack. I wonder if that's okay. I'm just scared to get varicose...

28 Mar 11