kakuemmom

@kakuemmom (859)

Canada • Age 58

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Somethings Make Me A Little Uncomfortable

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 22 Feb 08

I have seen several posts on this site recently that make me uncomfortable. In my limited opinion I don't feel like they are something that should be allowed on a "family site", but I'm not sure what the guidelines are as to what...

discussions

inappropriate content

mylot

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reporting

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kakuemmom For me unless it is blatantly disrespectful I ignore it. The best way for these posts to go away is for no one to answer them. But if it is really bad i would report them. I wouldn't want to say anything right to the person cause that could blow right up in...

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A pet is NOT just for Christmas, please think carefully this festive season

recycledgoth @recycledgoth (9894) 3 Dec 07

I know this is probably one of those subjects that has been done over and over again but this morning I heard something that made my blood boil. We have a large pet shop in our local high street and it is always busy. It is a...

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kakuemmom Pets as presents can be OK but really it should not be a whim present. We gave my oldest when she was 12 a hamster for her b-day but before she got it she had been asking for so long for one. So we started with a goldfish if she took care of it properly we...

3 Dec 07

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Who should be responsible for the death of the pregnant woman?

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 3 Dec 07

A pregnant woman died at dystocia in the hospital yesterday after her husband refused to sign the agreement for a caesarean operation, JCRB.com reported. Zhang Liu sent his 9-month-pregnant wife to a hospital at around 4 pm. His...

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kakuemmom Wow first off the husband for sure is partly responsible. He should have signed the papers for the c-section. But I feel the hospital too, they have a duty to try to save a life if they can. Now they knew that mother and baby were going to die and the only way...

3 Dec 07

school food rules

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 30 Aug 07

a while back i had posted about only being allowed healthy snacks at my daughter's school. well i got a list of acceptable things today and what isn't accepted. it's crazy. i get the no chips no chocolate and no cookies. but they...

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kakuemmom My daughter would starve, I don't think its the schools place to decide what my child should take to school for lunch. That is my role, no nuts that makes sense but beyond that none of their business. I would be in a constant battle with the school for sure.

30 Aug 07

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Do you think peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are a healthy lunch for kids?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 26 Aug 07

Growing up, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches were a regular staple for lunch. I think most moms during the 1970s and 1980s made those for kids. I hated carrying them to school, cause the jelly always soaked through the bread by...

gourmet cheese

healthy lunch

healthy lunch for kids

parenting advice

picky eaters

supernanny

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kakuemmom I used to love PJ but I now have a daughter who is allergic to peanut butter so it is no longer an option in our house. Where i am from and most if not all of Ontario the schools are nut free. As a parent of a child with this allergy i find this very assuring....

26 Aug 07

How many of you wear glasses?

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 23 Aug 07

I wear glasses only when I am trying to read something, I know when you get i your 40's that is when you need them if you have had good eye sight, till that age, some people half to werar them for the rest of their life. I have...

eye glasses

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kakuemmom I have worn glasses since i was 3 years old. I have no depth perception, I have tunnel vision in my right eye and was crossed eyed before surgery. Now i am older i find my eyes are getting worse but there is nothing to be done about it. The eye Dr says no more...

23 Aug 07

Children with ADD/ADHD

kplano @kplano (2) • United States 23 Aug 07

Do you beleive in children with ADD/ADHD? I guess I never did, i always thought it was lack of discipline. But now I am haing some major issues with my 4 year old son. Several people that I have talked to including my daycare...

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kakuemmom one thing ADD and ADHD are very real. If you have any concerns about this please take your son to the Dr. share with him or her what your daycare provider says about how he is during his time there. There are simple test to find out again your Dr can help....

23 Aug 07

What comes first in your morning, shower or coffee?

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 22 Aug 07

I'm not assuming that everyone showers in the morning. I know some shower in the evening or in the afternoon. I'm not assuming that everyone drinks coffee either. But if you do both of these things, which do you do first? I...

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kakuemmom COFFEE COFFEE COFFEE I only function after I have coffee lol. I am so lucky though my parents live in the in-law apt in our house and she is up early every morn and I wake up go downstairs and the coffee is already made i just have to pour and drink. After...

23 Aug 07

How many times a day do you take bath?

carolline_c @carolline_c (143) • Brazil 23 Aug 07

I take bath twice a day. Sometimes 3 times a day, if it's possible. And if could I would take 5 baths a day! I just love water and being clean. How abou you?

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kakuemmom With three kids i am lucky to find the time in the day to have 1 bath let alone 2 or more. I shower or bath every other day and wash at the sink every day.

23 Aug 07

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Utah Mine collapse, how long should they look for survivors?

whywiki @whywiki (6066) • Canada 23 Aug 07

It seems the co-owner of the mine where the collapse happened will bore a sixth hole to search for the trapped miners and if that fails to find them then he will stop the search. In my opinion they should search until they find...

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kakuemmom The only time the search should be stopped is when they have found them all dead or alive. The family's need the closure I don't think i could go day to day wondering if they were still alive when they gave up and only died because of hunger or thirst. I would...

23 Aug 07

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Should parents go to jail because their kids aren't going to school?

Laurla98 @Laurla98 (786) • United States 23 Aug 07

Do you think its fair to punish the parents of children that aren't going to school? I understand when kids are younger and in elementary school. But if you think you see your kids off to school or drop them off and then they take...

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kakuemmom When children reach a certain age they feel that they know everything and nothing a parent says or does makes a difference(not matter how good a parent they are) Punishing parents for children's mistakes is just plain wrong. What does it really teach the...

23 Aug 07

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Couple in China try to name their child @

AnjaP @Rollo1 (16679) • Boston, Massachusetts 17 Aug 07

A couple in China have applied to name their newborn son "@", the ubiquitous symbol in every email address. According to the couple, the "a" and "t" can be pronounced to mean "love him". Gwenyth Paltrow and her husband Chris...

weird celebrity names

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kakuemmom I think it is cruel to give your children weird names celebrity or not. These children have to live with these names and other children can be so cruel. Now my kids all have normal names but each have a nick name. They are cute little names that we and only we...

18 Aug 07

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Do you ever feel like your mother should "butt out" of your business?

mskim2u2004 @mskim2u2004 (355) • United States 12 Aug 07

Sometimes I feel this way. My mother for the longest has her mind made up that she ALWAYS knows whats best for my child. I have had to tell her several times that this is my child, not hers, and I know what is best for him. The...

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kakuemmom Yep Yep Yep all the time but my mother lives in the downstairs in law apt. I see her all the time but she knows when not to push to many buttons. I used to get upset when she would take it upon her self to tell me what i was doing "wrong" or should i just say...

12 Aug 07

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Number going down down down

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 9 Aug 07

Everyday I come to mylot and I respond and discuss. As I do this my number rises. Next day I come back and the number is lower. I spend the day responding and the number goes up. Next morning it is down again. I think as I...

going down

going up

numbers

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kakuemmom Yep all the time, my numbers go up and down all the time. I am starting to get fed up with it. OK so they are deleting discussion fine but i don't answer ones that are bad nor do i give answers that would cause them to be deleted that i think now is just an...

10 Aug 07

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Are you a snoop?

patgalca @patgalca (18366) • Orangeville, Ontario 9 Aug 07

Do you snoop when you are at other people's houses? Do you look through their things? When you are in the bathroom do you look in the cupboards? Do you watch your neighbours from your window? Come on. Tell the truth. My...

going through cupboards

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kakuemmom No I do not snoop it is none of my business what others do. I would hate it if I knew someone was snooping through my things so i would not do it to others. I really think it is quite rude to do this. Even my children's stuff is private the only way i would...

10 Aug 07

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Do you save leftovers from your dinner?

Jennifer21 @Jennifer21 (2476) • United States 16 Jul 07

I always do, but I don't know why. We never eat them and they just sit in my refridgerator forever! I never clean my fridge out either, how about you? I have soooo many leftovers sitting in my fridge, that if I would have...

clean

leftovers eat

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kakuemmom I have a husband that works 12 hours a day and teenage son so there is never any food wasted here. leftovers are always ate some get taken to work my husband loves a hot meal instead of sandwiches. My son never stops eating so nothing is wasted. As for...

17 Jul 07

How did you meet your current partner (bf / gf / husband / wife)?

michecu @michecu (637) • Philippines 16 Jul 07

Well, i know there are amazing stories about how people meet. So i wanted to share with mine and you may share yours too... I met my current bf through a friend of mine. my friend and me were supposed to meet for a movie, but...

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kakuemmom I met my husband 21 years ago through my now sil. I was her babysitter and one day when i got to here house the kids i took care of met me at the door and said shhhhhhh uncle Derrick is asleep on the couch. I walked in and here he was naked half covered with a...

17 Jul 07

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