llldj51

@llldj51 (39)

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I have heard that having a baby is painful and then others say it's not?!?

carrara58 @carrara58 (20) • United States 11 Mar 08

I want to know from mommy opinions on how painful (or how not painful) having a baby is. If you have had a painful experiance, could you give an example to compare the pain for us "non-mommies" out here.

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llldj51 For me my first and my third where the worst labours for me. They where both 30+ hours and I am allergic to Pethadine and Morphine so I had to have all of my children the old fashioned way 'No Painkillers'. My second however was only 3 hours and was totally...

12 Mar 08

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morning sickness!!

cici224 @cici224 (7) • United States 11 Mar 08

I was wondering if anybody has advice or tips for morning sickness. This is my first pregnancy and I am sooo nauseous all the time. I am starting my 3rd month, and the doctor gave me a prescription for the nausea but I don't want...

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llldj51 I was sick with all 3 of mine I found cracker's helped, but there not for you. I feel for you that's for sure. Have you tried Lemonade or even flat lemonade can help. My freind is pregnant at the moment and she said that Coke helps her with her sickness. I...

12 Mar 08

Should We Try For A Child?

rockvixen @rockvixen (894) • United States 11 Mar 08

So about an hour ago my doctor calls and tells me that they won't renew my birth control pills because of my age. I'm 30 and she said to me, it may be time that my husband and I concieve. I told her about my financial issues and...

concieve

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llldj51 In my opinion the doctor has no right to tell you when you should be having a baby. That decision is up to you and your partner and no-one else. If you aren't ready to have a baby than I would go to a different doctor and get a prescription from them. If you...

12 Mar 08

Before you fell in love.... did you considered these points?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 10 Mar 08

One day one of my friend. who was experiencing some problem with his love life told me, look when you fall in love, you never think about these points beforehand. i asked him what are those points? he told 1. My Gf is pure veg...

love

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llldj51 With my experience I didn't think of any of those factors mine was a case of we saw eachother got to know eachother for about a week and we both knew that we where ment to be. Money can be a very big issue in a relationship and so can race with some cultures...

11 Mar 08

Secret

violeta_va @violeta_va (4831) • Australia 10 Mar 08

I needed few days to process this info and now that all the pices fit I need someone to tell it in confidence :). Here we go. I have a friend (lets call her Ann) that I went to school with and we are still very close. She has...

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llldj51 I'm in the same sort of situation as you are at the moment. I have just found out that a friend of mine slept with her husband's best friend. I have not told anyone because I know that if my friends husband found out it would devastate him like there's no...

11 Mar 08

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what are your phobias in life?

Popsiecles @skbh12 (2946) • Philippines 10 Mar 08

me i am very afraid of ROACHES eventhough it is already dead and i see it on the floor lying, i couldnt even sweep it using a broomstick.. i dont know what has happened to me that gave me so much fear whenever i see roaches...

phobias

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llldj51 I hate roaches dead or alive they make my skin crawl. My biggest fear though would have to be Mice, they make me get into big sweets can't stand them. My only other fear are spider's if i see one then i have to kill it or get someone else to do it. I suppose...

11 Mar 08

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am i to strict on my daughter

cowgalcarly @cowgalcarly (11) 7 Mar 08

hello ' everyone can someone please tell me what they think about my story i have a nine year old daughter and i dont let my daughter out the front door or back door she is not allowed to have freinds or people come over here...

am i strict on my daughter

swimwear

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llldj51 I am sorry to hear what you went through as it must be very hard. I had my first child when i was just 18. I than went on to have another child which was a girl and I had a very hard time with that I wouldn't let anyone be alone with her. As a result of my own...

9 Mar 08

I Love You?

omar0913 @omar0913 (942) • Legaspi, Philippines 6 Mar 08

How often do you use this word's "I Love You"? Do you realy mean it or your just making fun out of it? I often use this words before my wife and I go to bed and as we woke up, or sometimes, to my kids, to my mother, I don't...

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llldj51 I say "I Love You" every day and I mean it very much. I tell my husband every morning when we wake, during the day and then again every night at bed time. I also tell my children that I Love them every morning, night and during the day when I can. In some...

8 Mar 08

Do you belive in love at first sight?

sexyraj @sexyraj (18) • India 1 Mar 08

plz dnt give any theories or somewat like that . BE HONEST DO U BELIEVE IN love at first sight?? hAVE U EVER FALLEN??

love

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llldj51 YES!! I certainly do believe. It has happened to me and we are still together and stronger than ever, it's been 10 years now. It can absolutely happen to anyone.

8 Mar 08

How Young Is Too Young To Wear MakeUP?

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 8 Mar 08

How young is Too Young to wear make up Makeup? I have seen girls as young as 9 or 10 wearing make up and I dont think it looks good at all. I think that is too young to be wearing make up. They just seem to grow up too fast these...

make up

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llldj51 I don't think that girls should be wearing makeup untill they are atleast 13 or older. Girls these days do want to grow up to quickly and they don't have enough self respect either. The girls that do wear makeup at a young age think they need it to be more...

8 Mar 08

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Kids and Homework

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 8 Feb 08

Do you sit with your kids as they do their homework? Or do you let them do it on their own and help them when they need you? How important do you think is a parent's involvement in a child's homework?

children

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llldj51 Sitting down as a parent whilst your children do there homework is very important in my belief. On the other hand though "How many parents actually have the time to do this?" I have 3 children, 2 that go to school and a toddler. I don't have the time to sit...

6 Mar 08

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Homework

chrislotz @chrislotz (8137) • Canada 5 Mar 08

When I went to school, years back, we hardly ever had any homework. Today it seems that the kids in school have more homework than they do work at school. I don't think this is too fair for them, because they have to be able to...

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llldj51 I agree that children do get too much homework. I have a child in grade 2 and another in grade 5. Both of them bring home Spelling words, Sentences, Maths and my grade 5 child also has to read a book every night. They both get home from school and then have to...

6 Mar 08

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