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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

marry or not to marry again

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im_theboss why do u want to marry? r u taking the step for the betterment of ur children, or what is the fact which is compelling u to marry again? ('cos u dont seem to be interested to marry again). i can sense ur feelings n know how hard it is to accept another man...

28 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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ethanmama Take everything one day at a time. Don't pressure yourself regarding marriage. You don't have to stay a widow for the rest of your life, but you don't have to get married too if you don't want to. It's really your choice. It won't be fair to compare 2...

28 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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thecaitycat You don't need to make that decision until/unless you meet another person. For now, I wouldn't worry about it. My grandmother's been a widow for three and a half years and she's been in a relationship now for about two and a half years with one of her old...

28 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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PacificChief you are only a spring chicken.There is a lot of living for you to do yet Your body has a lot of misusing to undergo.Start going to places to meet people,get yourself fit,get yourself prettyed-up,at only 43 there should be a whole lot of shaking going on,come...

28 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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vhansen I'm a widow too.My husband died when my sons were 8&3.I never considered that I wouldn't marry again or that it wouldn't be as good as the first.It took me awhile but I did remarry and to a wonderful man.My advice is to just take it day by day.Keep your mind...

28 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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Polly1 Yes it is scary to be alone, somehow, someway things will work out. I am also scared of being alone, I never used to be. I always knew my husband would be coming home. Feel free anytime to private message me, it might help for both of us to have someone to...

23 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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profclark I am a little confused. Is there someone that you have an in terest in marrying now, or are you just afraid of the whole concept? It seems if you were able to find the love of your life once, if you let go of the fear and let yourself shine through, you will...

23 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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Polly1 I am a widow for a little over a year now. I had a good husband, I miss him so much. I miss being loved and protected. I am sure you understand how I feel. I loved being married, I miss it so much. Having someone in my life, life can get lonely when you are...

17 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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ogtuwan Loving someone so much and losing them is one of the hardest thing this life can give... Never be afraid of loving someone... never be afraid of giving someone a chance... Those people who take risks and those people who move on are the ones, who truly feel...

17 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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manong05 I agree that that matter should be a cause for concern for the reason you cited about your late husband. However, it should not be a cause for worry. You don't have to worry unnecessarily. Just enjoy your life and be prepared to cross the bridge when you get...

17 Feb 07

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apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 13 Jun 09

I thank its much safer to shop with a prepaid credit card becuse theres no worry of overdraft fees, and what ever site your paying cant take more then whats available on that card, and with reguler credit cards you risk some site...

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lpetges I thank its much safer to shop with a prepaid credit card becuse theres no worry of overdraft fees, and what ever site your paying cant take more then whats available on that card, and with reguler credit cards you risk some site taking more then what you...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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slickcut I just had another thought ..It does sound as though you are still grieving,so i would give myself more time to heal.If you are a believer,then pray and ask God to send you someone...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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slickcut First of all lorelen,don,t ever think that you will find another man like your husband who passed away so im telling you that because it i true,and there is no need to try to find one just like him,he was the love of your life,the man you had your children...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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Rhylic1986 I don't know want should be said. But life contain many possibilities.Maybe you will meet a good guy who will give your concern as you late husband. Then you'll forget the saying "there is no second glory"and forget you are a widow. May you find a excellent...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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cheenlly Its not really complicated in your case since your already a widow. If someone comes along and you will feel the same feelings that you feel with your late husband then i think theres nothing wrong. I believe there is a second glory. After all you deserve to...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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mansha At present I think you atre still grieving so its not nice to carry the old relationship memories good or bad in to a new relationship. I think for p[resent you should focus on your kids and bring them up with love. Do not hesitate however to make new friends...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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jolope by the way you say it..i think you really want to marry again..but i think to compare defeats the purpose of excitement for your new relationship.. but you know what, i think that if you really felt loved by your late hubby then i think you should just focus...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

I am a widow for almost 2 years, i have 2 sons, 20 and 14 years old. I am worried and afraid to marry again, coz theres a saying that "there is no second glory". My late husband loved me so much that i think i cannot find any man...

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michelledarcy I don't think that is a decision you can make at the moment. If another man comes into your life then that is the time for you to decide whether you can be together. I think that you shouldn't stay alone for the rest of your life though as everyone needs...

16 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 12 Feb 07

1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that i need not have all i ask for. I'm only testing. 2. Don't protect me from consequencies. I need to learn the painful way sometimes. 3. Don't make rush promises. Remember that I feel...

what are the donts

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thunderofsins Don't be inconsistent, I need to know that the rules and boundries will always be there. Don't be afraid to hug me, even when I act like I'm too tough for a hug, I need one. Don't forget to say "I love you", I know that you do but I need to hear it too.

12 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 @lorelen_12 (47) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

Five years ago, i rememebered that i suffer a pain in my uterus, every 1 hour go to comfort room to urine, i ignored everything cause the pain is tolerable..................

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marjonelle I am sorry to hear that... but what you posted right now will merit everyone. It is a lesson that we should learn, right? Don't ignore small symptoms for it will lead to more serious disease. Thanks for this enlightening post. God bless you and get well soon.

10 Feb 07

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