lynnpamelago

@lynnpamelago (64)

Philippines • Age 51

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Best age difference between siblings?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 21 Feb 07

What do you think is the best age difference gap for siblings? I only have one child now. My son is 10 months old. I am thinking maybe I would like to have a 2-3 year gap between kids. What do you think is best? what is the...

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lynnpamelago The age gap of my kids is 4 1/2 years old. By the time my baby was born, my eldest child was already "independent" in some ways. But you can never avoid jealousy, no matter how old the older child is. I guess the best age gap between two kids should not be...

21 Feb 07

When you became mom?

nehakalley4 @nehakalley4 (1918) • United States 20 Feb 07

I have been married around 10 months back and we are planning for kids atleast after 2 years of marriage. Do you think it is fine as I heared from someone yesterday that it is safe to get a baby with 2 years of marriage otherwise...

marriage

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lynnpamelago Having kids is a lifetime commitment--commitment to take care of a new life you brought to this world. Therefore, if you're not ready, it's ok to wait. Spend time with your husband for the meantime. YOu'll enjoy this time together because once the kids start...

20 Feb 07

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Would you move to another country for the one you love???

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 20 Feb 07

I an Swedish and I met the man who was going to be my husband when I was working in New York a summer three years ago. I had never before thought about moving from Sweden, but since we fell in love and decided to get married one...

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lynnpamelago If you feel that it's worth it, then go for it. Worth it, meaning, you know you love this person deeply and you're sure he loves you whole heartedly; it will be financially rewarding for both of you, especially if you start raising a family; the country you're...

20 Feb 07

Are you a perfect wife?

robinemz @robinemz (211) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

What would you rate yourself from a scale of 1-10 (where 10 is the highest rate)? To start, since my husband complained and told me that im devoting most of my time for our baby and almost no time for him anymore..id rate myself...

wife

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lynnpamelago I'd give myself a 5. I admit, I'm a lousy wife. I can't even cook. And I'm also guilty of giving too much of myself to my kids. I'm a full-time mom and that's what I concentrate on, to take care of my kids, to give them what they need, to watch over them. I...

20 Feb 07

Mamas, did you have sonogram/doptone use during your pregnancy?

astromama @astromama (1221) • United States 19 Feb 07

I went to birthclass last night and was shown a very scary video on ultrasound and how it affects normal cells. The video was of doctors and technicians who say that ultrasound is so new they don't know the long term effects, but...

doptone

pregnancy

questions and answers

sonogram

ultrasound

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lynnpamelago Oh no! I've been pregnant twice and on both pregnancies my doctor, who is a sonologist, used her machine a lot to check on the baby. She used on during my monthly check-ups and at that time I found nothing wrong about it, until I read this post. I hope this is...

20 Feb 07

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which country do u like most? do u want to live there?

funfreak2k2 @funfreak2k2 (1734) • India 28 Nov 06

i like England very much but i dont want to live there. i am happy where i am.

country

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lynnpamelago I have visited around 5 coutries. among all 5, the country I love most is USA! And yes, I'd love to live there, if only I had the chance to do so. I feel that it's a very beautiful place, and there are many opportunities for the citizens if only everyone would...

18 Feb 07

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Do you LIKE WHEREyou LIVE?

western_valleygirl @western_valleygirl (1363) • United States 18 Feb 07

California was was my home, for almost my entire life. And, there really is no place better, there is everything, you would ever wish to see, green grass, tall mountains, abundant forests, vast deserts, and cities with bright...

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lynnpamelago I don't really like where I live. I live in a 3rd world country where life is getting more and more difficult each day due to the economic crisis. We're just a little bit luckier than the rest of our countrymen because our city mayor is doing a great job....

18 Feb 07

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which do you prefer, very hot weather or very cold?

cher913 @cher913 (25782) • Canada 15 Feb 07

I remember this song, no idea who its by, but it says 'always take the weather with you...' If you read my post from yesterday, it was about the snow storm that we were gifted with. Today adding insult to injury, the temp is...

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lynnpamelago I would take the cold weather with open arms anytime in exchange for this hot weather we have in our country. I am at my happiest when I visit countries with cold weather.

16 Feb 07

Children in restaurants

ryleesmama @ryleesmama (560) • United States 15 Feb 07

Does it bother anyone else when they see children running around the restaurant? It is an accident waiting to happen. There are so many people moving at a quick speed often with hot items or glass in their hands. I wish some...

children

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lynnpamelago I couldn't agree with you more. It annoys me when kids run around the restaurant. This happens to my daughter when she has company who also influence her to run around. It angers me so much but I can't reprimand the other kids--I mean I can't because their...

16 Feb 07

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do you trust your nanny so much???

krislouiebaby @krislouiebaby (2346) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

i have a neighbor,she has a five month old baby,she is working the whole day so she hired a nanny for her baby.after a week her baby had a diarrhea,and they rushed him to the hospital,and the doctors found out that he was fed with...

parenting

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lynnpamelago I have 2 kids. I was a hands-on mom to my eldest one, translation: I took care of her without the help of a nanny. Now that I have 2 kids, I must admit, I can't manage without any help so I hired a nanny. Despite this, I don't leave my kids to the household...

16 Feb 07

Do you think it is okay to tell other peoples children what to do?

carissa765 @carissa765 (1097) • United States 15 Feb 07

If the perents say that it is okay do you think you would step up and tell their child to stop doing or to do something that you felt appropriate? I feel that even if someone gives me permission to reprimand their child I will...

judging

parenting

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lynnpamelago In my case, I would only tell other people's children what to do or what not to do if I feel they are hurting/affecting my children. Otherwise,I wouldn't really bother about other people's kids.

16 Feb 07

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why do people have a child?

yakabe @yakabe (85) • Indonesia 15 Feb 07

is it a must to have a child? my parents always ask me to have a son if i get married, but i dont like kids, n im not ready for it

child

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lynnpamelago NO it's not amust to have a child. You only have one if you believe in yourself that you can commit yourself to parenthood. It's a 24/7 job. No vacation leave, no sick leave....you have to be on the go. So don't be forced into it if you don't feel ready for...

15 Feb 07

How do you stop a 4 yr old peeing the bed at night?

seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 14 Feb 07

I have a 4 yr old step-daughter and she still has a problem with pee-ing in the night. We have mattress covers but its such a pain having to wash them continuously. Anyone got any tips on how to make it stop? Thanks M17

kids

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lynnpamelago I know how stressful this stage is, both for you and for your step-daughter. My daughter is 5, and we are also going through the same problem. We can only do so much to help them. At this age some children can't hold their bladders. And some sleep too soundly...

15 Feb 07

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mother of two

CU4799 @CU4799 (25) • India 12 Feb 07

I am a proud mother of two cute girl children and I am really proud to say this. But what disturbs me is the look on the face of others when I say that I have two girls. Is it necessary that we have atleast one boy and for what...

mother

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lynnpamelago I have a daughter and a son, but I don't really mind if i had either 2 boys or 2 girls.Don't be bothered by what other people say. Whether you have 2 boys or 2 girls, it doesn't really matter. Boys are no better than girls, and girls are no better than boys....

15 Feb 07

What scares you the most about becoming a parent?

cassidy22 @cassidy22 (2974) • United States 12 Feb 07

And did your fears KEEP you from wanting to start a family? I'm scared of going through labor, so my husband and I might adopt if I don't think I can actually go through being pregnant and giving birth. HOwever, the real show...

life

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lynnpamelago before i had children, thinking of childbirth was terrifying to me. I just couldn't see myself going through all those medical procedures. I overcame it when the day came for me to give birth. I was there, my doctor said she had to perform a c-section, and I...

13 Feb 07

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What is your religion? Jew/Christian/Catholic/Islam/Buddhist/Hindu/Free Thinker

friendly1974 @friendly1974 (73) • Malaysia 13 Feb 07

I just want to know the population here, because it does affect the way you guys answer discussions. Thanks.

friends

mylot

religion

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lynnpamelago I am a Christian

13 Feb 07

How many good friends do you have in real-life?

angelhuihui @angelhuihui (264) • China 12 Feb 07

I have only two,and you? A good friend someone who changes your life by being part of it.someone who makes you laugh untill you can't stop;someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world;someone who...

friendship

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lynnpamelago Friends are important in our lives. They are there whether you're happy or sad. I remember a song that went,"to laugh with, to cry with, to be just beside with, a friend, that's who I need." It's so true. And if I were to categorize them as GOOD friends, I...

13 Feb 07